Is There a Recovery Group for Ricochet?

 

I’m serious. I’ve never been active on a blog before, and I think I’m in deep trouble. Some people seem to spend all their waking hours here. Some people are so bright that their wisdom and intelligence are overwhelming. Me, I just say what I think, trying to balance head and heart. But I think I’m spending too much time here. Yet there are so many important topics and intelligent (although sometimes somewhat snarky) comments, that I don’t want to miss what is clearly valuable information.

I’m trying to set up rules for myself (limiting myself to certain people, topics, reviewing a limited number of comments. limiting my own comments). And then of course I make my own posts — how foolish is that?! Maybe I need a super speed reading and super speed writing workshop. Maybe Ricochettis should offer one? Is there a cure? Should there be a cure? Is it possible to have a life outside of Ricochet?

I have to stop here … need to check for comments on my latest post and see how people are responding to Tom Meyer…

Editor’s note: There is no recovery group, but Ricochet is one of the few healthy addictions you can have. Join the conversation here.

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  1. Fred Cole Inactive
    Fred Cole
    @FredCole

    Susan the Buju:

    Fred Cole: As addictions go, it’s a pretty good one to have.

    Um, well, by their very definition, addictions can interfere with other parts of our lives. I’m lucky enough to be retired, but I walk, work-out, have two spiritual practices, read two newspapers, go once per week for a three-hour visit to a hospice patient, and lead two once per week practice groups. And I like to read non-fiction books. It all comes together with a balance, but my computer is in my office and I like to spend evenings with my husband. So I squeeze in Ricochet time as much as I can during the day. So yes, there are worse addictions, but after 42 years of marriage, I like to spend *some* time with Mr. Buju.

    Well, has it interfered with any of those other things?

    Look, not for nothing, but you seem like a person who has a very solid grasp of personal time management.  So you should block out some time specifically for Ricochet.  You shouldn’t need more than seven or eight hours per day.

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  2. Jimmy Carter Member
    Jimmy Carter
    @JimmyCarter

    Susan the Buju:

    Fred Cole: As addictions go, it’s a pretty good one to have.

    Um, well, by their very definition, addictions can interfere with other parts of our lives. I’m lucky enough to be retired, but I walk, work-out, have two spiritual practices, read two newspapers, go once per week for a three-hour visit to a hospice patient, and lead two once per week practice groups. And I like to read non-fiction books. It all comes together with a balance, but my computer is in my office and I like to spend evenings with my husband. So I squeeze in Ricochet time as much as I can during the day. So yes, there are worse addictions, but after 42 years of marriage, I like to spend *some* time with Mr. Buju.

    I just lightened Yer load for Ya; and Yer welcome.

    Now, You can introduce Yer Husband to the site and Y’all can Ricochet together.

    And after dealing with the real world all day, Ricochet is the Recovery Group.

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  3. Ryan M Inactive
    Ryan M
    @RyanM

    If you only write one post every month or two, you rarely have to check for comments.

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  4. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    Jimmy Carter:

    Susan the Buju:

    Fred Cole: As addictions go, it’s a pretty good one to have.

    Um, well, by their very definition, addictions can interfere with other parts of our lives. I’m lucky enough to be retired, but I walk, work-out, have two spiritual practices, read two newspapers, go once per week for a three-hour visit to a hospice patient, and lead two once per week practice groups. And I like to read non-fiction books. It all comes together with a balance, but my computer is in my office and I like to spend evenings with my husband. So I squeeze in Ricochet time as much as I can during the day. So yes, there are worse addictions, but after 42 years of marriage, I like to spend *some* time with Mr. Buju.

    I just lightened Yer load for Ya; and Yer welcome.

    Now, You can introduce Yer Husband to the site and Y’all can Ricochet together.

    And after dealing with the real world all day, Ricochet is the Recovery Group.

    Bless your heart! I feel lighter already!!

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  5. Front Seat Cat Member
    Front Seat Cat
    @FrontSeatCat

    The King Prawn:I’ve actually been grounded from the site by my wife before.

    My husband will holler – are you reading that Clara Binski site again? Shut it off and come watch a movie! Not only is it great reading, but its like a big noisy family with lots of cousins – you have to take a break, then you miss them and have to know what’s going on!

