Quote of the Day: Savoring the Enemy’s Losses

 

“Grant had captured an army of at least 13,000 men, a record of the North American continent. He showed mercy toward the conquered force, giving them food and letting them keep their side arms. Avoiding any show of celebration, he refused to shame soldiers and vetoed any ceremony in which they marched. ‘Why should we go through with vain forms and mortify and injure the spirit of brave men, who, after all, are our own countrymen,’ he asked.” — from Grant, by Ron Chernow

“If your enemy falls, do not exult; if he trips, let your heart not rejoice, lest the Lord see it and be displeased, and avert his wrath from him.” —Proverbs, 24: 17-18

For all his overindulgence with alcohol, Ulysses S. Grant was a brilliant general. Although he had some embarrassing losses, he was relentless, strategic and smart. Yet he agonized over those left dead on the battlefield, whether they were his own men or the men of the Confederate army. He was not only determined to lessen their misery, but tried to treat the wounded and dead on both sides, with dignity and compassion.

If you are a Christian or Jew, you are also called by G-d not to indulge in schadenfreude or gloating over another’s loss. I can guess at the reasons (not being a religious expert): G-d, for one, wants us to remember that the enemy was also created in His image. We are also supposed to love our enemies, because when we savor their defeat, we lose a piece of our own humanity.

Keep in mind that wins and losses don’t just apply to battles. What about politics? What about court trials?

Beyond those explanations, what is your understanding of this divine instruction? If you’re not religious, do you have a different perspective? If you are religious, do you try to follow this rule? Do you disagree with it?

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  1. JimGoneWild Coolidge
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    War is an act by and for countries or states, not men. To punish the individual soldier, who acts under orders and may have been drafted, is completely at odds with common sense. Akin to shooting the messenger. It is the statesmen and leaders who should be punished if punishment is required. The simple soldier is a hero no matter which side he was on.

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  2. Ontheleftcoast Inactive
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    JimGoneWild (View Comment):
    To punish the individual soldier, who acts under orders and may have been drafted, is completely at odds with common sense.

    And if the orders are unlawful?

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  3. Rodin Member
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    BigDumbJerk (View Comment):

    I’m of two minds on this…while I theologically understand that we are to treat our foes with respect & honor, I sometimes feel that there isn’t enough “drink(ing) out of the skulls of our enemies!” going on (metaphorically, of course….maybe…..sometimes….).

    Part of warfare is psychological; to keep with the Civil War theme from the OP, Sherman’s burning of Atlanta & march to the sea was nothing but psychological warfare, intended to quash within the enemy any remaining will to fight, thus brining the conflict to a swifter end (and, thereby, reducing the number of casualties).

    Does celebrating in victory not have a place within this?

    I think there is a difference between waging war ferociously and treating the vanquished ferociously. 

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  4. philo Member
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    Susan Quinn: For all his overindulgence with alcohol…

    Apologies for any disruption to an otherwise worthwhile conversation, but… but… <<FACEPALM>>

    (I promise not to sully this thread any more than I already have. Another time, another place. Maybe.)

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  5. Percival Thatcher
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    philo (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: For all his overindulgence with alcohol…

    Apologies for any disruption to an otherwise worthwhile conversation, but… but… <<FACEPALM>>

    (I promise not to sully this thread any more than I already have. Another time, another place. Maybe.)

    I think that I was about to write the same sort of thing, @philo. For all the talk about what a drinker Grant was, there never seemed to be much in the way of evidence for it.

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  6. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    It seems that Grant very rarely drank when there was a battle to be done (at least during the Civil War). His aide, Rawlins, kept an eagle eye on him to make sure he avoided drink (and surprisingly, Grant appreciated it). At those times when a battle wasn’t up, and especially if he was without his wife and family, he sometimes gave in due to depression and despair. I’m not excusing him, but due to his early years of drinking, people would make up stories about him. Especially those generals who were jealous of him. So it was hard to know sometimes whether he’d been on a binge or not.

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  7. philo Member
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    Percival (View Comment):

    philo (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: For all his overindulgence with alcohol…

    Apologies for any disruption to an otherwise worthwhile conversation, but… but… <<FACEPALM>>

    (I promise not to sully this thread any more than I already have. Another time, another place. Maybe.)

    I think that I was about to write the same sort of thing, @philo. For all the talk about what a drinker Grant was, there never seemed to be much in the way of evidence for it.

    At some point I would like to address this specific issue in full but it all really needs to be examined in the bigger picture of “the history of the history of U.S. Grant.” There have been a few very good Powerline posts that address the petty personal politics of it but I think the analysis can be extended to the intentional and necessary take-down of one of the top three or four Americans ever by the early twentieth century progressive movement. (Note: It worked.)  Once they proved they can take down the great General Grant, all others along the way have been rather easy.

