Sympathizing: Must Loving Fishtown Equal Hating Belmont?

 

We have plenty of folks on Ricochet who inhabit Belmont, more or less, but identify with Fishtown. It seems the easiest way to signal this sympathy is to be a self-hating Belmontonian. But what if you don’t hate everything about Belmont? Is it possible to sympathize with Fishtown even then? I would say yes. Though I would not, at this point, expect to be believed.

I recently reviewed Dreamland, a reporter’s magnum opus on the opiate addiction epidemic. My interest in its devastation isn’t academic. After all, I, too, have known chronic pain, death-wish despair, and repeated exposure to opioids through injury and surgery. Nor am I the only one in my family to have had these problems. Yet we’ve been spared from narcotics addiction, and the buffer of Belmont customs is at least partly to thank for this. Growing up, I hadn’t thought of myself as “Belmont.” My parents’ one sacrifice to dwarf all others was buying us a precarious perch in a Belmont neighborhood so we could attend its famed Belmont schools. It meant money was always tight. We dressed in the kind of secondhand clothes that made other kids point and laugh. In Belmont, we were at the bottom of the food chain, and that, plus my family’s right-leaning distaste for Belmont smugness, left us thinking of ourselves as outsiders, crypto-Fishtowners. It took leaving Belmont to find out how Belmont we’d become.

Being Belmont isn’t such a bad thing. There’s much more to Belmont than smugly looking down on the rubes. We rely on Belmont to support much of the finest flower of Western civilization – the arts, the sciences. As Charles Murray noted, Belmont neglects to preach the morals it still practices, while Fishtown struggles to practice what it preaches. But practice is not nothing, especially for youngsters who get to grow up surrounded by the practice. In my teens, I began attending about the Belmontiest church you could imagine – folks way richer than us, socialites on the “in” when I was “out,” with everybody reluctant to preach what they practiced. But among the things they practiced was traditional worship music (it’s why I went) and, as Lutherans like to say, music is its own sermon. You can get a pretty good Christian formation in one of those churches by ignoring what’s spoken and taking to heart what’s sung. And oh, the music!

Whenever I’m around other classical-music lovers, I can pretty much guarantee that I’ll be in the political minority. Loving classical music seems very Belmont, and my family never did adopt Belmont’s progressive politics. It can grate to hear other musicians and music-lovers toss off progressive opinions like they’re sure everyone agrees. It can grate that the arts aren’t “owned” by the faction whose stated political project, after all, is preserving the best of Western tradition from whatever threatens it. It can grate, but what does not grate is listening to and making music – participating in the perpetuation of that tradition – with these progressives. We decry progressive attacks on aesthetics when Belmontonians support modern works that don’t deserve to be included among works of historic greatness – but that only happens because works of historic greatness are still being performed, largely thanks to Belmont’s support. Music, at least, is something traditional conservatives do with Belmont. Not without it.

From music, and the tacit-but-powerful pressure to stay on the straight and narrow, to all the other social resources and little customs which can fortify a family in the face of pain and despair, my family owes Belmont too much gratitude to really hate it. If proof of loving Fishtown is denouncing Belmont, I’m in trouble. Should it be?

According to some, perhaps:

If the poor have vicious habits, whose fault is it — theirs or the people who made fortunes encouraging and refining these habits with the help of international consulting firms?

Supposing the indictment against international consulting firms were true, not every Belmontonian makes money with the direct help of such a firm. But just being part of the Belmont class – or even getting along ok with the Belmont class – might seem like tacit approval of those who do. As @jon just observed,

Elitism is Belmont hating Fishtown. Populism is Fishtown hating Belmont. Either is just Americans wanting to hurt their fellow Americans, which is where our politics has been for at least a decade.

Is it still possible to be neither an elitist nor a populist? To have sympathy for those who are hurting without hating the better-off?

Published in Culture
This post was promoted to the Main Feed by a Ricochet Editor at the recommendation of Ricochet members. Like this post? Want to comment? Join Ricochet’s community of conservatives and be part of the conversation. Join Ricochet for Free.

There are 215 comments.

Become a member to join the conversation. Or sign in if you're already a member.
  1. Misthiocracy Member
    Misthiocracy
    @Misthiocracy

    Judithann Campbell (View Comment):
    Of course, he doesn’t drive expensive cars anymore, and there is no question that lots of people in America are not above stealing a car, but that isn’t the same thing as just being pointlessly destructive.

