Never Say Never Again

 

The great irony of politics is that it rewards loyalty with neglect and heaps attention on the uncommitted. Saying your vote can be counted on is a guaranteed way to get ignored, while letting it be known that you’re willing to deal (for the right price, of course) means people will fawn over you. It’s not a good system, it’s just the one we’re stuck us with.

If conservatives ever knew this, we forgot it completely when Donald Trump strode onto the political stage. As I describe in a piece on The Federalist, very nearly all of us — NeverTrumpers, Trumpkins, and ReluctantTrumpers alike — overcommitted ourselves at the outset, losing whatever degree of influence or control we might have had over the Republican nominee.

As a practical matter, the [NeverTrump] strategy was an abject failure. It persuaded too few Republicans to deny Trump the nomination. Additionally, the movement’s habit of offering opposition without alternative made it seem stubborn and childish on the one hand, while its elite nature—at least, in its early stages—gave it the air of a frustrated parent falling back on a because-I-said-so defense. […] The smarter—though, more difficult—move for Trump opponents would have been to state that they could not support Donald Trump under current circumstances, and to offer a brief explanation of how they could be persuaded to change their minds.

It needn’t have been likely that Trump would meet these conditions, so long as it were possible. Nor would it have required critics to pull their punches. “I will never support Donald Trump for president,” and “I cannot support Donald Trump for president now because of reason x,” are dissimilar only insofar as one’s future standards or Donald Trump’s behavior are likely to change. If the former is secure, then offering an incentive for good behavior would only have been to NeverTrumpers’ advantage.

But it’s not just the NeverTrumps who overcommitted themselves. Dennis Prager — who opposed Trump throughout the primaries but who argues that conservatives became morally obliged to support him once he became the nominee — provides an almost perfect example of the dangers of telling a candidate that it’s all-but-impossible for them to lose your vote:

There is nothing inherently wrong with Prager’s judgement that, given the stakes, it’s best to vote for Donald Trump over Hillary Clinton. But [arguing] that Clinton’s awfulness obliges one to vote for Trump removes any possibility of influence over the candidate. Though Prager has continued to criticize Trump regularly, it should come as little surprise that the candidate has taken so little heed; if NeverTrumpers have locked themselves out of negotiations, Prager and those like him have locked themselves in.

If you want to know who’s to blame for our current mess, the person who stares back at you from the mirror is probably a good starting point.

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  1. Jamie Lockett Member
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    @JamieLockett

    cdor:

    Jamie Lockett:

    James Gawron:

    Concretevol:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.: But it’s not just the NeverTrumps who overcommitted themselves. Dennis Prager — who opposed Trump throughout the primaries but who argues that conservatives became morally obliged to support him once he became the nominee — provides an almost perfect example of the dangers of telling a candidate that it’s all-but-impossible for them to lose your vote

    This isomething I have been observing as well. When you basically tell the candidate that all they have to do for your support is to NOT be Hillary Clinton, that says there is no line they can cross to lose you……

    Concrete,

    Isn’t this a strange argument you are making. You want people to bluff with the possibility of a Clinton election so to effect the possible behavior of Trump. Meanwhile, you are ignoring that Hillary Clinton’s behavior makes Richard Nixon look like an Eagle Scout.

    I’ll say it again if you’d like. If the only thing Donald Trump can guarantee me is a Clinton Free White House for the next four years then that is a sufficient reason for me to vote for him.

    Regards,

    Jim

    Is there anything Trump could do or any position he could hold that would make you not able to vote for him?

    For me the answer to when did I stop beating my wife is, “I never did beat my wife”. And the answer to your question…Yes, but he hasn’t done it yet

    All I’m trying to do is find out if you have a line. Because that would at least get EverTrumpers to admit that people can have lines that can be crossed. That would at least foster some understanding between us – for NeverTrump that line was crossed. Whether you agree with the reasoning behind it it would at least stop the accusations of bad faith and vitriol from flying about.

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  2. Mate De Inactive
    Mate De
    @MateDe

    Jamie Lockett:

    James Gawron:

    Jamie Lockett:

    James Gawron:

    Concretevol:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    Concrete,

    Isn’t this a strange argument you are making. You want people to bluff with the possibility of a Clinton election so to effect the possible behavior of Trump. Meanwhile, you are ignoring that Hillary Clinton’s behavior makes Richard Nixon look like an Eagle Scout.

    I’ll say it again if you’d like. If the only thing Donald Trump can guarantee me is a Clinton Free White House for the next four years then that is a sufficient reason for me to vote for him.

    Regards,

    Jim

    Is there anything Trump could do or any position he could hold that would make you not able to vote for him?

