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You’re Doin’ It Wrong
Today is Halloween, which means that tonight is Beggar’s Night. Or as I like to call it, my neighbor’s annual chance to confirm that someone actually does live in that house. At 6pm, I’ll need to be outside, as a bunch of rando people come walking up my driveway expecting me to interact with them.
What a horror show.
But the worst part is having to watch what’s going on in front of me, the alleged Trick-or-Treating. Kids in store-bought costumes being escorted around by parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles… about two adults per child. They go up and down just our street, stopping and talking at each house as they go, the annual catchup for all the adults on the street. I sit, as this dismal failure unfolds before my eyes, with one thought reverberating through my head.
You’re doin’ it wrong.
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Jump in the Wayback Machine and we’ll go back to 1970, when kids knew how to do it right. I was eight that year, and although I didn’t know it, this would be my last year in the old neighborhood. I’ve written about that neighborhood before; a huge development, one of three in the town, where about four out of five houses contained school-age children.
Beggar’s Night back then ran from 6pm-9pm. At about 4pm you would realize that you needed some kind of Halloween costume, or people wouldn’t give you candy when you got to their door. Not to worry. A trip to the junk drawer in the kitchen looking for a cork. On the rare occasions when wine is consumed in the house, and on the even more rare occasions that said wine doesn’t have a screw top, the corks are saved for just his reason. Burn the cork and you can use it to give yourself Bluto-style five o’clock shadow.
At this point you have two ways to go. Find a bandana; there’s always a couple around the house. If you put something in it and tie it to a stick, you’re on your way to a hobo. Just wear some crappy clothes (a.k.a. the clothes you wear every day), and you’re all set.
Or you can go all out. Wrap the bandana around your head and tie it to the side. Make an eyepatch out of paper and a shoelace; if you don’t have black paper, that’s what magic markers are for. Go the extra mile and cut a sword out of cardboard. Gar, you’re a pirate.
The costume didn’t matter, because it wasn’t about the costume; it was about the candy. A lot of candy. And that meant volume. The idea of only covering one street would have horrified us. Our goal was to hit a hundred, hundred and fifty houses.
To do that, you have to move fast, and that means leaving the adults at home. None of this walking up the driveway stuff. No, you cut through the yards, jump over the flower beds, moving at a constant run, only stopping when you’re in front of the door, yelling “Trick or Treat”. And there we would stand, quivering like greyhounds at the starting gate, desperately repressing the urge to scream:
“Let’s go, let’s go… I got a schedule to keep!”
But these were all parents, and if you said something like that they would want to talk to you about having a proper attitude, and that crap can seriously cut into your trick-or-treatin’ time. So, we smiled, and held our tongues, doing our best to look normal during that completely abnormal time.
You have to understand the enormity of it. People were giving away candy! You just walk up to the door and they give you candy. It boggled the mind, but even at our tender ages we knew, deep down to our very souls, that this was what made America great.
Of course, with people expecting three, four thousand kids to come by, a lot of what we got was fairly marginal stuff:
- A cellophane packet with three kernels of candy corn. For some reason, one was bigger than the others. I always ate that one first.
- A small paper envelope with two small SweetTarts.
- A tiny cardboard box with two Chiclets. What do I look like, my mom? (Of course, you didn’t say that. Attitude, crap, cutting into time).
But there were gems among the cheap stuff:
- Mini rolls of Necco wafers. Always a favorite.
- Ah, Smarties. Put the whole roll in your mouth and crunch. Oh, the rush of sugar and artificial flavors. It just doesn’t get any better than that.
- Tootsie Roll Pops, along with the entire panoply of other suckers.
- Bazooka and Double Bubble. You can never have too much bubblegum.
Then you move into the premium tier, and that means chocolate.
- Mini-size, and fun-size and best of all snack-size candy bars. People giving away candy bars. Seriously… mind boggled.
But what you lived for were the unicorns.
- Full-size candy bars. Even in our working-class neighborhood, there were people going that all out for Halloween. Trust me, word spread among the ravening horde as to the location of these poor fools, who doubtless ended up with far more visitors than they had ever anticipated.
- Popcorn balls covered in caramel. Where else do you get those other than Halloween?
- Homemade caramel covered apples. I can still taste it, sitting here now, the saltiness of the caramel against the sweetness of the apple.
We would use large-size paper grocery bags, and we would come home with pounds of stuff. We would be exhausted but filled with the pride that only comes from a job well done. Plus, we had pounds of stuff.
The only worry left was how to keep my older brothers from stealing my candy.