    This could be a great illustration of the difference between European and American poor. In America, the poor want your stuff. In Europe, they want to destroy it.

    • #61
  2. bridget Inactive
    bridget
    @bridget

    Umbra Fractus (View Comment):

    Lois Lane (View Comment):
    That is so interesting that actually happened. I had an English lady explain to me once in Bristol why she loved going to FL so much. She said almost verbatim that in the UK people key cars that are nicer than theirs, whereas in the US people work harder to buy a nicer car.

    I’ve been saying for a while that socialism is the belief that keeping up with the Joneses is immoral, but wanting to drag the Joneses down is perfectly fine.

    That is brilliant and I’m stealing it.

    • #62
  3. Misthiocracy Member
    Misthiocracy
    @Misthiocracy

    Michael Brehm (View Comment):

    Misthiocracy (View Comment):
    What’s it called when you grew up on a rural road with five (pretty nice) houses on it, ten kilometres from nowhere, with an hour-long school bus ride twice a day?”

    I don’t know what you call it where you’re from, but in my neck of the woods we call it Greble Road. ?

    Yup, that looks a heck of a lot like the street on which I grew up (although the river behind my house was substantially more navigable).

    I therefore decree that from this point forward we shall refer to this third paradigm (neither Belmont nor Fishtown) as “Greble Road”.

    So say we all.

    (Seriously, it is eerie how familiar that road looks to me,right down to the yellow newspaper box.)

    • #63
  4. I Walton Member
    I Walton
    @IWalton

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    I Walton (View Comment):
    Isn’t the whole point that we live as of we believed in traditional values, enjoy stable relationships, value many inherited traditions, but for some reason support progressivism for the poor and the lower middle class in spite of what it has done to them.

    But obviously we don’t all support progressivism for the poor and lower middle class, even if we’re Belmontonians.

    Being “Belmont” is a cultural and geographic designation, not a political designation. For it to be conflated with having Progressive politics is problematic for several reasons: it encourages blaming members of politically heterogeneous class for a kind of politics they don’t all share, and it encourages those in that class who don’t share those Progressive politics to feel more isolated than they really are. I mentioned that, in the classical music world I’m familiar with, that’s already pretty isolated, but classical music selects for that bohemian artist streak (which has pretty much always been Progressive) on top of selecting for Belmonticity.

    The way I see it, it’s hard to share the traditional values Belmontonians still largely practice but are ashamed to preach with Americans whose misfortunes have alienated them from those values by adopting a blanket shame of Belmont, since blanket shame includes shame over those tacit traditional values, too.

    Murray’s argument is that Belmontonians are so immersed in the tacit residue of those traditional values, they’re like fish who don’t know what water is. So Belmontonians misattribute what makes Belmontonians happy and productive to stuff like organic baby food, and try to push that on the poor instead of those tacit values. And Fishtowners, understandably, find the organic baby food pointlessly snobbish and tell Belmontonians to shut up. And if Belmontonians take the “shut up” advice to heart, they won’t start sharing what really makes their lives good with those who’ve had the misfortune to be alienated from the good life.

    It’s easy to conflate “let me share my Belmont values with you” with “let me share my Progressive politics with you”. There are Belmontonians who make that conflation themselves. Assuming that all Belmontionians do, though, is license to never listen to the Belmontonians who don’t.

    Exactly.

    • #64
  5. Von Snrub Inactive
    Von Snrub
    @VonSnrub

    I think we’re looking at this wrong. For me it comes from, coming from Fishtown, now in Belmont, but all the Belmontian’s tell me I got here through white privilege.

    You don’t have many sympathies for your fellow rich white liberal, who assumes you had the same journey.

    • #65
  6. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    bridget (View Comment):
    Maybe it’s a regional thing, because I also spent seven years living in a town that might just be richer and snottier than Belmont (voting patterns: pretty much straight down the middle), but the commentary about how we conservatives don’t properly support the arts grates on me. Maybe we just don’t shove it in people’s faces… and maybe there’s also perfectly respectable art – real art – in smaller, less flashy cities in red states.