    I am self employed so I am with you – it’s hard. I try to take Monday off so I stay on too long that day – I also start and end my days scanning favorite news sites – just the headlines – the world is changing so fast, so only read what’s important.

    I have a daily to do list, paying work, everyday chores, etc. then when I am a good girl and have done all my work, I get a cookie. Ricochet is the cookie…..

    P.S. Over and out….

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  6. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    Front Seat Cat:

    The King Prawn:I’ve actually been grounded from the site by my wife before.

    My husband will holler – are you reading that Clara Binski site again? Shut it off and come watch a movie! Not only is it great reading, but its like a big noisy family with lots of cousins – you have to take a break, then you miss them and have to know what’s going on!

    I am self employed so I am with you – it’s hard. I try to take Monday off so I stay on too long that day – I also start and end my days scanning favorite news sites – just the headlines – the world is changing so fast, so only read what’s important.

    I have a daily to do list, paying work, everyday chores, etc. then when I am a good girl and have done all my work, I get a cookie. Ricochet is the cookie…..

    P.S. Over and out….

    I am so with you. I just have to find the balance! Love you described your relationship to Ricochet–it clearly is not to write and read–it’s a family!

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  7. Stad Coolidge
    Stad
    @Stad

    PJS:

    Stad:

    Susan the Buju: by the way, I don’t think there’s been a meet-up in FL

    Fort Lauderdale, 2014 post-election National Review cruise. Barkha Herman set it up, and she was awesome! Perhaps another in Florida, Ms. Herman? Hmmmmmm?

    There will be one on the new year, as I have relocated to Florida and am dedicated to Ricochet meet-ups. Barkha and I have already discussed it, albeit briefly, as it’s the holiday season.

    I’m hoping the 2016 National Review post-election cruise will be out of Florida, so you may have two Meetups to plan . . .

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  8. Randy Weivoda Moderator
    Randy Weivoda
    @RandyWeivoda

    Stad:I’m hoping the 2016 National Review post-election cruise will be out of Florida, so you may have two Meetups to plan . . .

    A cruise again?  Bah.  I’ve already got your 2016 vacation planned for you, Stad.  You’re a science fiction author, for crying out loud.  You should be joining us for the WorldCon in Kansas City!  Do you think they’re going to have burnt ends on that ship?

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  9. KiminWI Member
    KiminWI
    @KiminWI

    I don’t even have a job and I can’t keep up around here. I have seriously been wondering how some of the more brilliant and prolific posters do it!

    Maybe next year, when my youngest has a driver’s license. A car for her, an upgraded Ricochet membership for me!

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  10. Dan Hanson Thatcher
    Dan Hanson
    @DanHanson

    Wasting time on the internet is the new normal.  Embrace it.  Enjoy it!

    Me,  I can quit any time I want.  Just one more thread to read…  Or maybe two.

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  11. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    You can get in line right behind me, Dan.

    • #41
  12. Michael Stopa Member
    Michael Stopa
    @MichaelStopa

    “I just say what I think, trying to balance head and heart.”

    That should be the Ricochet mantra, Susan.

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  13. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    Michael Stopa: That should be the Ricochet mantra, Susan.

    Thank you, Michael. I’m not always successful, but I do my best!

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  14. EThompson Member
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    Maybe you should stop over-analyzing and just enjoy. :)

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  15. donald todd Inactive
    donald todd
    @donaldtodd

    I take some days off.

    There are people I will invariably read if I see their names at the beginning of a post.  They make me think.

    Having been here for a while, there are people I don’t read if I see their names at the beginning of a post.

    I do respond whenever I want to.  Some are well received and some are promptly ignored.

    I don’t see everything but it is okay.

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  16. Dick from Brooklyn Thatcher
    Dick from Brooklyn
    @DickfromBrooklyn

    Susan the Buju: Is There a Recovery Group for Ricochet?

    Your only hope is to spread the contagion to at least 3 other people. You can do this by gifting a membership, nagging a fellow conservative, or shamelessly cross posting stuff to your facebook feed.

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  17. Western Chauvinist Member
    Western Chauvinist
    @WesternChauvinist

    Mwahahahahaa! Welcome to the Hotel California.

    /I can’t believe they put this on the Main Feed! Do the suits really want people to know about the RicoCrack before they have them hooked???!

