Is There a Recovery Group for Ricochet?

 

I’m serious. I’ve never been active on a blog before, and I think I’m in deep trouble. Some people seem to spend all their waking hours here. Some people are so bright that their wisdom and intelligence are overwhelming. Me, I just say what I think, trying to balance head and heart. But I think I’m spending too much time here. Yet there are so many important topics and intelligent (although sometimes somewhat snarky) comments, that I don’t want to miss what is clearly valuable information.

I’m trying to set up rules for myself (limiting myself to certain people, topics, reviewing a limited number of comments. limiting my own comments). And then of course I make my own posts — how foolish is that?! Maybe I need a super speed reading and super speed writing workshop. Maybe Ricochettis should offer one? Is there a cure? Should there be a cure? Is it possible to have a life outside of Ricochet?

I have to stop here … need to check for comments on my latest post and see how people are responding to Tom Meyer…

Editor’s note: There is no recovery group, but Ricochet is one of the few healthy addictions you can have. Join the conversation here.

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  1. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    CB Toder aka Mama Toad: One tip: try not to begin each conversation with a loved one thusly: “Someone put up a post at Ricochet…”

    Uh oh. I’m dead meat . . .

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  2. Zafar Member
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    @Zafar

    Abandon hope all ye who enter here….

    (I can stop any time I want, I tell you.)

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  3. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    donald todd: I do respond whenever I want to. Some are well received and some are promptly ignored.

    Donald, I doubt that your comments are ignored. From my VERY limited experience, I try to limit my responses; otherwise I’d respond to every comment!! I like them all! Sometimes a comment simply stands on its own and I can’t add anything meaningful. Sometimes one is so funny that I can’t help myself, but I doubt that I’m as funny as the commenter. I am concerned that people might think that I don’t care/don’t appreciate/don’t understand (which may be possible because I am dense sometimes) what they said, but I’m not comfortable adding comments frequently to the thread. It’s a dilemma. Thanks for giving me the chance to respond.

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  4. Annefy Member
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    @Annefy

    CB Toder aka Mama Toad:One tip: try not to begin each conversation with a loved one thusly: “Someone put up a post at Ricochet…”

    Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    Seriously, I think they think you are all a figment of my imagination, made up to bolster debate points.

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  5. Annefy Member
    Annefy
    @Annefy

    Claire Berlinski, Ed.:Clara Binski here, jumping in to remind everyone to use Ricochet responsibly. drunk

    • Use Ricochet with a group of friends. -snip-
    • Don’t use Ricochet with people who encourage binge usage or look down on you for not “keeping up.” -snip-
    • Create a “buddy system” with at least one of your friends. When you use Ricochet, at least one of them should be a person who knows his or her own limit, or even someone who doesn’t use Ricochet very much, and will be willing to watch out for you and to tell you when it looks like you’ve had enough. Sometimes, you could be using way over your limit while being too stubborn to admit it, and this friend can let you know when it’s time to switch to a good book.
    • Know your limits. Before all else, know yourself and your own limits. -snip-
    • Avoid peer pressure. Always remember that you’re using Ricochet to enjoy and have fun. The whole point of is to enjoy the website, enjoy the company and feel free. You don’t need to “keep up,” or engage in stupid competitions that could ruin the night and even friendships. If you’re hanging out with people who encourage you to use Ricochet even though you don’t want to, then you’re hanging out with the wrong people.

    If you follow these guidelines, you should be fine.

    Safe word?

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  6. EThompson Member
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    Annefy:

    CB Toder aka Mama Toad:One tip: try not to begin each conversation with a loved one thusly: “Someone put up a post at Ricochet…”

    Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    Bet your ears are consistently burning “Erma B.”

    My husband has been known to ask over dinner what hilarious observation you’ve contributed to the conversation as of late. :)

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  7. iWe Coolidge
    iWe
    @iWe

    Annefy:Seriously, I think they think you are all a figment of my imagination, made up to bolster debate points.

    What is worse is that someone like James of England (who joined us for Thanksgiving) is such an unlikely individual, that even when you meet him, you have a hard time believing he is real.

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  8. donald todd Inactive
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    iWe

    Annefy:Seriously, I think they think you are all a figment of my imagination, made up to bolster debate points.

    What is worse is that someone like James of England (who joined us for Thanksgiving) is such an unlikely individual, that even when you meet him, you have a hard time believing he is real.

    You too?

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  9. PJS Coolidge
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    @PJS

    Annefy:

    CB Toder aka Mama Toad:One tip: try not to begin each conversation with a loved one thusly: “Someone put up a post at Ricochet…”

    Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    The answer is to attend a meet-up.  Then we are you friends in person.  No more scare quotes.

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  10. iWe Coolidge
    iWe
    @iWe

    PJS:

    Annefy: Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    The answer is to attend a meet-up. Then we are you friends in person. No more scare quotes.

    Quite so.

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  11. Randy Weivoda Moderator
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    @RandyWeivoda

    PJS:

    Annefy:

    CB Toder aka Mama Toad:One tip: try not to begin each conversation with a loved one thusly: “Someone put up a post at Ricochet…”

    Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    The answer is to attend a meet-up. Then we are you friends in person. No more scare quotes.

    I’ve made up a poster with multiple pictures from the Nashville Meetup and put it on my wall at work.  Then I can point to it and tell people, “See, I DO have friends!”

    NRMU15-500

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  12. Annefy Member
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    @Annefy

    iWe:

    Annefy:Seriously, I think they think you are all a figment of my imagination, made up to bolster debate points.

    What is worse is that someone like James of England (who joined us for Thanksgiving) is such an unlikely individual, that even when you meet him, you have a hard time believing he is real.

    Wish I could remember what we were talking about.

    J.O.E.

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  13. Annefy Member
    Annefy
    @Annefy

    iWe:

    PJS:

    Annefy: Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    The answer is to attend a meet-up. Then we are you friends in person. No more scare quotes.

    Quite so.

    Been to several. Even had 6’2″ at our house for a BBQ. She has seen my family in its native habitat but has been sworn to secrecy.

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  14. iWe Coolidge
    iWe
    @iWe

    Annefy:

    iWe:

    PJS:

    Annefy: Whenever you all are talked about around the dinner table my kids insist on putting “scare quotes” around Ricochet “friends”.

    The answer is to attend a meet-up. Then we are you friends in person. No more scare quotes.

    Quite so.

    Been to several. Even had 6’2″ at our house for a BBQ. She has seen my family in its native habitat but has been sworn to secrecy.

    Ricochetti who have come to my home to date include:

    PJS, Jules PA, James of England, Amy, Mr. Amy, GLDIII, Richard O’Shea, Simon Templar, 6’2″, John Hanson, and a few names who lurk but never post….

    IOUs from Nanda, Annika, and VC (who will never actually show).

    Come on over! Friday nights are the times we host.

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  15. Susan the Buju Contributor
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    @SusanQuinn

    iWe: Come on over! Friday nights are the times we host.

    Sounds like a Shabat gathering. Sounds lovely. [sigh]

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