    It’s not that conservatives don’t. It’s that conservatives who don’t (and there are a lot of them, too) are suspicious of conservatives who do because patronage of the arts is stereotyped (by right-wingers, too, not just Progressives) as a “Belmont trait”, and therefore liable to suspicious accusations of creeping Progressivism. Have you never met conservatives who treated perfectly innocent (even beneficial) “Belmont” traits as a mark of “elitism” and “inauthenticity”?

    When there is perfectly respectable art in smaller, less flashy cities, it isn’t there because it’s indicted as “Belmont” and therefore rejected as inauthentic. Instead, it’s judged as something that’s for everyone, even though “Belmont snobs” are disproportionately represented among the visible patrons of that kind of art.

    But, if the patronage of Belmont is treated as, by itself, a reason to disparage something as inauthentic and crypto-Progressive, then we shouldn’t be surprised if those who feel alienated and socially marginalized from their own culture decide that perfectly respectable art is too “Belmont” to be associated with, which will leave less art for everyone, especially the less well-connected – while leaving those who feel marginalized from their own culture even more marginalized from it than they were before. I’ve seen some of that happening, and it worries me.

    We know it’s a problem when blacks get disparaged by those who accuse them of “acting white” when they pursue elevated ambitions. We should expect a similar problem when “acting Belmont” comes under similar suspicion from those on the right.

    • #66
  7. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    Robert McReynolds (View Comment):
    While it is true that many in Fishtown are there because of their own life choices and failings, is it not also true that some in Belmont are there because of arrangements made via the government that harm people in Fishtown?

    It seems to me you’re missing something:

    A great many are in Fishtown neither because of their own life choices and failings, nor because “the Man” in Belmont held them back. Sometimes, life just sucks, in a way that can’t be blamed on either individuals or their class of “enemies”.

    When life just sucks, Belmontonians are lucky to be embedded in a culture that helps buffer them from the worst of the suffering. (As I mentioned in the OP, I know I have been lucky in that way.) Unfortunately, Fishtowners don’t have the same buffer.

    Some of that buffer is wealth, of course, which the poorer, by definition, will always have less of. But some of it is culture, and when it comes to culture, partisanship that pits Belmont culture and Fishtown culture against each other risks driving those cultures even further apart, which won’t hurt the Belmontonians as much as it will hurt the Fishtowners.

    • #67
  8. Ed G. Member
    Ed G.
    @EdG

    Valiuth (View Comment):

    EJHill (View Comment):
    What are you offering today? A barista’s job for a job that wasn’t destroyed, just moved? The garmet still gets made, the air conditioner and the auto still get produced, they’re just imported.

    What’s wrong with being a barista? I guess we think less of service jobs than manufacturing jobs, partly because of pay partly because of mythology? How did manufacturing jobs get to be so good?

     

    …..

    Nothing is wrong with being a barista. The difference is that one can animate a region while the other is dependent on some other animating force in order to exist. You can’t coffee-shop your way to economic health unless there is some other source of economic life for it to draw from.

    There seems to be two broad concerns about these economic life-forces in our country: 1) when they are chased away because of policy, 2) when technological and efficiency advancements mean that the presence of these production centers simply does not translate into life-force circulating throughout the region as much as it may have in the past.

    I think the left mostly owns the policy side of this, but in the exact sense of some of the pushback EJ Hill is articulating I don’ think the right is blameless either.

    On the technological advancement side, I think the right needs to think and speak much more about the long term implications for the American way of life. For the left it’s not much of a problem that there’s an increased benefit accruing to fewer people – that’s leads rather rationally to some form of increased government planning/management/redistribution. If we want to avoid that path then we need better answers than move, be an engineer, or suck it up. For instance, conceptually I might trade a sales tax or import tax in exchange for eliminating payroll tax and income tax; I might trade a universal basic income in exchange for eliminating social security and welfare.

    • #68
  9. bridget Inactive
    bridget
    @bridget

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):
    Have you never met conservatives who treated perfectly innocent (even beneficial) “Belmont” traits as a mark of “elitism” and “inauthenticity”?

    Maybe I have? But it is in no way common or pervasive enough to notice, let alone worry about.

    Again, maybe it’s a regional thing, but I am generally unfamiliar with this.

