Why I Rarely Argue About Israel and the Palestinians Anymore

 

Debating controversial issues is fun for some people; they like the fight and drama. Sometimes they actually have a dog in the fight. But frankly, I’m not a person who likes a fight, and I never have. I’m not afraid of controversy; in fact, sometimes I enjoy discussing controversial subjects when the dynamics are supportive.

But when it comes to the Israelis and the Palestinians, I have pretty much bowed out of those discussions, even though they are with people whom I consider to be my friends. I used to be willing to take on all challenges. It just doesn’t seem worth it anymore. Why, you may ask.

For me to enter a conflict-ridden discussion, I have to feel passionate about it. That certainly applies to Israel. I want to talk with people who I think are reasonable and count on reliable sources of information; this is where the subject gets dicey. There are hundreds if not thousands of sources that are on either side of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I obviously believe in the veracity of the publications I read; people who disagree with me trust a whole other set of media. Positions are so polarized that even if there were room for learning, or possibly changing minds, no one is truly interested in that effort. We are simply too far apart.

The same criteria apply to almost any controversial topic: anything on the extreme political Left is most likely to differ drastically with the political Right: Wokeism, government spending, overreach by all branches of government, and the administrative state are just a few examples. The main problem, I believe, is not only are positions polarized, but we don’t believe we can learn anything meaningful from the other side. On the Right, we also question the Left’s motives, their commitment to truth, their understanding of the implications of their beliefs, and their willingness to generate practical compromises.

They only care about winning.

Which brings me back to the Israeli-Palestinian issue. We can argue about the history of the situation, the agendas of all sides, the potential for peace. But I just can’t get past one simple fact:

The Arabs/Palestinians want to drive the Israelis into the sea.

No matter whether a one or two-state solution is negotiated, they are angry, feel abused and injured. And those in charge are committed to destroying Israel and the Jews.

That’s a subject I refuse to contemplate.

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  1. Henry Castaigne Member
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    Pagodan (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Jim McConnell (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):
    Susan stated a simplistic and unsophisticated reason to support Israel. I pointed out that the same reason would have supported the Germans staying in control of France. Susan’s stated reason doesn’t hold up, precisely because it would have prevented the ejection of the Germans from France.

    Jerry, are you really that ignorant of history, or do you simply like to exercise your habitual contrariness?

    How about both?

    Frankly, it is not about his contrariness, it is about his secular Gnosticism.

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):
    You folks really can’t break out of your ideological blinders, can you?

    This sums up everything you need to know about his arguments. He has it all figure out, and if you can’t see it, you are the blind one.

    The funny thing is, comparisons of Israel and Nazi Germany is a classic tactic used by antiemetic groups against Israel. It breaks down when you consider the genocide of the Germans and the non-genocide of the people of Israel. Nazi Germany would have had no multi-generational refugees because they would have murdered them all.

    When someone adopts the arguments of antiemetic groups, one has to wonder about that someone.

    Wasn’t it Jerry who “broke out” of his prior ideological blinders a few weeks ago when he discovered that slavery was a moral good, and Christians should be for it?

    You need to ask him but he said that slavery was permitted by the Bible as I recall. He dismissed America’s idea of racial chattel slavery was Biblical slavery was OK.

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  2. Jack Mantle Member
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    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: The Arabs/Palestinians want to drive the Israelis into the sea.

    Yes. This.

    There is no way to settle anything when one side is calling for the destruction of the other.

    Sure there is.  Hiroshima comes to mind.

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  3. Charles Mark Member
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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    MarciN (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Yesterday was D-Day. Did you support the Free French, British, and Americans wanting to drive the Germans over the Rhine?

    I’m not claiming that this answers the question. It does seem, to me, that repelling an invader is a legitimate reason for war, which doesn’t necessarily change over time.

    The British held Ireland — and India — for along time, and were then driven out.

    This history is complex here. But the bottom line is that the United States and the United Nations reviewed that history and concluded that Israel has a right to exist. That is how the rule of law works.

    There is no rule of law in international relations. That is a fantasy. It is generally used to justify our involving ourselves on one side of a conflict that has little to do with us.

