Ring the Bell!

 

Clang! cried the bell, as noisemakers rattled and whoops and cheers rang out
Clang! pealed the bell, as noisemakers chattered with yells and applause
Clang! sang the bell, as noisemakers roared and voices whooped and hollered.
And I stood there, covered my face, and cried.

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As the final ritual for ending chemotherapy at Advent Hospital, patients are invited to say the poem below and “ring the bell” three times. I didn’t plan on ringing it, since I thought I would be the only one there to do the deed. As it turns out, all the infusion nurses, including several who had taken care of me, excitedly spread the word that the bell was going to be rung. This act is a milestone in so many ways, to mark the end of a treacherous road and to celebrate life. My husband, fortunately, encouraged me to do it and stood nearby. So, when I walked over to the bell that was hanging on the wall, imagine my surprise when all the nurses, grinning and rattling their noisemakers, stood nearby. This is the poem I declared, followed by a fist pump!

Ring this bell
Three times well
Its toll to clearly say,

My treatment’s done
This course is run
And I am on my way!

— Irve Le Moyne

My journey has not been nearly as difficult as some patients; some people have many more treatments with devastating side effects. Although I have had my share of pain and discomfort and now have peripheral neuropathy, I am satisfied that I took the steps I needed to take to pursue a rich and worthy life.

Now a new path unfolds in front of me. I will have to contemplate how the road ahead appears. As our @mim526 said to me early on, cancer does not define a person; it refines them.

How that transformation, if any, manifests, time will tell.

Ring that bell!

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  1. Susan Quinn Contributor
    Susan Quinn
    @SusanQuinn

    Foghorn (View Comment):

     

    My sister rang it also about 2 weeks ago. She was the last one at the treatment center that day. Thinking the staff were all in the back preparing to go home she shouted a thank you to the break room and headed for the corridor to leave. When she rounded the corner all the staff was lined up & started shouting and cheering. Scared the stuffing out of her. She rang the bell with a gusto and her after care program has kept her hydrated and doing well.

    Wishing you as much success – hang in there.

    I love it, @dave-rogers! Good for them!! What a great way to be scared! Thanks for your good wishes!

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  2. Midwest Southerner Coolidge
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    I love this. So thankful you are on this new path. Continuing to hold you in prayer!

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  3. Basil Fawlty Member
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    @BasilFawlty

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  4. Al Sparks Coolidge
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    Aaron Miller (View Comment):

    I thought the saying went,”Every time a bell rings, a fairy gets irradiated.”

    Congrats!

    Whoa!  I wished I’d said that.  Come to think of it, I probably will.

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  5. JennaStocker Member
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    @JennaStocker

    “At length – at length – after so many days Of weary pilgrimage and burning thirst,(Thirst for the springs of lore that in thee lie,) I kneel, an altered and an humble man, Amid thy shadows, and so drink within My very soul thy grandeur, gloom, and glory!”

    Well done, on a finishing a long- and I’m sure weary- journey, Susan. You’re in my prayers, always.

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  6. Al Sparks Coolidge
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    @AlSparks

    Working in that medical specialty must be emotionally draining, maybe not noticable day to day, but it accumulates.

    If I have to go through that experience, I’ll ring the bell for them (if there is one).

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  7. iWe Coolidge
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    @iWe

    FANTASTIC!

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  8. John Racette Inactive
    John Racette
    @JohnRacette

    God bless you, Susan!

    • #38
  9. Doug Watt Member
    Doug Watt
    @DougWatt

    Congratulations Susan!

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  10. dajoho Member
    dajoho
    @dajoho

    Amen. So glad you got to RING THAT BELL!!

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  11. Quietpi Member
    Quietpi
    @Quietpi

    Thank you, Susan.  Prayers answered, prayers continue.

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  12. Bryan G. Stephens Thatcher
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    @BryanGStephens

    Love and Peace Susan. Congratulations.

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  13. Dbroussa Coolidge
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    Awesome news!!!  I love to hear about ringing that bell.

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  14. Cow Girl Thatcher
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    I’m so happy for you that this part is finished! I’m sure you’re looking forward to a life without these treatments. God bless!

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  15. Douglas Pratt Coolidge
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    Yes!

    I had the chance to ring a bell after the last of my radiation treatments, but I suspect I’m not done yet, so I opted to wait. We’ll see where the PSAs are later this week.

    Glory in it, my friends. It takes courage to get this far.

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  16. Susan Quinn Contributor
    Susan Quinn
    @SusanQuinn

    Douglas Pratt (View Comment):

    Yes!

    I had the chance to ring a bell after the last of my radiation treatments, but I suspect I’m not done yet, so I opted to wait. We’ll see where the PSAs are later this week.

    Glory in it, my friends. It takes courage to get this far.

    I’ll pray for good news, @douglaspratt! You have been such a trooper through your process!

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  17. HansLudwig Coolidge
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    Congratulations Susan. You got this!

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  18. Joker Member
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    Congratulations, Susan! 

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  19. Susan Quinn Contributor
    Susan Quinn
    @SusanQuinn

    I can’t begin to tell you how blown away I am by everyone’s response to this post. The encouragement, support and enthusiasm has been truly inspirational, and I’m trying to take it all in. I’ve always known that Ricochet was a terrific community of caring folks, but for me, your likes and comments have taken my understanding to a new level. You can’t possibly know how gratified and humbled I am.