    • #69
  10. Ed G. Member
    Ed G.
    @EdG

    bridget (View Comment):
    I grew up in (what was) a very middle class town. Many of my friends’ parents were teachers, nurses, and cops. Almost everyone’s parents had been married to each other before the kids were born and stayed married. The town generally votes about 60% Republican in statewide elections, despite being in a deep blue state.

    Some stupidly high percentage of the kids went to college immediately after high school (over 90%, if memory serves me correctly). Many went to state; the kids at the top of the class tended to go private. We had good schools for the price and outstanding sports teams. There were often field trips to Symphony Hall and the MFA because our teachers and families wanted us to appreciate the arts.

    This was not Belmont but was not a far drive from Belmont. My dad – a man with no taste for snobbery – enjoys telling people at ritzy functions where he lives, to watch their faces scrunch up in contempt.

    Thanks to the massive bubble that Massachusetts is riding, tiny Cape-style houses there are now going for $400k. Split levels, built in the 1960s with no frills? $600k. MA is riding the higher education bubble and the health care bubble.

    (Shrug) So I guess my opinion is that various policies are pricing normal people out of healthy, affordable towns. ……

    Bridget I live in that exact neighborhood, only in Chicago. Our housing bubble burst in 2008, but the only reason it’s still chugging along is because all of those teachers, firemen, and policemen are still riding the public benefits bubble – which will likely burst sooner rather than later. This bubble has papered over the same factors we’re otherwise talking about: poor choices, poor policy, advancing our way out of a broadly shared economic health.

    • #70
  11. Hang On Member
    Hang On
    @HangOn

    James Lileks (View Comment):
    The first driver was an immigrant – here for 3 years, originally from Somalia. Grateful to be in America. Worked another job and was going to school to learn IT – coding, networking. Skilled labor. The other was a native-born young woman with a Graphic Arts degree who didn’t have a job in Graphic Arts, but she had a website, and was hopeful something would come along. She didn’t know how to code and kept telling herself she should learn HTML5 and CSS. She could tinker with a WordPress template, which is the tech equivalent of being a waitress at a hash house.

    Wonderful. We can all look forward to more ISIS web presence in the future, I’m guessing. And all because we’ve provided more opportunities. Isn’t America wonderful!

    • #71
  12. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    Von Snrub (View Comment):
    I think we’re looking at this wrong. For me it comes from, coming from Fishtown, now in Belmont, but all the Belmontian’s tell me I got here through white privilege.

    You don’t have many sympathies for your fellow rich white liberal, who assumes you had the same journey.

    I think that’s part of it. I think, also, that when Belmontonians stop accusing you of white privilege and start trying to listen, they find that they’re not believed, which makes trying to listen harder.

    We might surmise that the popularity of a doofus like Bernie Sanders at least suggests that there are white liberals – even Belmontonian white liberals – who are trying to listen. People who are just beginning to listen aren’t necessarily good at it. And people who don’t believe that those who really are listening are listening aren’t necessarily good at being listened to.

    I’ve heard some white liberals lately make the argument, “You’re right that life can be tough on poor whites; nonetheless, white privilege is still a thing.” That’s understandably galling to hear. On the other hand, “You’re right that life can be tough on poor whites” is a point of agreement. Which wins out, the gall or the agreement?

    • #72
  13. Robert McReynolds Member
    Robert McReynolds
    @

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    Robert McReynolds (View Comment):
    While it is true that many in Fishtown are there because of their own life choices and failings, is it not also true that some in Belmont are there because of arrangements made via the government that harm people in Fishtown?

    It seems to me you’re missing something:

    A great many are in Fishtown neither because of their own life choices and failings, nor because “the Man” in Belmont held them back. Sometimes, life just sucks, in a way that can’t be blamed on either individuals or their class of “enemies”.

    When life just sucks, Belmontonians are lucky to be embedded in a culture that helps buffer them from the worst of the suffering. (As I mentioned in the OP, I know I have been lucky in that way.) Unfortunately, Fishtowners don’t have the same buffer.

    Some of that buffer is wealth, of course, which the poorer, by definition, will always have less of. But some of it is culture, and when it comes to culture, partisanship that pits Belmont culture and Fishtown culture against each other risks driving those cultures even further apart, which won’t hurt the Belmontonians as much as it will hurt the Fishtowners.