    Another thought on this. If you’re really going to rely on the UN and “international law,” then you need to acknowledge all of the UN condemnations of Israeli actions.

    Palestine is a nation recognized by the UN, and by about 140 of the 190-odd member states of the UN. Israel, the US, and some others — generally America’s vassal states — intransigently refuse to recognize Palestine. The reason for this is quite obvious, as the Israelis forcibly conquered Palestinian territory, continue to hold territory that they don’t even claim, and yet build Israeli settlements in that area.

    Complicated.

    I’m neither anti-Israeli nor anti-Palestinian. I’d like to see the Palestinian state recognized.

    The Israeli objection to this is quite ludicrous, in my view. They pretend to be afraid of the Palestinians. Israel is probably a military match for 20-30 Palestines. It’s like the US being afraid of Cuba.

    If you look at the situation with a wider lens you might see the malign hand of Iran, arming and funding its proxies to prolong the conflict. 

    It never ceases to amaze me how critics of Israel routinely fail to suggest any solution to the impasse.  Personally, I would like to see a demilitarised Palestinian State which extends citizenship rights to Jews living within its borders. 

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  4. Percival Thatcher
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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Typical nonsense, Henry, and your cheap line got a bunch of likes.  You folks really can’t break out of your ideological blinders, can you?

    Susan stated a simplistic and unsophisticated reason to support Israel.  I pointed out that the same reason would have supported the Germans staying in control of France.  Susan’s stated reason doesn’t hold up, precisely because it would have prevented the ejection of the Germans from France.

    “Simple and unsophisticated.” I’ll bet you hear that a lot.

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  5. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Charles Mark (View Comment):
    never ceases to amaze me how critics of Israel routinely fail to suggest any solution to the impasse.  Personally, I would like to see a demilitarised Palestinian State which extends citizenship rights to Jews living within its borders. 

    Why would a Jew want to live there? Just sayin’…

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  6. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Percival (View Comment):
    Simple and unsophisticated.” I’ll bet you hear that a lot.

    How did you know?!

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  7. Henry Castaigne Member
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    Charles Mark (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    MarciN (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Yesterday was D-Day. Did you support the Free French, British, and Americans wanting to drive the Germans over the Rhine?

    I’m not claiming that this answers the question. It does seem, to me, that repelling an invader is a legitimate reason for war, which doesn’t necessarily change over time.

    The British held Ireland — and India — for along time, and were then driven out.

    This history is complex here. But the bottom line is that the United States and the United Nations reviewed that history and concluded that Israel has a right to exist. That is how the rule of law works.

    There is no rule of law in international relations. That is a fantasy. It is generally used to justify our involving ourselves on one side of a conflict that has little to do with us.

    Another thought on this. If you’re really going to rely on the UN and “international law,” then you need to acknowledge all of the UN condemnations of Israeli actions.

    Palestine is a nation recognized by the UN, and by about 140 of the 190-odd member states of the UN. Israel, the US, and some others — generally America’s vassal states — intransigently refuse to recognize Palestine. The reason for this is quite obvious, as the Israelis forcibly conquered Palestinian territory, continue to hold territory that they don’t even claim, and yet build Israeli settlements in that area.

    Complicated.

    I’m neither anti-Israeli nor anti-Palestinian. I’d like to see the Palestinian state recognized.

    The Israeli objection to this is quite ludicrous, in my view. They pretend to be afraid of the Palestinians. Israel is probably a military match for 20-30 Palestines. It’s like the US being afraid of Cuba.

    If you look at the situation with a wider lens you might see the malign hand of Iran, arming and funding its proxies to prolong the conflict.

    It never ceases to amaze me how critics of Israel routinely fail to suggest any solution to the impasse. Personally, I would like to see a demilitarised Palestinian State which extends citizenship rights to Jews living within its borders.

    I would like citizenship rights within Palestine and fabulous gay bars like how Israel has. All the Muslims can disagree with homosexuality but they need to leave the homosexuals alone. 

    In Israel, there is a whole sub-community of Arab Homosexuals who want to live in Israel. I don’t blame and I want the demilitarized Palestinian to other the, the same opportunities.