    To be fair to Madam Quinn, I have not read Mr. Chernow’s book so I do not know what she has been reading about this issue.  It sits on the shelf as I work my way through the new, fully annotated Personal Memoirs of Ulysses S. Grant that just happed to be released at about the exact same time as the Chernow take. If it (Chernow) is anything like the embarrassingly shallow, intellectually lazy, deceptively presented episode of some Brian Kilmeade vehicle that aired this last Sunday evening on the Fox News Channel then the appearance of the line in her post that I took such exception to would make sense. (I recorded it on a whim when I saw the subject. It was my first stop by that channel in a long time…and will be the last for an even longer time.)

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  8. Percival Thatcher
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    philo (View Comment):

    Percival (View Comment):

    philo (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: For all his overindulgence with alcohol…

    Apologies for any disruption to an otherwise worthwhile conversation, but… but… <<FACEPALM>>

    (I promise not to sully this thread any more than I already have. Another time, another place. Maybe.)

    I think that I was about to write the same sort of thing, @philo. For all the talk about what a drinker Grant was, there never seemed to be much in the way of evidence for it.

    At some point I would like to address this specific issue in full but it all really needs to be examined in the bigger picture of “the history of the history of U.S. Grant.” There have been a few very good Powerline posts that address the petty personal politics of it but I think the analysis can be extended to the intentional and necessary take-down of one of the top three or four Americans ever by the early twentieth century progressive movement. (Note: It worked.) Once they proved they can take down the great General Grant, all others along the way have been rather easy.

    To be fair to Madam Quinn, I have not read Mr. Chernow’s book so I do not know what she has been reading about this issue. It sits on the shelf as I work my way through the new, fully annotated Personal Memoirs of Ulysses S. Grant that just happed to be released at about the exact same time as the Chernow take. If it (Chernow) is anything like the embarrassingly shallow, intellectually lazy, deceptively presented episode of some Brian Kilmeade vehicle that aired this last Sunday evening on the Fox News Channel then the appearance of the line in her post that I took such exception to would make sense. (I recorded it on a whim when I saw the subject. It was my first stop by that channel in a long time…and will be the last for an even longer time.)

    Chernow is better than Kilmeade, but he is fully on-board with Grant as an episodic drinker. Maybe he was, but most of the reports of it are second- or third-hand anecdotes. I think he might have tied one on in Julia’s absence when nothing much was happening, but that would have been fairly infrequent.

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  9. philo Member
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    It seems that Grant very rarely drank when there was a battle to be done (at least during the Civil War). His aide, Rawlins, kept an eagle eye on him to make sure he avoided drink (and surprisingly, Grant appreciated it). At those times when a battle wasn’t up, and especially if he was without his wife and family, he sometimes gave in due to depression and despair. I’m not excusing him, but due to his early years of drinking, people would make up stories about him. Especially those generals who were jealous of him. So it was hard to know sometimes whether he’d been on a binge or not.

    That is a fair-er assessment.  I will add by deferring to Bruce Catton in Grant Moves South:

    Grant, several officers objected, would not due. He drank too much and was unfit for high command. . . .

    A man can get typed, justly or unjustly, and the shadow of the past, the dark stain of officers’-mess gossip, deposited over the years, can stay with him. Few of these men had actually known Sam Grant but in one way or another they had all heard of him: he was the officer who had had to resign his commission out West, six or seven years ago, because he could not leave the bottle alone. Of the exact circumstances surrounding the resignation, of the loneliness and frustration that may have led man and bottle together, of the years of struggle that came thereafter, of the man’s present determination to live down the past and make fullest use of his talents, of the hard core under the surface that would make his name terrible in war — of all these things the trim men in unweathered headquarters blue knew nothing. They know only of the gossip, of the ineradicable stain, and that was enough.

    It would be enough for many others, then and thereafter, for the dark film left by gossip can never be entirely scrubbed away. In an army famous for the hard drinking done by men in shoulder straps, this was a handicap Grant would always have to carry. He began as a colonel and he became a lieutenant general; by maneuvering and hard fighting he captured three rival armies entire; in four years he won command of all the troops in the United States, making himself the completely trusted instrument of the canniest judge of men who ever sat in the White House, enforcing unconditional surrender on dedicated men who had sworn to die rather than to submit; but the stain deposited by the gossip is still there, and men still cock their eyes and leer knowingly when Grant’s name is mentioned: He drank. For men who do not know him, that has been enough. – Pages 38-39

    continued…

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  10. philo Member
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    …continued

    I realize that I am being rather petty and I’m sorry. (I also broke my promise above.) But all too often I see references like this that seem to be based on lazy, erroneous, Cliffs Notes-like versions of our history. I hope you see the difference it perception the uneducated on this topic could take away from your lengthier explanation as opposed to the original “all his overindulgence with alcohol” (Recently, there has been a rash of similarly poor and very embarrassing historical references here and elsewhere regarding the Clinton impeachment.) At some point, those who know better on any particular topic need to at least try to set the record straight. Poor form or not, sometimes I just cannot hold my tongue, so to speak.