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  18. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    EThompson:Maybe you should stop over-analyzing and just enjoy. :)

    Oh my gosh, have we met??!! :)

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  19. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    Western Chauvinist: Mwahahahahaa! Welcome to the Hotel California.

    Is that Addams Family music I hear in the background . . .?

    • #49
  20. E. Kent Golding Moderator
    E. Kent Golding
    @EKentGolding

    Keep in mind,  a life outside of Ricochet makes your comments more interesting.

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  21. Ball Diamond Ball Member
    Ball Diamond Ball
    @BallDiamondBall

    Still looking for Clara Binski.

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  22. 6foot2inhighheels Member
    6foot2inhighheels
    @6foot2inhighheels

    Randy Weivoda:

    Susan the Buju:

    Barkha Herman: There has. With me hosting :-D and 6ft2 in heels organizing… and we are due for the next one. There has been some talk of it with us FL locals.

    FL is a big state. Anywhere near Orlando?

    I think there are at least a few members in or near Orlando. If you want some help or advice in planning a meetup, there are people willing to help.

    -just email melissa@ricochetmeetup.com for advice and encouragement :)  Meeting fellow Ricochetti is the best!

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  23. Claire Berlinski, Ed. Member
    Claire Berlinski, Ed.
    @Claire

    Clara Binski here, jumping in to remind everyone to use Ricochet responsibly. drunk

    • Use Ricochet with a group of friends. If you want to use Ricochet responsibly, then the first thing you should do is avoid using it alone.
    • Don’t use Ricochet with people who encourage binge usage or look down on you for not “keeping up.” You should be comfortable using it at your own pace.
    • Create a “buddy system” with at least one of your friends. When you use Ricochet, at least one of them should be a person who knows his or her own limit, or even someone who doesn’t use Ricochet very much, and will be willing to watch out for you and to tell you when it looks like you’ve had enough. Sometimes, you could be using way over your limit while being too stubborn to admit it, and this friend can let you know when it’s time to switch to a good book.
    • Know your limits. Before all else, know yourself and your own limits. It doesn’t take long to learn how little or how much Ricochet you can tolerate, and every mind is unique in its ability to tolerate Ricochet. Listen to your mind and respond in a way that nurtures it rather than abuses it.
    • Avoid peer pressure. Always remember that you’re using Ricochet to enjoy and have fun. The whole point of is to enjoy the website, enjoy the company and feel free. You don’t need to “keep up,” or engage in stupid competitions that could ruin the night and even friendships. If you’re hanging out with people who encourage you to use Ricochet even though you don’t want to, then you’re hanging out with the wrong people.

    If you follow these guidelines, you should be fine.

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  24. Joseph Stanko Coolidge
    Joseph Stanko
    @JosephStanko

    Susan the Buju: Is it possible to have a life outside of Ricochet?

    I suppose, but why would anyone want to?

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  25. EJHill Podcaster
    EJHill
    @EJHill

    Quitting Richochet is fairly easy, actually. I’ve quit at least 17 times in the last six months alone!

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  26. CB Toder aka Mama Toad Member
    CB Toder aka Mama Toad
    @CBToderakaMamaToad

    Susan, I think you may be looking at the problem wrong.

    Instead of trying to recover from your addiction, might I suggest embracing it and rationalizing it instead? Worked for me…

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  27. CB Toder aka Mama Toad Member
    CB Toder aka Mama Toad
    @CBToderakaMamaToad

    One tip: try not to begin each conversation with a loved one thusly: “Someone put up a post at Ricochet…”

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  28. Western Chauvinist Member
    Western Chauvinist
    @WesternChauvinist

    Claire Berlinski, Ed.: You don’t need to “keep up,” or engage in stupid competitions that could ruin the night and even friendships.

    Unless you enter the PIT. Stupid competitions and ruining the night and friendships is pretty much the reason for the PIT’s existence.

    /JK — sort of.

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  29. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    Claire Berlinski, Ed.: If you follow these guidelines, you should be fine.

    I think it may be hopeless. I’ve already violated every guideline multiple times!!!!

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  30. Susan the Buju Contributor
    Susan the Buju
    @SusanQuinn

    EJHill: I’ve quit at least 17 times in the last six months alone!

    Only 17??!!!

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