    Nah, I get what you are saying, I just don’t think that is the prevalent explanation. People in a free society have complete control over their life via the choices they make. I don’t think we live in a free society. I think that some have managed to take advantage of this unfree society and have benefited greatly while others have been harmed by this exploitation–not in the Marxist sense. I think some are also in their situation because they are just making bad choices or are lazy while others work really hard and are industrious. I don’t think there are zero folks who fit your mold, but I doubt they are even a third of the whole.

    • #73
  14. Freeven Member
    Freeven
    @Freeven

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    Robert McReynolds (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    Robert McReynolds (View Comment):
    Is it possible to think that some in Belmont have encouraged government policy that keeps people in Fishtown while those in Belmont get rich off of the situation?

    Of course that’s possible. We always thought there were – for example, regulatory schemes that were disproportionately harder on the poor.

    Well then I think that answers, in part, the question of your OP.

    Then Americans don’t have to hate each other based on class?

    Classism, like racism, derives from laziness. There are plenty of reasons to hate each other on our merits.

    • #74
  15. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    Robert McReynolds (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    Robert McReynolds (View Comment):
    While it is true that many in Fishtown are there because of their own life choices and failings, is it not also true that some in Belmont are there because of arrangements made via the government that harm people in Fishtown?

    It seems to me you’re missing something:

    A great many are in Fishtown neither because of their own life choices and failings, nor because “the Man” in Belmont held them back. Sometimes, life just sucks, in a way that can’t be blamed on either individuals or their class of “enemies”.

    When life just sucks, Belmontonians are lucky to be embedded in a culture that helps buffer them from the worst of the suffering. (As I mentioned in the OP, I know I have been lucky in that way.) Unfortunately, Fishtowners don’t have the same buffer.

    Some of that buffer is wealth, of course, which the poorer, by definition, will always have less of. But some of it is culture, and when it comes to culture, partisanship that pits Belmont culture and Fishtown culture against each other risks driving those cultures even further apart, which won’t hurt the Belmontonians as much as it will hurt the Fishtowners.

    Nah, I get what you are saying, I just don’t think that is the prevalent explanation. People in a free society have complete control over their life via the choices they make.

    Nobody has complete control over their lives, even in a free society. Freedom gives people the most control they can have over their own lives, but all of us have, as Sowell puts it, windfall gains and windfall losses.

    Freedom is no guarantee that most people will get the life they want. That doesn’t mean freedom isn’t amazing, or that it doesn’t provide all but the most hopelessly impaired an opportunity to make a decent life for themselves, on something resembling their own terms.

    For good choices to lead to good outcomes is always playing the odds some, even if a free society can be expected to put those odds in everyman’s favor.

    I don’t think we live in a free society. I think that some have managed to take advantage of this unfree society and have benefited greatly while others have been harmed by this exploitation–not in the Marxist sense. I think some are also in their situation because they are just making bad choices or are lazy while others work really hard and are industrious. I don’t think there are zero folks who fit your mold, but I doubt they are even a third of the whole.

    Numbers short of a third of the whole could still be huge, though.  If before you were born, God told you there’s a 1/4 (which is less than 1/3) chance your life would just suck even if you made good choices and nobody oppressed you, that would probably be pretty upsetting. But in any case, dividing these things into discrete categories doesn’t make a ton of sense, since all these things – oppression, poor choices, genuinely bad luck – fall on a continuum. We generally think there are people who made worse choices overall than we did but got luckier, or made better choices and got unluckier, and we can expect to find examples of either no matter our own success.

    The consolation of freedom is that, despite us not having complete control of our lives, even when we’re free, freedom gives us enough control over our own lives to matter, to be worth having. That’s all we can really hope for. And the hope doesn’t have to be more than that to be incredibly precious.

    • #75
  16. bridget Inactive
    bridget
    @bridget

    Von Snrub (View Comment):
    I think we’re looking at this wrong. For me it comes from, coming from Fishtown, now in Belmont, but all the Belmontian’s tell me I got here through white privilege.

    You don’t have many sympathies for your fellow rich white liberal, who assumes you had the same journey.

    Recently, I heard a liberal woman (who had just had a spare bedroom turned into a designer closet) say that poor whites in Applachia still benefit from white privilege but basically aren’t able to see it.

    I think there’s a tremendous cultural privilege at play now in America, and the “Belmont” people (of which I am likely one) are beneficiaries.