    Jamie,

    Don’t you see the absurdity of what you are saying to me? You want some rule book guarantee of what Trump might or might not do in the future as a reason to vote for him now. Meanwhile, the proven corrupt and dangerous behavior of the person who will be elected President of the United States if Trump is defeated, is of no interest to you at all. Hillary Clinton has already exhibited behaviors that should have made you commit to a policy of keeping her out of the White House. Yet, with six days left you are still playing games.

    Regards,

    Jim

    No I do not. I get that Hillary is bad, I do. But by saying she is so bad as to absolve anyone running against her of any sin you are acting just like the NeverTrumpers you decry. So Trump could rape a 5 year old at the podium and “he’s not Hillary so he’s got my vote”? Do you have a line at all? If so I’d like to know what it is.

    Well, Trump didn’t rape a 5 year old at the podium now did he? I don’t understand this question. yes there is something a candidate can to which I will no longer vote for them. So far Trump has not done anything that will lead me to not vote for him over Hillary. Right now hypotheticals are irrelavant.

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  3. Doctor Robert Member
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    @DoctorRobert

    Note:

    Comment works without the insult.

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    A-Squared:I was never a NeverTrumper – I consistently said Trump could earn my vote between the convention and the election.

    He hasn’t yet.

    Wise man.

    You’re both fools.

    This is a binary choice.  We get HRC or we get DJT.  HRC is so infinitely worse than any candidate in memory, so dangerous for America and for our freedoms, that failure to man up and hold your nose and vote for Trump is deplorable.

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  4. James Gawron Inactive
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    @JamesGawron

    Jamie Lockett: No I do not. I get that Hillary is bad, I do. But by saying she is so bad as to absolve anyone running against her of any sin you are acting just like the NeverTrumpers you decry. So Trump could rape a 5 year old at the podium and “he’s not Hillary so he’s got my vote”? Do you have a line at all? If so I’d like to know what it is.

    Jamie,

    This is a childish argument. I didn’t say Hillary is “bad”. I said she has already exhibited proven behaviors that should have made (any adult) commit to keeping her out of the White House. With this, you respond with absurd hypotheticals about Trump’s possible behaviors. This isn’t even a strawman argument this is irrational.

    Regards,

    Jim

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  5. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    Doctor Robert:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    A-Squared:I was never a NeverTrumper – I consistently said Trump could earn my vote between the convention and the election.

    He hasn’t yet.

    Wise man.

    You’re both fools.

    This is a binary choice. We get HRC or we get DJT. HRC is so infinitely worse than any candidate in memory, so dangerous for America and for our freedoms, that failure to man up and hold your nose and vote for Trump is deplorable.

    Gosh, Doc, I wish you’d tell us how you REALLY feel. I don’t think insults are necessary.

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  6. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
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    @Midge

    Hypotheticals can be tendentious, but for the purpose of inquiring into whether other people do have a line that can be crossed, and where it is, they are reasonable. No point in calling it irrational.

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  7. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
    Midget Faded Rattlesnake
    @Midge

    Susan Quinn:

    Doctor Robert:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    A-Squared:I was never a NeverTrumper – I consistently said Trump could earn my vote between the convention and the election.

    He hasn’t yet.

    Wise man.

    You’re both fools.

    This is a binary choice. We get HRC or we get DJT. HRC is so infinitely worse than any candidate in memory, so dangerous for America and for our freedoms, that failure to man up and hold your nose and vote for Trump is deplorable.

    Gosh, Doc, I wish you’d tell us how you REALLY feel. I don’t think insults are necessary.

    Seconding this.

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  8. Jamie Lockett Member
    Jamie Lockett
    @JamieLockett

    Mate De:

    Jamie Lockett:

    James Gawron:

    Jamie Lockett:

    James Gawron:

    Concretevol:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    Concrete,

    Isn’t this a strange argument you are making. You want people to bluff with the possibility of a Clinton election so to effect the possible behavior of Trump. Meanwhile, you are ignoring that Hillary Clinton’s behavior makes Richard Nixon look like an Eagle Scout.

    I’ll say it again if you’d like. If the only thing Donald Trump can guarantee me is a Clinton Free White House for the next four years then that is a sufficient reason for me to vote for him.

    Regards,

    Jim

    Is there anything Trump could do or any position he could hold that would make you not able to vote for him?

    Jamie,

    Don’t you see the absurdity of what you are saying to me? You want some rule book guarantee of what Trump might or might not do in the future as a reason to vote for him now. Meanwhile, the proven corrupt and dangerous behavior of the person who will be elected President of the United States if Trump is defeated, is of no interest to you at all. Hillary Clinton has already exhibited behaviors that should have made you commit to a policy of keeping her out of the White House. Yet, with six days left you are still playing games.