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  8. Zafar Member
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Charles Mark (View Comment):
    never ceases to amaze me how critics of Israel routinely fail to suggest any solution to the impasse. Personally, I would like to see a demilitarised Palestinian State which extends citizenship rights to Jews living within its borders.

    Why would a Jew want to live there? Just sayin’…

    They already live “there” – but why let it become a Palestinian state when you can just kick the Arabs out and take it?  Good question.

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  9. Henry Castaigne Member
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    Zafar (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Charles Mark (View Comment):
    never ceases to amaze me how critics of Israel routinely fail to suggest any solution to the impasse. Personally, I would like to see a demilitarised Palestinian State which extends citizenship rights to Jews living within its borders.

    Why would a Jew want to live there? Just sayin’…

    They already live “there” – but why let it become a Palestinian state when you can just kick the Arabs out and take it? Good question.

    Zafar try to answer the question. Israeli-Arabs want to stay in Israel and will never move to another Arab state. In a similar fashion, you will never move back to India. 

    Arab countries with some exceptions, (Morocco comes to mind) kicked out all their Jews. 

    So why do Israeli-Arabs want to stay in Israel and why do the Mizhrahim want to stay in Israel?

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  10. Zafar Member
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    Susan Quinn:

    But when it comes to the Israelis and the Palestinians, I have pretty much bowed out of those discussions, even though they are with people whom I consider to be my friends. I used to be willing to take on all challenges. It just doesn’t seem worth it anymore. Why, you may ask.

    Because it’s exhausting Susan!  Because it is really, really tiring.  Etsy has a tough gig.

    For me to enter a conflict-ridden discussion, I have to feel passionate about it. That certainly applies to Israel. I want to talk with people who I think are reasonable and count on reliable sources of information; this is where the subject gets dicey. There are hundreds if not thousands of sources that are on either side of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I obviously believe in the veracity of the publications I read; people who disagree with me trust a whole other set of media. Positions are so polarized that even if there were room for learning, or possibly changing minds, no one is truly interested in that effort. We are simply too far apart.

    My reading of it is that people are so committed to an outcome (a democratic, Jewish state, for eg, or justice for Palestinians in a secular state, or whatever) that they find it too emotionally confronting to even consider information that doesn’t support that outcome.

    Because we all bring baggage, right?  Every person who’s from a country that was colonised (like India, for eg) is going to see Israel/Palestine through that lens.  Just like South Africans see Israel/Palestine through the lens of Apartheid.  It may not be exactly colonialism (though it’s similar) or Apartheid (though its similar) and to argue that it isn’t exactly that is to miss the forest for the trees.

    Jews certainly bring their own baggage to the issue.  (And I for one don’t blame them.)

    In fact everybody participating in one of these discussions on Ricochet does.  Nobody is a neutral observer who, after careful and calm consideration of the facts decides that: Israel is right/The Palestinians are right.  They may pose as such, but it’s a pose.

    I do think that awareness is curative, so it’s good to question ones own baggage, the outcomes it demands, why – and how that affects our relationship with truth and with facts we don’t like.

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  11. Percival Thatcher
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Percival (View Comment):
    Simple and unsophisticated.” I’ll bet you hear that a lot.

    How did you know?!

    Because I hear it a lot.

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  12. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Zafar (View Comment):
    I do think that awareness is curative, so it’s good to question ones own baggage, the outcomes it demands, why – and how that affects out relationship with truth and with facts we don’t like.

    I spend a lot of time thinking about the weaknesses in my own arguments, but they are few and not significant enough, IMHO, to explore them with others. I know my biases pretty well and am not interested in shedding them.

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  13. Zafar Member
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Zafar (View Comment):
    I do think that awareness is curative, so it’s good to question ones own baggage, the outcomes it demands, why – and how that affects out relationship with truth and with facts we don’t like.

    I spend a lot of time thinking about the weaknesses in my own arguments, but they are few and not significant enough, IMHO, to explore them with others. I know my biases pretty well and am not interested in shedding them.

    That way lies the Golden Calf. 

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  14. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Zafar (View Comment):
    That way lies the Golden Calf. 

    What?