    • #76
  17. MarciN Member
    MarciN
    @MarciN

    I think one thing that is overlooked in Murray’s demarcation is that inside most Belmonts are little Fishtowns. That’s a good thing about America because large pockets of entrenched concentrated poverty are difficult and expensive to address. Little poor neighborhoods of poverty are manageable for a community.

    I had an interesting conversation with a bank president on Cape Cod twenty years ago. Cape Cod went through a rapid-growth phase, and of course, we are mostly an island so growth is noticed down here. He said the planners and leaders at that time were determined to keep Cape Cod a middle class haven. They did not want it to become “like Nantucket”–that is, a small group of very rich people supported by a small army of poor laborers. He said, “They fail to mention that even the waiters on Nantucket make good money.” It was a valid point: 20 percent of a $200 dinner is more than 20 percent of a $20 dinner.

    However, I like the way Cape Cod turned out at the other side of that growth phase. I don’t want to take advantage of anyone. That’s not fun for me. If I can’t afford to pay someone decently, I’ll go without. As my mother used to, “If you have to ask, you can’t afford it.” :)

    Cape Cod did not go the Nantucket route. We stayed a very middle class area that attracts middle class families looking for a nice vacation that they can afford.

    But the bank president made a valid point too.

    • #77
  18. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    bridget (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):
    Have you never met conservatives who treated perfectly innocent (even beneficial) “Belmont” traits as a mark of “elitism” and “inauthenticity”?

    Maybe I have? But it is in no way common or pervasive enough to notice, let alone worry about.

    As @robertmcreynolds just pointed out, David French appears to be worried about it (thanks, Robert!):

    I’d argue that we face “something else,” and that something else is more akin to the beginning stages of a national divorce than it is to a civil war. This contention rests fundamentally in two trends, one political and the other far beyond politics. The combination of negative polarization and a phenomenon that economist Tyler Cowen calls “matching” is leading to a national separation so profound that Americans may not have the desire to fight to stay together. Unless trends are reversed, red and blue may ultimately bid each other adieu.

    First, let’s deal with negative polarization. I’ve written about this before, but it’s worth repeating. Americans tend to belong to their political “tribe” not so much because they love its ideas but rather because they despise their opponents. The Pew Research Center has been documenting this trend for some time, and few of their (many) charts document the mutual hatred better than this one:

    [chart]

    …And lest you think this is the way things have always been, look at the trend lines. Partisan Americans like each other less and less:

    [chart]

    These trends would be troubling enough, but combine them with “matching” and you get a nation whose citizens increasingly lives separate lives — living in separate locations, enjoying separate media, and holding separate religious beliefs.

    ….

    Put all these trends together and you can discern the reason for the “politicization of everything.” It’s easy: It’s often the path of least resistance, and it gives people a sense of larger purpose. When you live, work, and speak with people of like mind, it’s virtually inevitable that common expressions of shared views will leak into sports, corporate policy, and even debates about superhero movies [or tastes in art]. Americans have choices, and millions have chosen ideologically closed enclaves. Why wouldn’t they continue to extend that choice beyond the realms of politics and religion?

    If we seek to preserve our union, we’re left with a choice — try to dominate or learn to tolerate?

    Conservatives don’t just shy away from academia because they have better things to do. They also shy away because it’s hard to work past a dynamic of mutual despisal. In at least some regions of the country, and some elite circles of what can be very traditional arts, I’ve observed a similar dynamic in play.

    Again, maybe it’s a regional thing, but I am generally unfamiliar with this.

    I wouldn’t be at all surprised if it were partly regional. And if you don’t mind my saying, it’s also likely partly you:

    You’re not the sort to take the path of least resistance, to let your tastes be dictated by politics encroaching on what should be politically-neutral cultural pursuits – more like the sort who’d just forge on, tolerant (if mentally rolling your eyes a lot) despite the difference; or, if the difference became too unbearable, to splinter off, using online connections, if necessary, to find (or make) a new circle where the encroachment was less of a problem.

    • #78
  19. Damocles Inactive
    Damocles
    @Damocles

    skipsul (View Comment):

    My wife’s minivan, a Toyota, was built here. Many of my neighbors work at the Marysville Honda plant where Civics and Accords are built, but Ford has to build its small cars in Mexico or elsewhere. Why is that? It’s not a simple picture.