    Regards,

    Jim

    No I do not. I get that Hillary is bad, I do. But by saying she is so bad as to absolve anyone running against her of any sin you are acting just like the NeverTrumpers you decry. So Trump could rape a 5 year old at the podium and “he’s not Hillary so he’s got my vote”? Do you have a line at all? If so I’d like to know what it is.

    Well, Trump didn’t rape a 5 year old at the podium now did he? I don’t understand this question. yes there is something a candidate can to which I will no longer vote for them. So far Trump has not done anything that will lead me to not vote for him over Hillary. Right now hypotheticals are irrelavant.

    Thank you. So lines can exist. Is it so beyond the realm of possibility that Trump has crossed that line for some of us?

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  9. Viator Inactive
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    Concretevol: I think I lost any hope of Trump “hiring the best people!” after watching the people he surrounds himself with in his campaign. It’s a freaking clownshow.

    https://static01.nyt.com/images/2007/09/20/us/21giuliani-600.jpg

    https://sofrep.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/101dsa.jpg

    https://i.ytimg.com/vi/m2d8N5psACM/hqdefault.jpg

    http://cdn.idigitaltimes.com/sites/idigitaltimes.com/files/2014/08/28/2012/11/04/2907-governor-chris-christie-2nd-l-surveys-the-hurricane-sandy-damaged-area.jpg

    http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/09/24/15/2CB68DBA00000578-3247623-The_couple_live_in_New_York_with_their_brood_They_are_pictured_i-m-35_1443103378349.jpg

    https://i.ytimg.com/vi/R4onFtSSBIo/maxresdefault.jpg

    http://cdn.thedailybeast.com/content/dailybeast/cheats/2016/08/28/trump-campaign-manager-kellyanne-conway-won-t-defend-dwyane-wade-tweet/jcr:content/image.img.707.jpg/49082247.cached.jpg

    http://politics.georgetown.edu/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/bennett-crop.jpg

    https://ballotpedia.org/Donald_Trump_presidential_campaign_key_staff_and_advisors,_2016

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  10. Jamie Lockett Member
    Jamie Lockett
    @JamieLockett

    James Gawron:

    Jamie Lockett: No I do not. I get that Hillary is bad, I do. But by saying she is so bad as to absolve anyone running against her of any sin you are acting just like the NeverTrumpers you decry. So Trump could rape a 5 year old at the podium and “he’s not Hillary so he’s got my vote”? Do you have a line at all? If so I’d like to know what it is.

    Jamie,

    This is a childish argument. I didn’t say Hillary is “bad”. I said she has already exhibited proven behaviors that should have made (any adult) commit to keeping her out of the White House. With this, you respond with absurd hypotheticals about Trump’s possible behaviors. This isn’t even a strawman argument this is irrational.

    Regards,

    Jim

    So there is no line Trump could cross that would get you to not vote for him? I’m not saying vote for Hillary, but just not vote for Trump.

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  11. A-Squared Inactive
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    @ASquared

    Doctor Robert: This is a binary choice. We get HRC or we get DJT. HRC is so infinitely worse than any candidate in memory, so dangerous for America and for our freedoms, that failure to man up and hold your nose and vote for Trump is deplorable.

    I agree that HRC is infinitely worse than any candidate in memory and so dangerous for America and for our freedoms, it’s just that I think Trump is also infinitely worse than any candidate in memory and dangerous for America and for our freedoms, so where I disagree is when you say that the choice is obvious.  I think Clinton will cause more harm to the country in the next four years, but I think Trump will cause more harm to the country in the longer term.

    If my vote displeases you, let me provide you with a complete list of how that will affect my life or decision:

    1)

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  12. Tom Meyer Member
    Tom Meyer
    @tommeyer

    Columbo:If you want to know who’s to blame for our current mess, the person who stares back at you below … is probably a good starting point. [pictures of Mike Murphy and Jeb Bush]

    If Murphy and Bush don’t have access to large mirrors for this purpose, I’d be happy to buy them each one.

    My point is not that we’re all equally guilty: Some folks have more to answer for than others and I’d put Murphy and Jeb high on the list of people who have a lot to answer for.

    I am, however, pushing back against the notion that (most) of us have nothing to apologize for. That includes me, and it includes you.

    14355151_10209931919122123_158508191685002379_n

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  13. JLocked Inactive
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    @CrazyHorse

    I hate to be the “won’t someone please think of the children” person here in Springfield–but perhaps we could avoid hypothetical pederasty in our arguments against moral equivalence?