    Thank you.

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  20. Online Park Member
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    I am so glad that you completed this stage and had the joy you described. I never received my last two treatments because I developed pulmonary emboli and didn’t go back to the infusion center. Thus, no bell. I’m not sure I would have wanted to ring it. I have a particularly aggressive form of breast cancer and don’t want to tempt fate ;-)

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  21. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Online Park (View Comment):

    I am so glad that you completed this stage and had the joy you described. I never received my last two treatments because I developed pulmonary emboli and didn’t go back to the infusion center. Thus, no bell. I’m not sure I would have wanted to ring it. I have a particularly aggressive form of breast cancer and don’t want to tempt fate ;-)

    Oh my goodness, @onlinepark. That is really scary, and I can’t say I blame you! How are you doing now?

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  22. Eleanor Member
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    @Eleanor

    Congratulations Susan!

    Go out and enjoy this summer ☺️!

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  23. EHerring Coolidge
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    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Weeping (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn: As the final ritual for ending chemotherapy at Advent Hospital, patients are invited to say the poem below and “ring the bell” three times. I didn’t plan on ringing it, since I thought I would be the only one there to do the deed. As it turns out, all the infusion nurses, including several who had taken care of me, excitedly spread the word that the bell was going to be rung.

    I hadn’t thought about it before, but I imagine the sound of that bell is as much an encouragement and a sign of victory for those nurses as it is for the patients who ring it. They’ve poured so much of themselves into the patient, I don’t see how it can’t be. I’m glad you decided to ring the bell.

    And I’m glad you’ve completed your treatment. Congratulations!!!! May your life continue to get better and better. {{{Hugs}}}

    I’m sure your observation is true. It must be so hard for them on those days we are suffering– like Friday. But we were all lifted at the sound of the bell.

    The bell gives the rest hope….tells them people do get to the end of chemo.

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  24. Jim George Member
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    Susan, I cannot express in words how happy I am for you at this blessed milestone in your treatment. I have a very specific reason for fully (as possible) understanding the pure, unalloyed joy of this moment as My Lady- Miz Judi as she is known here- experienced that thrilling ceremony a few years ago. She just recently got a clean bill of health, which should be a harbinger of hope for you and yours! Brava!

    Sincerely, Jim

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  25. Susan Quinn Contributor
    Susan Quinn
    @SusanQuinn

    Jim George (View Comment):

    Susan, I cannot express in words how happy I am for you at this blessed milestone in your treatment. I have a very specific reason for fully (as possible) understanding the pure, unalloyed joy of this moment as My Lady- Miz Judi as she is known here- experienced that thrilling ceremony a few years ago. She just recently got a clean bill of health, which should be a harbinger of hope for you and yours! Brava!

    Sincerely, Jim

    Hurray!!!! That does inspire me, @jimgeorge! This has been a trying week as I keep reminding myself that no matter how bad I feel, it’s done! At least this portion is finished. I’m so glad to hear Miz Judi’s recent news and I wish you both a happy and healthy future!

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  26. Online Park Member
    Online Park
    @OnlinePark

    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Online Park (View Comment):

    I am so glad that you completed this stage and had the joy you described. I never received my last two treatments because I developed pulmonary emboli and didn’t go back to the infusion center. Thus, no bell. I’m not sure I would have wanted to ring it. I have a particularly aggressive form of breast cancer and don’t want to tempt fate ;-)

    Oh my goodness, @ onlinepark. That is really scary, and I can’t say I blame you! How are you doing now?

    I am well and in three weeks will say 4 years NED (no evidence of disease). Apparently my prognosis improved dramatically at 3 years so here hoping. ;-)

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  27. Susan Quinn Contributor
    Susan Quinn
    @SusanQuinn

    Online Park (View Comment):
    I am well and in three weeks will say 4 years NED (no evidence of disease). Apparently my prognosis improved dramatically at 3 years so here hoping. ;-)

    Yippee and hurrah! Congratulations on the good news! (I haven’t even thought ahead to prognosis; I’m just trying to get through the fatigue of the latest treatment.) I’m so happy for you!

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  28. JustmeinAZ Member
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    @JustmeinAZ

    Online Park (View Comment):

    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Online Park (View Comment):

    I am so glad that you completed this stage and had the joy you described. I never received my last two treatments because I developed pulmonary emboli and didn’t go back to the infusion center. Thus, no bell. I’m not sure I would have wanted to ring it. I have a particularly aggressive form of breast cancer and don’t want to tempt fate ;-)

    Oh my goodness, @ onlinepark. That is really scary, and I can’t say I blame you! How are you doing now?

    I am well and in three weeks will say 4 years NED (no evidence of disease). Apparently my prognosis improved dramatically at 3 years so here hoping. ;-)

    Wow! That is really great news!

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  29. EHerring Coolidge
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    @EHerring

    Susan Quinn (View Comment):

    Online Park (View Comment):
    I am well and in three weeks will say 4 years NED (no evidence of disease). Apparently my prognosis improved dramatically at 3 years so here hoping. ;-)

    Yippee and hurrah! Congratulations on the good news! (I haven’t even thought ahead to prognosis; I’m just trying to get through the fatigue of the latest treatment.) I’m so happy for you!

    The sun is out!

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