Sigh. I should have known….

 

From my online course, in the first “Discussion forum” section. Slightly edited to protect the privacy of the teacher. (I deleted her sample answers)

This will be the only discussion in which you will not be graded on how well you back up your opinions with information from our readings. Therefore, there are no right answers here. What you will be graded on is how thoroughly you try to engage, and how respectfully you respond to others. Importantly, this introduction post is optional for 1% extra credit. This will be the only extra credit opportunity offered throughout the semester and I do not bump up grades that are close to the cut off because I offer this opportunity. I would strongly advise taking advantage of this early extra credit opportunity in case you need it later to move from a 79% to a 80%, for example.

First, I’d like to start off with introductions. So please introduce yourself to the class! Some points you may want to discuss include:

  • Where you are from 
  • Your preferred name 
  • Your year attending [COLLEGE]
  • Your major 
  • Why you are taking this course 
  • Fun facts 

Next, I’d like you to talk a little bit about privilege, and what your areas of privilege are. This is also in the interest of getting to know a little about the context of our class. We all have areas of privilege (e.g., white privilege, male privilege, able-bodied privilege, etc.) It is important that we are aware of our own sources of privilege, and how they affect the way we interact with the world. For example, in the context of this class, I have educational privilege. That means, in this situation, that the material we read is familiar to me, and the academic style of writing is fairly easy to understand. I don’t have the added burden of trying to get used to a new format of the way information is presented in order to understand that information. Me being aware of my educational privilege helps me to engage with others in a more useful way, instead of assuming that my experiences are the same as everyone else’s, and therefore our reactions to our experiences should be, too.

Why is this important, and what does it have to do with developmental psychology? Let me be clear: the purpose of this is NOT to make us all feel guilty about our privilege; that wouldn’t be useful. Rather, the purpose is that we start each conversation from a place of awareness, which breeds understanding and compassion. We are going to be debating some potentially heated topics in this course. It is REQUIRED that we ALL engage with one another respectfully. I will ask each of you to try and see others’ perspectives, while arguing for your own (in other words, it’s not an “either/or” type of scenario; refusing to look objectively at the other side does not show strength in your argument).

So I have a few options here.

  1. I can skip the optional post and the opportunity for extra credit. Probably the wisest option.
  2. Post some vague word-salad about advantages in life that I am grateful for, and that others might not have (Which is I think what the question is really getting at, albeit in a very “Woke” manner.)
  3. Post about my philosophy of “Privilege.” Not that I have a fully fleshed out philosophy there, but I can at least say that I am a sinful human, who, from my state of depravity, is likely to treat those who are different from her negatively. 
  4. Drop the class and find another online course. (Inconvenient, if not quite difficult, at this point.)

The assignment is due at midnight on Monday.

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  1. Ansonia Member
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    I’d go with option 1. 

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  2. Dill Inactive
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    Richard Fulmer (View Comment):

    Gossamer Cat (View Comment):
    Umm, I have to say that compared to most of the nonsense emanating from the Academy, this one is actually rather benign. If the wording were different, it might even be somewhat laudatory.

    Agreed. The word “privilege” is loaded (as is the word “fragile” as in “white fragility”). But, the instructor may be trying to navigate within the confines of the current academic mindset. Her explanation does sound as if she’s trying to take to edge off the term as best she can.

    Yeah. I do not think the exercise at its base is objectionable. But I would so prefer “State a bias you have that has tripped you up in the past.” Or something like that. 

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  3. Dill Inactive
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    Cato Rand (View Comment):

    Two thoughts:

    1. You don’t say what the course is. If it’s called “Wokeness 101” or some version of victim studies, I’m not sure you’ve got any grounds to complain. If it’s physics or calculus or some hard subject, you should probably drop the class and find another instructor. If it’s some softer subject to which this exercise might bear some relevance, it’s a harder question.
    2. I actually think this instructor sounds like s/he’s approached the subject in a not entirely offensive or ridiculous way. The word “privilege” is like fingernails on a blackboard to a lot of people, me included. It’s just so freighted with so much victimology BS. But when you changed it to your “advantages” – which is really pretty much a synonym for “privilege” – the whole thing is a lot easier to swallow because the term doesn’t have so much baggage. We do all bring the advantages and disadvantages of our backgrounds to our endeavors and there’s probably some value is understanding the differences – in both quantity and variety – in our respective allotments if we’re going to engage in dialogue. If it were me, I might be inclined to take a cue from the instructor’s acknowledgement that his/her education is one of the advantages that s/he brings to the class and write an essay that focused entirely on my own genuine advantages and disadvantages, ignoring entirely the woke victim class nonsense. I’d start with “I was born in the United States of America in the 20th century which puts me among the most advantaged humans ever to exist on this planet,” and then work from there. Your faith, the support of your parents and family, the work ethic you were taught, or any number of other things might be fruitful subjects for this essay. Maybe even, “I’ve always thought myself good looking” or “learning came easy to me” or “athletics came easy to me” or “I’ve got a friendly disposition and make friends easily” or whatever it is for you.