    I had great fun in Texas when I bought my Nissanand got all the expected Rice Burner grief.

    I pointed to my VIN on the dash, and said, “see  that T? That means this car was built in Tennessee, by good old boys who aren’t in a union.  Where was your Ford built?  Oh in Yankeeland, by Union Workers that vote Democrat!”

    Still happily driving my Tennessee-mobile 16 year later!

    • #79
  20. bridget Inactive
    bridget
    @bridget

    @midge

    I don’t disagree that a lot of formerly non-political things have become political.  Mostly, what I see in Massachusetts (and it could be a self-selected group) is that enjoying the arts cuts across class and political lines (well, at least near Boston and in the suburbs that are at least middle class) – it’s not remotely uncommon for registered Republicans to have memberships at the art museums or season tickets to the symphony.  At least here, our conservatives don’t see that as “acting liberal” or anything.

    What we get is a lot of liberals assuming that conservatives are dumb, uncultured, and uneducated.  That’s often because we don’t “come out” to people as conservatives unless we do the secret handshake routine, so the progressives assume everyone around them at the Wang or the BSO is liberal.

    But again, I am really willing to believe that this is regional; one of the many reasons I want states to govern themselves is because the United States is huge and culturally heterogenous.

    • #80
  21. bridget Inactive
    bridget
    @bridget

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):
    Conservatives don’t just shy away from academia because they have better things to do. They also shy away because it’s hard to work past a dynamic of mutual despisal. In at least some regions of the country, and some elite circles of what can be very traditional arts, I’ve observed a similar dynamic in play.

    Well, truth be told, some of the reason I have been thinking of moving is that it’s just tiring to constantly be around people who think I am an uneducated racist jerk because I vote Republican.  At my old work, things that were considered appropriate for lunch conversation included “social conservatives aren’t educated.”

    But again, I’m not overly familiar with conservatives shaming fellow conservatives for shopping at Whole Foods or going to Tanglewood. Teasing, maybe; shaming, no.

    • #81
  22. Matt Balzer Member
    Matt Balzer
    @MattBalzer

    bridget (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):
    Conservatives don’t just shy away from academia because they have better things to do. They also shy away because it’s hard to work past a dynamic of mutual despisal. In at least some regions of the country, and some elite circles of what can be very traditional arts, I’ve observed a similar dynamic in play.

    Well, truth be told, some of the reason I have been thinking of moving is that it’s just tiring to constantly be around people who think I am an uneducated racist jerk because I vote Republican. At my old work, things that were considered appropriate for lunch conversation included “social conservatives aren’t educated.”

    But again, I’m not overly familiar with conservatives shaming fellow conservatives for shopping at Whole Foods or going to Tanglewood. Teasing, maybe; shaming, no.

    I don’t even know what Tanglewood is, so I couldn’t say anything there.

    • #82
  23. Muleskinner Member
    Muleskinner
    @Muleskinner

    bridget (View Comment):
    At my old work, things that were considered appropriate for lunch conversation included “social conservatives aren’t educated.”

    Or do they mean social conservatives need to be “re-educated?”

    • #83
  24. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    bridget (View Comment):
    I don’t disagree that a lot of formerly non-political things have become political. Mostly, what I see in Massachusetts (and it could be a self-selected group) is that enjoying the arts cuts across class and political lines (well, at least near Boston and in the suburbs that are at least middle class) – it’s not remotely uncommon for registered Republicans to have memberships at the art museums or season tickets to the symphony. At least here, our conservatives don’t see that as “acting liberal” or anything.

    Would they see it as “acting Belmont”, though? “[N]ear Boston and in the suburbs that are at least middle class” sounds… rather Belmont, to be honest.

    I think you and I agree: there are significant numbers of “Belmont” conservatives and being a Belmont conservative shouldn’t be something to be ashamed of. There’s rhetoric, though, suggest it is something to be ashamed of, or at least feel really guilty about, as if Belmont guilt were the Right’s version of white guilt.

    bridget (View Comment):
    But again, I’m not overly familiar with conservatives shaming fellow conservatives for shopping at Whole Foods or going to Tanglewood. Teasing, maybe; shaming, no.

    With regard to Whole Foods? Oh, definitely shaming.