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  11. philo Member
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    Percival (View Comment): …episodic drinker..

    And no doubt, there were some episodes.  But this may be the most overplayed card in re-written American history…and, unfortunately, played to great success.  Maybe I should just leave this alone…if we ever got past this they would move on to other lazy and/or just plain crap history, like he was an anti-Semite, he was a corrupt president, or he was <GASP!> a pipe/cigar smoker.

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  12. Ontheleftcoast Inactive
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    philo (View Comment):
    At some point I would like to address this specific issue in full but it all really needs to be examined in the bigger picture of “the history of the history of U.S. Grant.”

    Well put. Catton’s take:

    Grant was promoted captain and transferred to command a company at Humboldt Bay, California. Now he was a line officer, not a quartermaster; his duties were routine and utterly boring, and his work no longer provided protection against the bitter homesickness which, other officers noticed, had beset him as soon as his ship left New York. Julia and the children were away off in Ohio, everything that he tried which promised to bring them to him failed, it might be years before he could see them … and Captain Grant took to drink.

    Actually, he seems not to have taken to it as hard as the tradition says he did. The army was a hard-drinking outfit in those days, especially in remote posts like Humboldt Bay where officers did not have their families with them and found their surroundings unbearably dull. Almost everybody drank, and drank quite a lot, and while it would appear that Grant drank more than was good for him, nobody would ever have heard anything about it except for two little handicaps. Grant was a man with whom a little whiskey went a long way, so that every drink he took showed on him, and he was serving under a cantankerous officer who happened to dislike him personally.

    Brevet Colonel Robert C. Buchanan was excessively “old army,” as soldiers of that day used the term, even for the old army itself. He had been president of the officers’ mess at Jefferson Barracks when Grant was first stationed there, and he and Grant had had a passage at arms about some little thing—apparently nothing more serious than Grant’s way of being slightly tardy at meals. Whatever it was, it had soured Buchanan on Grant and he had not forgotten about it.

    It does not take much to make a man like Buchanan give a junior officer the worst of it, since his type rides the younger officers down anyway on general principles. Buchanan cracked down hard on Grant. Just what took place is in some dispute, but the generally accepted story is that he gave Grant the option of resigning or of standing trial on formal charges of misconduct.

    Grant could almost certainly have won if he had stood trial. After all, the army in those days just did not cashier officers for drinking unless a bender of earth-rocking proportions had been involved. But to stand trial was unthinkable, because in such case the whole sorry story would inevitably come to Julia’s attention. Anyway, Grant had had all of the army he could take.

    Catton, Bruce. U. S. Grant and the American Military Tradition (Kindle Locations 626-644). Open Road Media. Kindle Edition.

     

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  13. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    philo (View Comment):

    Percival (View Comment): …episodic drinker..

    And no doubt, there were some episodes. But this may be the most overplayed card in re-written American history…and, unfortunately, played to great success. Maybe I should just leave this alone…if we ever got past this they would move on to other lazy and/or just plain crap history, like he was an anti-Semite, he was a corrupt president, or he was <GASP!> a pipe/cigar smoker.

    My dear @philo, I am so sorry to have caused you such distress. I am rightly and properly castigated! Seriously, I should have written that sentence differently–it was sloppy on my part. I could have said something like, “For all the focus on his use of alcohol (accounts which were likely greatly exaggerated) . . .” Chernow represented Grant’s history fairly (I believe), since he stated the many times when reports were probably lies or exaggerations. Quite frankly, I could have deleted the first part of my sentence, since it clearly detracted from my point. It’s a good reminder for me that our words and statements should be chosen thoughtfully and carefully. Also remember that I am still reading about the Civil War, and I look forward to learning about Grant’s many other accomplishments. Are we okay?

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  14. JimGoneWild Coolidge
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    Ontheleftcoast (View Comment):

    JimGoneWild (View Comment):
    To punish the individual soldier, who acts under orders and may have been drafted, is completely at odds with common sense.

    And if the orders are unlawful?

    Of course not, but that’s not the issue.

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  15. philo Member
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment): Are we okay?

    To whatever extent a “we” exists and that one of your stature in these parts even acknowledges my existence, we are absolutely okay.  My petty diatribe was less directed at you, specifically, than at the state of our collective knowledge of history. You just hit on a nit for me to pick.  I apologize again for dragging things off-topic.

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  16. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    philo (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn (View Comment): Are we okay?

    To whatever extent a “we” exists and that one of your stature in these parts even acknowledges my existence, we are absolutely okay. My petty diatribe was less directed at you, specifically, than at the state of our collective knowledge of history. You just hit on a nit for me to pick. I apologize again for dragging things off-topic.

    Your apology is not necessary! I appreciate people who are passionate, especially against injustice (and I think Grant was a victim of that). Your “petty diatribe” didn’t feel personal to me. And please don’t talk about my stature–at 5’2″ and shrinking, there ain’t much there!
     

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