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  14. Ralphie Inactive
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    @Ralphie

    I liked the first paragraph of this article. It reminds me of a good friend that was mad because he couldn’t get the free set of pots and pans at the bank because he already had an account. It was for new customers only.  While he threatened to close his account and open about 5 new ones, he didn’t. He actually liked his banker, and the pots and pans were cheap.  General Elections are about the uncommitted/undecided, new customer etc. Only they don’t get the pots and pans either. We are talking about politicians. The bank can use its own assets to purchase and give away pots and pans. Politicians have to use force to take something from one person to give to another. It is harder.

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  15. billy Inactive
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    @billy

    SpiritO'78:I’ve always thought the Trump as ‘president of everything’ was the wrong sales pitch to attract the Never Trumpers.

    We really do vote for a team (advisors, officials) to direct the affairs of the country. Most of those positions are appointed but always with advice and consent. Even a Trump skeptic (me for sure) has to believe he can put a decent team together. This has been my guiding principle this cycle.

    I know what kind of team I get from Hillary. I do wish the Never Trumpers would see it that way, I understand if they don’t.

    This is my thinking exactly. There was a phrase during the Bush administration, “Personnel is policy.”  A President isn’t a magic man we choose to run the country. He is the head of a team, of which each member will set the policies that govern us.

    So #NeverTrumpers, what do you think Hillary’s team will look like?

     

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  16. Tom Meyer Member
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    Doctor Robert:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    A-Squared:I was never a NeverTrumper – I consistently said Trump could earn my vote between the convention and the election.

    He hasn’t yet.

    Wise man.

    You’re both fools.

    This is a binary choice. We get HRC or we get DJT. HRC is so infinitely worse than any candidate in memory, so dangerous for America and for our freedoms, that failure to man up and hold your nose and vote for Trump is deplorable.

    giphy

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  17. A-Squared Inactive
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    @ASquared

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:
    giphy

    forgot-your-ax

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  18. Jamie Lockett Member
    Jamie Lockett
    @JamieLockett

    A-Squared:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:giphy

    forgot-your-ax

    image

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  19. Tom Meyer Member
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    David Carroll: The point is that the NeverTrump approach is weak strategically. If conservatism is the goal, demanding that he earn the vote is the more strategic approach.

    Agreed, but so is it’s-all-but-impossible-for-Trump-to-lose-my-vote.

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  20. JLocked Inactive
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    Well Tom, I enjoyed your article but I’m gonna go ahead and leave this wagon circle of a thread with my scalp.

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  21. James Gawron Inactive
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    Note:

    Personal attack.

    Jamie Lockett: So there is no line Trump could cross that would get you to not vote for him? I’m not saying vote for Hillary, but just not vote for Trump.

    Jamie,

    This isn’t an argument this is just you reciting your very first false statement. To call you a troll in this would be to compliment.

    Regards,

    Jim

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  22. She Member
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    @She

    Columbo:

    Jamie Lockett:

    She:

    Columbo:If you want to know who’s to blame for our current mess, the person who stares back at you below … is probably a good starting point.

     

    Please clap …

    Jeb Bush? Out of the primaries, and off the radar, since February. What’s your point?

    Something something something Bush. Something something Murphy. Something therefore Trump.

    I can support this with words (250 limit at a time), but since “a picture tells 1,000 words” I choose this route first.

    Riddle me two things … 1) why did 17 ‘contenders’ (LOL!) throw their hats in the primary ring?; and 2) why did Murphy/Bush boast of the $100MM war chest that pre-empted even Mitt Romney from running again?

    Answer to both questions:  I don’t care!  

    There’s an old story about two Buddhist monks on a journey.  When they come to a stream, and see a young lady standing there, worried that she doesn’t know how to get across, the younger monk ignores her, strides right by, and walks through the stream by himself.

    The older, wiser, monk picks her up and carries her over on his back.  When they get to the other side of the stream, he puts her down, and she runs off.

    The monks continue their journey, with steam coming out of the younger monk’s ears.  Finally, he erupts in anger at his companion:  “How could you carry her like that?  You know we can’t touch women!  It’s against our way of life!”

    The older monk quietly responds: “I put the woman down at the river’s edge a long time ago.  Why are you still carrying her on your back?”

    My point is (thanks for asking), that this should have been a cakewalk, a doddle, as easy as falling off a log, for Donald Trump.

    But because neither he, nor many of his supporters, can get that woman* off their backs, it’s not.