    • #84
  25. Judithann Campbell Member
    Judithann Campbell
    @

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    With regard to Whole Foods? Oh, definitely shaming.

    The only reason I don’t go to Whole Foods all the time is because the nearest one to me is 40 minutes away; their steaks are awesome :)

    • #85
  26. MarciN Member
    MarciN
    @MarciN

    Judithann Campbell (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    With regard to Whole Foods? Oh, definitely shaming.

    The only reason I don’t go to Whole Foods all the time is because the nearest one to me is 40 minutes away; their steaks are awesome ?

    That’s funny. I didn’t know that. The CEO of Whole Foods is a vegetarian. :)

    It is interesting to bring up John Mackey, in fact. He believes that capitalism is the fastest and most certain way to achieve the liberals’ social and political objectives. His nonprofit is Conscious Capitalism:

    The Conscious Business movement in the US, which emerged from the theory of corporate social responsibility, pushes for “values-based” economic values where values represent social and environmental concerns at both global and local scales. This effort is related to not-just-for-profit business models, conscious consumerism, and socially responsible investing.

    Conscious Capitalism espouses the Triple Bottom Line: people, profit, and planet.

     

     

    • #86
  27. Judithann Campbell Member
    Judithann Campbell
    @

    I live in Western Mass, which is very different from Boston and surrounding areas. Off the top of my head, I can think of 5 or 6 towns around here that are definitely Belmont, but they seem pretty distinct to me. Northampton and Amherst are Belmont, and are filled with SJWs, but the others, not so much. I have never considered Longmeadow or Southwick particularly liberal, compared to anywhere else around here, though they are definitely Belmont. Maybe I am wrong; maybe I just don’t pay enough attention or know enough people, but I don’t immediately think “liberal” when I think “Belmont”.

    • #87
  28. Lois Lane Coolidge
    Lois Lane
    @LoisLane

    MarciN (View Comment):

    Judithann Campbell (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    With regard to Whole Foods? Oh, definitely shaming.

    The only reason I don’t go to Whole Foods all the time is because the nearest one to me is 40 minutes away; their steaks are awesome ?

    That’s funny. I didn’t know that. The CEO of Whole Foods is a vegetarian. ?

    It is interesting to bring up John Mackey, in fact. He believes that capitalism is the fastest and most certain way to achieve the liberals’ social and political objectives. His nonprofit is Conscious Capitalism:

    The Conscious Business movement in the US, which emerged from the theory of corporate social responsibility, pushes for “values-based” economic values where values represent social and environmental concerns at both global and local scales. This effort is related to not-just-for-profit business models, conscious consumerism, and socially responsible investing.

    Conscious Capitalism espouses the Triple Bottom Line: people, profit, and planet.

    I get no shaming for going to Whole Foods.  Not from conservatives in Belmont anyway.  I would personally have scorned people who went to Whole Foods when I was just starting out though.  I would have found them smug for paying so much for eggs, as if everyone can give a hot dang about chickens.  (Chickens are very stupid creatures who eat their own crap.  However, I DO care about the chickens NOW, hence I shop at Whole Foods where I know the chickens go to spas and get massages whilst roaming the free range, but I understand it’s a luxury to care about the chickens, and I couldn’t always care.)

    • #88
  29. Arizona Patriot Member
    Arizona Patriot
    @ArizonaPatriot

    My reaction to this has to be inspired by Skip’s recent post Comey Chameleon.

    I’m hearing Donny and Marie singing a duet in my head, something like:

    I’m a little bit Belmont
    And I’m a little bit Fishtown-o
    I’m a little bit of Upper East Side
    With a little bit of Branson in my soul

    I don’t know if it’s good or bad
    But I know I love it so
    I’m a little bit Belmont
    And I’m a little bit Fishtown-o

     

    • #89
  30. bridget Inactive
    bridget
    @bridget

    Judithann Campbell (View Comment):

    Midget Faded Rattlesnake (View Comment):

    With regard to Whole Foods? Oh, definitely shaming.

    The only reason I don’t go to Whole Foods all the time is because the nearest one to me is 40 minutes away; their steaks are awesome ?

    I wouldn’t know about their steaks, but their founder is a libertarian/conservative.

    • #90
Become a member to join the conversation. Or sign in if you're already a member.