    It’s a psych class. Yeah, it certainly not the most objectionable of assignments, but “Fingernails on a Chalkboard” describes it well.

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  4. Dill Inactive
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    Zafar (View Comment):

    GrannyDude (View Comment):
    The problem I have is the word “privilege.” It’s a stupid word. For one thing, it doesn’t carry with it the implication of responsibility. Were you and I walking down the street together, Zafar, and some menacing person came along, your “male privilege” would swiftly translate into a responsibility to protect me.

    Then we’d both be in trouble, but I would do my best for you GD, I promise. And yes, I agree that meaningful privilege comes (should come) linked with meaningful responsibility. (So I think privilege does have that implication. Noblesse oblige etc.)

    Re: Dill’s issue – I guess I’m really coming at it from the point of view that a young person is going into a course, and framing it as a political argument before the course has even begun doesn’t seem like the best approach to take for her to achieve the educational outcomes she might wish for. Everything doesn’t have to be an argument, does it? Sometimes it’s better to be generous hearted in how we deal with people.

    You have a point. I saw the word “Privilege” and up went my defenses.

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  5. Dill Inactive
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    Aaron Miller (View Comment):

    Headedwest (View Comment):

    EODmom (View Comment):

    Bob Armstrong (View Comment):

    Literacy, rational thinking, introspection would all seem to be viable sources of privilege per the rubric…

    How about good genes – born with good eyesight, good hearing and native immunities. Born to a family that is intact and taught me and demonstrated empathy and humility and respectfulness in engaging with others. Those are both things not within your control. Luck? Privilege? People ought not blame their parents or others for their lives after they are 18, but what the heck – talk about what you started with. Gratitude is never out of style.

    I really like this. You can express gratitude for all the good things that you got in life without using their code words.

    Agreed. Write about what you are “thankful” for without ever saying “privilege” once.

    It’s important that leftists know that not everyone agrees with them and that we are not afraid of them. The fewer people who speak up, the harder it becomes to do so. But we can be bold without being belligerent.

    I really like that phrase–“Bold without being belligerent.” Not agreeing, but not arguing with the prompt, either. Just answering honestly in a way that doesn’t accept the idea of privilege.

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  6. Tocqueville Inactive
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    Dill (View Comment):

    Kephalithos (View Comment):

    Dill (View Comment): Yeah, the idea of reflecting on your perspectives and biases is definitely a good idea. But if I quietly do this assignment, should I do the next? Where do I draw the line, when it comes to the SJW stuff?

    If and when an assignment requires you to speak untruths, then abort or push back. Until then, tiptoe around the landmines and try to reframe the discussion in ways that don’t require you to accept the SJWs’ premises. This tactic got me through graduate school.

    This matches up well with my thoughts on civil disobedience. Don’t “Cry wolf” and civilly disobey whenever you feel you can get away with it. Instead, wait until things get unacceptable and then push back as swiftly and strongly as possible.

    The world has only been this hell of wokeness a short time. (Since 2013/2014??) In that short time, I have discovered that people like your teacher are authoritarians, and that they will sniff you out even if you do your best to lie low. Bland and noncommittal gratitude I say.

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  7. Paul Stinchfield Member
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    The word “privilege” comes from Latin (via French) and means “private law”. Thus, reasonable examples of privilege would be the the special rights enjoyed by the nobility whereby a noble could kill a commoner and suffer no punishment while a commoner who merely struck a noble could be put to death. The left deliberately confuses “privilege” with “advantage” and “good fortune”: they use the false concept of privilege as mere advantage to get us to accept the term, and then use the concept of privilege as private law in order to condemn us as being guilty of terrible things.

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  8. Ansonia Member
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    I’m blessed with an apparently rare tendency to remain un-offended in situations in which no sane person would be actually trying to offend me specifically,  and no reasonably intelligent person would be deliberately speaking in a disparaging way about people of any race, religion, sex or gender orientation, class, physical appearance, or age.

    I’m also privileged to have had opportunities to listen to, or read, well intentioned people who were’t so fearful of offending others that they couldn’t plainly speak, or write, what they thought.

    (I’d type out the above. Delete it. Go with option 1.)

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  9. Gazpacho Grande' Coolidge
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    Because it’s virtual, the option of blowing up the school cafeteria is off the table?

    That’s the only rational response.

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  10. Charlotte Member
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    Cato Rand (View Comment):
    I’d start with “I was born in the United States of America in the 20th century which puts me among the most advantaged humans ever to exist on this planet,” and then work from there.

    If Dill is an undergraduate, she might not have been born in the 20th century! ;-)

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  11. Cato Rand Inactive
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    Charlotte (View Comment):

    Cato Rand (View Comment):
    I’d start with “I was born in the United States of America in the 20th century which puts me among the most advantaged humans ever to exist on this planet,” and then work from there.