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  15. Bryan G. Stephens Thatcher
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    Jack Mantle (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: The Arabs/Palestinians want to drive the Israelis into the sea.

    Yes. This.

    There is no way to settle anything when one side is calling for the destruction of the other.

    Sure there is. Hiroshima comes to mind.

    We are not calling for the destruction of Japan at all. 

    Please find for me where we called for that. 

     

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  16. Instugator Thatcher
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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):
    The British held Ireland — and India — for  along time, and were then driven out.

    Wow, the same thing happened in Israel. They held the territory as a political entity for 1,500 years, give or take, and then had the territory taken from them for about 1,850 years or so and about 70+ years ago were restored.

    Isn’t that amazing.

    Too bad their neighbors had to kick off a war(s) as soon as that happened and lose even more territory to them. But thems the breaks.

    Thank God the Abraham Accords are putting an end to the last 70 years of turmoil (at least at the nation-state level).

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  17. HeavyWater Inactive
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    If North Korea was defeated in a war by South Korea, I would view this as the liberation of North Korea and therefore a positive result.

    If South Korea were defeated in a war by North Korea, I would view this as the subjugation of South Korea and therefore a negative result.

    I see the Israeli-Palestinian conflict in the same way.  Israel is like South Korea.  The Palestinian territories are like North Korea.

    I would like it if the Palestinian territories became free societies like Israel is.  I would lament it if Israel became a despotism like the Palestinian territories.

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  18. She Member
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    I do love a good fight with smart people of goodwill.  But I have come to understand that engaging in battles of wits with the the unarmed is a complete waste of time.  And yet–sometimes–it can be wildly entertaining, until it isn’t.  The trick is knowing when to pull the plug.

    I often wonder about those who see the world through an oppressive lens. (“We wuz colonized!” “We wuz enslaved!” etc. etc. and so forth.)  Exactly how far back should we go with that, and what should we do with our conclusions?  It’s pretty easy, when you can show audio and video evidence of the matter from–say, perhaps–the mid nineteenth century forward.

    But what about 1066?  1214?  43?  1428? 669BC?  And other such?  What about them?  

     

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  19. Barfly Member
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    Susan, great topic. I can never get them to out themselves. You must inspire trust.

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  20. HeavyWater Inactive
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    She (View Comment):

    I do love a good fight with smart people of goodwill. But I have come to understand that engaging in battles of wits with the the unarmed is a complete waste of time. And yet–sometimes–it can be wildly entertaining, until it isn’t. The trick is knowing when to pull the plug.

    I often wonder about those who see the world through an oppressive lens. (“We wuz colonized!” “We wuz enslaved!” etc. etc. and so forth.) Exactly how far back should we go with that, and what should we do with our conclusions? It’s pretty easy, when you can show audio and video evidence of the matter from–say, perhaps–the mid nineteenth century forward.

    But what about 1066? 1214? 43? 1428? 669BC? And other such? What about them?

    If an Arab rules over other Arabs with an iron fist, not respecting the human rights of Arabs at all, some people say, “Well, it’s their culture.  Who are we to judge?”

    If Israel provides Arab-Israelis human rights unheard of in the Arab world, these same people say, “Israel is an apartheid state!”

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  21. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Barfly (View Comment):

    Susan, great topic. I can never get them to out themselves. You must inspire trust.

    Who? Those who disagree with me? They’ve commented.

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  22. HeavyWater Inactive
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Barfly (View Comment):

    Susan, great topic. I can never get them to out themselves. You must inspire trust.

    Who? Those who disagree with me? They’ve commented.

    You got one commenter to equate the desire of the United States to see Hitler’s genocidal regime defeated with the desire of some Palestinians to commit genocide against Jews in Israel. 

    I don’t know if you inspired trust.  But you did get one commenter to reveal his nihilism.  

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  23. AMD Texas Coolidge
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    Zafar (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Zafar (View Comment):
    I do think that awareness is curative, so it’s good to question ones own baggage, the outcomes it demands, why – and how that affects out relationship with truth and with facts we don’t like.

    I spend a lot of time thinking about the weaknesses in my own arguments, but they are few and not significant enough, IMHO, to explore them with others. I know my biases pretty well and am not interested in shedding them.