    *Of course, this is a metaphor.  Substitute whatever thing, or combination of things, you like:  Seventeen contenders, Jeb!, Murphy, the GOPe, Kevin Williamson, Robert Zubrin, Glenn Beck, the shiny-objet-du-jour, and so on.  

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  23. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
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    @Midge

    James Gawron: To call you a troll in this would be to compliment.

    Knock it off.

    There’s plenty of irritating sniping from both sides going on here right now. Calling each other worse than trolls is not going to help. And often self-styled trollhunters risk being perceived as trolls themselves.

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  24. RyanFalcone Member
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    Immediately after getting the nomination, Trump began his planned move to the left. He was talking about deals, picking justices off his “list”, waffling on the wall, waffling on guns, etc. He tried to woo Berniecrats and failed. Who was left? Never Trumpers. That’s who you have to thank for the Gettysburg Speech. Thank you #NeverTrumpers!

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  25. Jamie Lockett Member
    Jamie Lockett
    @JamieLockett

    James Gawron:

    Jamie Lockett: So there is no line Trump could cross that would get you to not vote for him? I’m not saying vote for Hillary, but just not vote for Trump.

    Jamie,

    This isn’t an argument this is just you reciting your very first false statement. To call you a troll in this would be to compliment.

    Regards,

    Jim

    Jim I’m honestly trying to help you understand my position. I have a line for candidates that is not relative to who they are running against. I’m assuming that you do too. By getting you to recognize that such lines exist you will at least understand where some of us are coming from. Why won’t you answer my question?

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  26. Trinity Waters Member
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    @

    Bob Laing:

    Trinity Waters:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    A-Squared:I was never a NeverTrumper – I consistently said Trump could earn my vote between the convention and the election.

    He hasn’t yet.

    Wise man.

    Last I looked at the date on the bottom right of my screen, it’s five days until the election. Cutting it awfully close for wisdom, methinks.

    What is implied here? Time to fall in line and cast an unwise vote?

    No, just that there is precious little time to concentrate one’s intellect and help save our country.  I can’t say it any better than Mr. Gawron.

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  27. James Gawron Inactive
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    @JamesGawron

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:

    David Carroll: The point is that the NeverTrump approach is weak strategically. If conservatism is the goal, demanding that he earn the vote is the more strategic approach.

    Agreed, but so is it’s-all-but-impossible-for-Trump-to-lose-my-vote.

    Tom,

    Strategy was for eighteen months ago. We have five days. Given what has transpired, I think it prudent not to try to imagine the finer points of “We Must Keep Hillary Clinton Out of the White House”. We will be forced momentarily to allow Donald J. Trump’s Id, Ego, and Super-Ego free reign. On November 9th, assuming the catastrophe of Hillary Clinton in the White House hasn’t transpired, I will entertain whatever strategy you have to “contain” Trump. Until then, not so much.

    Regards,

    Jim

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  28. James Gawron Inactive
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    @JamesGawron

    James Gawron:

    Jamie Lockett: So there is no line Trump could cross that would get you to not vote for him? I’m not saying vote for Hillary, but just not vote for Trump.

    Jamie,

    This isn’t an argument this is just you reciting your very first false statement. To call you a troll in this would be to compliment.

    Regards,

    Jim

    Tom,

    I hope this was not you but some other editor because such a very minor rebuking comment on what is a repeated meme not an argument is hardly a personal attack. It was just a statement of fact.

    Regards,

    Jim

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  29. Tom Meyer Member
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    Mr. Conservative: I don’t think your strategy (holding out hope to Trump that he could win over conservatives under some circumstances) would have worked. From the beginning Trump did everything he could to poke his finger in the eye of conservatives I guess as part of a Sista-Soljah type strategy, assuming the conservatives would come back to him anyway in the general election if Hillary (or Sanders) was the Democrat nominee. (And he may have gambled right–who knows–I do agree that #nevertrumpers will most likely a non-factor, except maybe in Utah).

    Not saying “never” doesn’t require one to pull punches. From elsewhere the piece:

    It needn’t have been likely that Trump would meet [his detractors’] conditions, so long as it were possible. Nor would it have required critics to pull their punches. “I will never support Donald Trump for president,” and “I cannot support Donald Trump for president now because of reason x,” are dissimilar only insofar as one’s future standards or Donald Trump’s behavior are likely to change. If the former is secure, then offering an incentive for good behavior would only have been to NeverTrumpers’ advantage.

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  30. Tom Meyer Member
    Tom Meyer
    @tommeyer

    Austin Murrey:I thought your article on The Federalist was quite good – will we be seeing more of your work there?

    I’m not going to commit myself. ;)

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