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So kids, up your game and start doing it right. Ditch the old folks, run through the yards, and start getting the job done. Oh, and while you’re at it, you might at least pretend that there is some truth behind your threat of producing a trick if I disappoint you. I look at these kids, standing there with half their family in tow, and I want to ask them… did you bring any eggs? How about a bar of soap? You’ve got nothin’, right? Get off of my driveway.
But if I do that the parents want to talk to me about having the proper attitude and that crap can really increase the amount of time I have to spend interacting with people.
“Let’s go let’s go! I got a schedule to keep.”
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The year I dressed up like I Dream of Jeannie we had six inches of snow. Tragic.
Grocery sacks?! GROCERY sacks???! And you claim to be Midwesterners?? The first time you set it down on someone’s snowy stoop to adjust your eye patch, you’re trailing candy like Hansel and Gretel trailing breadcrumbs through the forest!
Serious Trick-or-Treaters know it’s pillowcases all the way. I’m ashamed for ya’.
There must be something wrong with me. I’ve always disliked Halloween, too hard to think up a costume. And it really is begging. Or extortion. We go to a friend’s party every year (she makes chili!) and I really don’t even want to go to that. Bah Humbug!
Like I would ever set down my candy. What are you, a crazy woman?
Unless it was the local dentist. Then you got your new toothbrush for the season.
And we weren’t allowed to use pillowcases. Those were all busy holding pillows.
We lived in a housing development separated by a (it seemed at the time) fairly major road. When you were old enough to cross over from our smaller section to the newer, bigger section, you had arrived! Such was the frenzy, I remember watching kids running across the low-angled roof of one of those “modern” houses. Kids on the roof!! Can you imagine such a thing today?
If you didn’t make it home with at least ten pounds of candy, you were a piker.
I went with the full sized bars this year. Guy bagging at the grocery store: “Guess I know which house we’re hitting”. Me: “I’m gunning for Halloween legend. Uh, the good kind.”
Got a spy theme going on this year. I’ve got the candy bars neatly lined up in my briefcase. It’s not stacks of $100 bills, but I imagine this is what that feels like.
Where do you live again?
Heck, I’m not even sure I’m a real person.
Good brothers though.
That sounds like you just hate people.
Not that there’s anything wrong with that.
In my neighborhood as a kid:
Best house: the guy who drove for the cookie factory who gave packages of hydrox
Worst: pennies, the dentist who gave floss or a toothbrush, the very religious person who gave Jack Chick Tracts
My parents were both busy and had little money, so it was a toys r us/drug store costume for me: plastic mask with air supply the size of a pinhole attached with a rubber band and what amounted to a flammable trash bag with graphics over my body.
I miss those times.
Here’s what I got goin’ on this year (packaged together):
So, @olddanrhody, what’s your opinion on this matter?
One of these years when I don’t have to work during Halloween I’m making a wheel:
The tricky part is figuring out what to do for “Gulag”.
Figure out where the dentist lives and force ’em to go there before you give ’em any candy.
That will only work is you have a dentist living fairly close by.
I’ll hit up the neighbor kids for intel. There’s got to be a “that house” in the neighborhood.
Who came up with “Fun Size”? You know what’s fun, a real sized candy bars (or a Snickaloaf)
I live on a little dead end. Each year I see kids walking past the corner just 100 feet from my front door but they don’t come down the dead end. I think we get about two or three kids each year. Never the less, I make sure we have lots of candy on hand . . . just in case. But if the kids don’t come down the street there is a fair chance I will be going into a diabetic coma sometime tomorrow.
You’re waiting? Good man.
Our next-door neighbor used to serve doughnuts and apple cider. But you had to go in. And sit down. And eat at a civilized pace while chatting with the neighbor lady. C’mon! The neighborhood is waiting! But my mom said we had to stop there because she was our neighbor. Gah!
As the teacher’s union would say, “it’s for the children.” Of course, if it looks like things are going to waste, I’ll step up and do what I gotta do. (then instead of candy going to waste it will go to waist)
The vandalism side of Halloween has certainly died down since I was a kid. I think people are just too hyper-sensitive and over lawyered these days for that kind of stuff. I went for a walk this morning and saw two houses that got TP’d. Both have kids my son’s age I would bet they toilet papered their own houses because they were afraid to do it to someone else’s.
Even when I was a teenager that was already more a sign of popularity than anything else.
Hmmm… grocery store has 24 packs of Mt. Dew for $6.00. Ignoring tax that’s $0.25 per can. Would actually be cheaper than the full-size candy bar option.
Would also work as ‘trick’ on the parents. “Happy Halloween kid; have a can of Mountain Dew. You don’t look hyper enough.”
That’s just sad.
Best article ever! That was a snapshot of my past!
Mr Boomerang