    That way lies the Golden Calf.

    FFS, please

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  24. Steven Seward Member
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    Henry Castaigne (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Nazi Germany would have had no multi-generational refugees because they would have murdered them all.

    But that’s simplistic Bryan :)

    Maybe so, but sometimes the simplistic is absolutely true (as in this case) [On second thought, maybe you were making a parody on Jerry?!  Now I get it!]

     

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  25. Steven Seward Member
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Barfly (View Comment):

    The question I’m interested in is why the left is committed to the destruction of Israel. What is the affinity between Islam(ism?) and the left?

    When Israel was weak, it was the underdog. When they became powerful, they became oppressors. Also, the secular belief of the Left can’t tolerate them.

    Which is totally ironic!  A good half-of Jewish Israelis are secular people who do not believe in God, just like the leftists.  Surprisingly, it is the least religious country in the Middle-East.

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  26. Steven Seward Member
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    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Jack Mantle (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: The Arabs/Palestinians want to drive the Israelis into the sea.

    Yes. This.

    There is no way to settle anything when one side is calling for the destruction of the other.

    Sure there is. Hiroshima comes to mind.

    We are not calling for the destruction of Japan at all.

    Please find for me where we called for that.

    I interpreted Mantle’s comment as “we were stopping Japan who was the one calling for total destruction of the other (of China, Korea, and all of East Asia + the United States).

     

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  27. Steven Seward Member
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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

     

    Palestine is a nation recognized by the UN, and by about 140 of the 190-odd member states of the UN.

    Wrong.  Palestine has “Non-Member Observer State” status at the United Nations.  They are not recognized as a nation with full member status.

    I’m neither anti-Israeli nor anti-Palestinian. I’d like to see the Palestinian state recognized.

    As an outspoken Christian who professes to have Christian values, you are lying.  You have been railing against the State of Israel for years now.  You have not shown a single shred of support for Israel’s existence nor for their polices or actions since I can remember back to the days when you espoused more “normal” views.  Your bizarre notions about the Israeli-Arab conflicts are so warped that you cannot even acknowledge that both the Palestinians in Israel and the Palestinians in Gaza explicitly promote the cause of driving the Jews into the Mediterranean Sea (as they put it), a euphemism for extermination.

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  28. Steven Seward Member
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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    The Israeli objection to this is quite ludicrous, in my view. They pretend to be afraid of the Palestinians. Israel is probably a military match for 20-30 Palestines. It’s like the US being afraid of Cuba

    Or Russia being afraid of Ukraine.  Or Georgia.

    The U.S. military could take on probably 1,000 Saudi Arabias, but 17 high-jackers are capable of killing 3,000 Americans on a single day.  And the death toll could have been higher if the last plane had completed its mission.

    Roughly three-thousand Israelis were killed by the Palestinian Inftifadas in the late 20th/early 21st Centuries.   As a percentage of the Israeli population, that would translate to killing about 30,000 Americans if it had happened over here.  And you call the objection to this “quite ludicrous?”

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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Yesterday was D-Day. Did you support the Free French, British, and Americans wanting to drive the Germans over the Rhine?

    I’m not claiming that this answers the question. It does seem, to me, that repelling an invader is a legitimate reason for war, which doesn’t necessarily change over time.

    The British held Ireland — and India — for along time, and were then driven out.

    Can you truly not differentiate between over a river and back into your own country, and into the sea and dead? 

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  30. TBA Coolidge
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    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    MarciN (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):

    Yesterday was D-Day. Did you support the Free French, British, and Americans wanting to drive the Germans over the Rhine?

    I’m not claiming that this answers the question. It does seem, to me, that repelling an invader is a legitimate reason for war, which doesn’t necessarily change over time.

    The British held Ireland — and India — for along time, and were then driven out.

    This history is complex here. But the bottom line is that the United States and the United Nations reviewed that history and concluded that Israel has a right to exist. That is how the rule of law works.

    There is no rule of law in international relations. That is a fantasy. It is generally used to justify our involving ourselves on one side of a conflict that has little to do with us.

    It has everything to do with us since we signed it into existence. 

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