    If Dill is an undergraduate, she might not have been born in the 20th century! ;-)

    Fair point, but 21st works just as well in that sentence.  Maybe better even.

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  12. Charlotte Member
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    Cato Rand (View Comment):

    Charlotte (View Comment):

    Cato Rand (View Comment):
    I’d start with “I was born in the United States of America in the 20th century which puts me among the most advantaged humans ever to exist on this planet,” and then work from there.

    If Dill is an undergraduate, she might not have been born in the 20th century! ;-)

    Fair point, but 21st works just as well in that sentence. Maybe better even.

    I know. I’m just always amazed that (for example) the ’80s started 40 years ago. #OldPerson

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  13. Cato Rand Inactive
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    Paul Stinchfield (View Comment):

    The word “privilege” comes from Latin (via French) and means “private law”. Thus, reasonable examples of privilege would be the the special rights enjoyed by the nobility whereby a noble could kill a commoner and suffer no punishment while a commoner who merely struck a noble could be put to death. The left deliberately confuses “privilege” with “advantage” and “good fortune”: they use the false concept of privilege as mere advantage to get us to accept the term, and then use the concept of privilege as private law in order to condemn us as being guilty of terrible things.

    I think you’ve made a really interesting point about the subtle shift in meaning that makes “privilege” so problematic.  It seeks to turn an acknowledgement of reality “chance has provided me with certain advantages” into almost the claim of a character flaw – as though there’s something illegitimate or untoward about them.

    It’s a lot like “systemic racism” which seems to arise as much as anything from the fact that more white parents than black ones choose to marry before having children.  But as a white child of an intact family that fact makes me a participant in systemic racism.  And I’m like – hey, all I did was get born.  I had no choice in the matter.  Don’t call me a racist.

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  14. Cato Rand Inactive
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    Charlotte (View Comment):

    Cato Rand (View Comment):

    Charlotte (View Comment):

    Cato Rand (View Comment):
    I’d start with “I was born in the United States of America in the 20th century which puts me among the most advantaged humans ever to exist on this planet,” and then work from there.

    If Dill is an undergraduate, she might not have been born in the 20th century! ;-)

    Fair point, but 21st works just as well in that sentence. Maybe better even.

    I know. I’m just always amazed that (for example) the ’80s started 40 years ago. #OldPerson

    You and me both.  I was drunk for most of the 80s.

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  15. Zafar Member
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    Dill (View Comment):

    Zafar (View Comment):

    GrannyDude (View Comment):
    The problem I have is the word “privilege.” It’s a stupid word. For one thing, it doesn’t carry with it the implication of responsibility. Were you and I walking down the street together, Zafar, and some menacing person came along, your “male privilege” would swiftly translate into a responsibility to protect me.

    Then we’d both be in trouble, but I would do my best for you GD, I promise. And yes, I agree that meaningful privilege comes (should come) linked with meaningful responsibility. (So I think privilege does have that implication. Noblesse oblige etc.)

    Re: Dill’s issue – I guess I’m really coming at it from the point of view that a young person is going into a course, and framing it as a political argument before the course has even begun doesn’t seem like the best approach to take for her to achieve the educational outcomes she might wish for. Everything doesn’t have to be an argument, does it? Sometimes it’s better to be generous hearted in how we deal with people.

    You have a point. I saw the word “Privilege” and up went my defenses.

    Perhaps put that into your answer (unless you do option one).

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  16. Dill Inactive
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    I posted my response

    https://ricochet.com/795266/what-i-posted-on-my-privilege/

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  17. Ansonia Member
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    Dill (View Comment):

    I posted my response

    https://ricochet.com/795266/what-i-posted-on-my-privilege/

    It’s a beautiful, gracious response to the professor’s snoopy question.

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  18. Dill Inactive
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    Ansonia (View Comment):

    Dill (View Comment):

    I posted my response

    https://ricochet.com/795266/what-i-posted-on-my-privilege/

    It’s a beautiful, gracious response to the professor’s snoopy question.

    Thank you.

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  19. TBA Coolidge
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    It is definitely a trap, but it might be a trap for the strident and vicious rather than the non-PC; a foray into debate so as to establish rules of debate. 

    But I wouldn’t bet on it, you center-right hatemonger. 

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  20. Ansonia Member
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    TBA (View Comment):

    It is definitely a trap, but it might be a trap for the strident and vicious rather than the non-PC; a foray into debate so as to establish rules of debate.

    But I wouldn’t bet on it, you center-right hatemonger.

    🤣

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  21. Britanicus Member
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    There is another option: Lie. Create a fictional world where you, the writer, are an oppressed victim of the hierarchy. 

    Perhaps you’re a non-binary individual who grew up burdened by the weight of your parent’s middle class values and heterodox belief system.  

    If the professor wants to live in a dream world of privilege then you should make up your own world. 

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