Scenes From my Front Porch

 

The thing about living in a place with four seasons — bear with me, I spent about 80 percent of my life in California — is that the beginning of spring is inevitably frantic. As the trees bloom, all your rationales for putting off home improvements start to wilt. And so, at the Senik household, there’s been a parade of contractors, plumbers, handymen, and the like ascending the hill in recent days.

After awhile, they become virtually indistinguishable from one another. Each explains, with the thinly-veiled contempt of a teacher that should have retired years ago, highly technical concepts in impenetrable jargon that bounces off my skull like a bird flying into a window. Each next proceeds to request an amount of money that would imply they’ve taken one of my family members hostage. Each then dutifully gets paid because…well, I’m a writer. The odds are pretty good that my death will be premature, but I’ll be damned if it’s going to happen on my roof.

‘Viktor’ was different. Him I’ll remember.

As we sat on my front porch discussing the cost of some electrical work (short version: it’d be cheaper for me to figure out how to produce my own lightning), we discovered that we had attended the same college. Because I’m congenitally miserable at small talk — and because his actual name was much more unmistakably Russian than the one I’ve given him here — I followed up by asking where he was from originally.

What followed was a story of a Cold War migration from Siberia to the nation of Georgia to Estonia to West Germany to Middle Tennessee. A story of homes abandoned and belongings forsaken. A story of underground churches using handwritten bibles and trying to avoid government scrutiny. A story of the fear that came from living in the shadow of communism.

“You never knew when there’d be a knock at the door and someone would get dragged out by their hair never to be seen again,” he said. He added, almost as an afterthought,“That’s what happened to my grandfather.” He said that with no drama whatsoever. Without even a moment’s pause before the next thought. Imagine that: having someone you love disappear into a totalitarian abyss and being able to mention it as a dispassionate footnote.

That’s Viktor in a nutshell. Not a note of self-pity or despair. A wide smile and an easy laugh. He’ll tell you how America was his salvation. How we went from being persecuted for his faith in the Soviet Union to touring the United States with a Christian rock band. How he’s settled down now with an American wife…and six American kids (“some people would say that’s a curse, I say it’s a blessing”). How America’s critics have it wrong (in a brief aside about our perpetual “national conversation” about race: “After what I’ve seen, I don’t know how anybody could call anything in this country oppression.”)

I don’t wish Viktor’s experiences on anyone — but I wish everyone had that perspective. I wish that everyone who prattled on about the intrinsically oppressive character of this nation was forced to defend their convictions against the three most important words in the English language — “compared to what?” I wish more of us had as much love for what we’ve inherited as Viktor has for what he had to fight for. Tom Paine had it right: “What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly.”

As he was leaving, Viktor told me about a trip he had taken to California years ago when one of his sons was young. Never having been to the West Coast, he and his five-year-old headed down to the beach. As they stood in the waters of the Pacific, Viktor pointed to the horizon and told his boy, “I used to live on the other side of the water.” His son asked him if it was different over there. Viktor recounted his answer to me with a pregnant pause and half a wink: “It’s better here.”

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  1. iWc Coolidge
    iWc
    @iWe

    Instugator:

    iWe:

    Troy Senik, Ed.:

    Songwriter: But my take-away is that Troy, having no truly useful skills, will be among the first, along with me, to be pushed outside the protective walls of the enclave in the coming Zombie Apocalypse.

    And since he is younger and can no doubt run faster, I will have to knock him out cold the moment they shut the gates behind us. Sorry for that, Troy.

    Factor in that I’m a smoker and you can probably forego the coldcocking.

    Nah. You’d leap on the first passing giraffe and gallop off into the sunset.

    Or the passing Giraffe would leap on him – Troy’s love is not unrequited after all.

    I guess it really depends on whether Troy and the Giraffe had met before. Troy Senik… fidelity in all things.

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  2. user_513938 Inactive
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    @RobertHam

    Good story –

    In my experience, those that have come to the USA from somewhere else deeply appreciate the freedoms and opportunities – but also seem to be willing to work for the opportunities.    We lived overseas for 7 years when the kids were young.  In Hong Kong, prior to the transition from England to China in 1997, we met many who were emigrating to Canada, Australia and US – they all preferred the US, but were hampered by the limited slots available and an unwillingness to go to the USA illegally. 

    We lived in the Bay Area for 12 years, arguably the widest range of international backgrounds in any one location in USA.    We became friends with people who escaped the Iron Curtain with nothing more than the clothes on their backs, and others that were evacuated from Viet Nam in 1975.  All have become successful citizens with a deep appreciation for liberty and freedom.   To a person, they all wonder at the complacency of the electorate and the power politics of what Angelo Codevilla has termed the Ruling Class.   Codevilla’s assessment foreshadowed the current times with a potential Clinton / Bush election with trial balloons being raised about Michelle Obama and even Chelsea Mezvinsky (nee Clinton) eventually running for public office.   My vote, my grassroots support and cash will go to the candidates at all levels (local and national) that show me that they understand the greatness of this country and our Constitution.

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  3. Metalheaddoc Member
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    @Metalheaddoc

    Amazing stories. More amazing is that the progs think they can do it better. They can do central planning without the inevitable oppression. After all, the Communists had free universal health care, free education, free re-education if you commited a ThoughtCrime like showing insufficient alacrity for gay marriage. Uniformity of thought and speech and purpose. Everything for the Greater (State) Good. No pesky religion to corrupt the mind from Proper Thoughts. Campus speech codes indistinguishable from Goverment speech codes. The immigrants from those faraway lands have seen it before. They need to loudly sound the alarm to the rest of America.

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  4. iWc Coolidge
    iWc
    @iWe

    Slavery in Egypt, as my kids pointed out this Pesach, offered full employment!

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  5. user_517406 Inactive
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    @MerinaSmith

    Viktor needs to be tapped to make an ad for our side, pronto.

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  6. Nanda Panjandrum Member
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    Yes’m!

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  7. user_45283 Inactive
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    @MarkMonaghan

    I am still trying to get past the fact that Troy apparently cannot fix things. no tools either, I’ll wager. This is far too common near as I can tell.

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  8. Troy Senik, Ed. Member
    Troy Senik, Ed.
    @TroySenik

    Mark Monaghan:I am still trying to get past the fact that Troy apparently cannot fix things.no tools either, I’ll wager.This is far too common near as I can tell.

    I have tools and do the fix-it work when within my ken. I cannot, however, dig a trench and run an electrical line 100 yards. I outsource where comparative advantage dictates.

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  9. user_45283 Inactive
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    @MarkMonaghan

    Uh-huh.

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