Grace Must Prevail Over Cancel Culture

 

Cancel Culture is an unfortunate development in our world born out of the social media hell we all seem to live in. It feels as if social media has given us a binary choice which most gladly follow: either conform or be destroyed.

The pressure to conform to a certain ideology is immense for young people. I am worried young conservatives trying to separate themselves from progressives who try to be offensive in order to “own the libs”.We must realize just because our time has abandoned civility does not mean we should not take steps to restore it. Fighting back is not going around a college campus in a Native American costume; that is simply provoking. I have been told many times that the time for being “civil” is over because progressives will not be civil. The problem with that perspective is that while online outrage monsters probably will not be civil, your progressive neighbor might be.

Conservatives have long said to turn off the news and talk to your neighbor, and I strongly recommend we do just that. The 2016 moment has passed, and the time for trolling is over. We are better than our current culture and we must be better to one another.

This is not to say we should not fight back against progressivism, but we cannot become what we are fighting against. In a society where a social media mob acts as judge, jury, and executioner it is hard, but important, to keep dreams alive after everything collapses one needs to breathe fresh air.

Young minds today are poisoned by the idea that any disagreement culturally or politically is an affront to their personal well-being and ego. The cult of open-mindedness has shunned and cancelled anyone they perceive as a threat to their death grip on culture. This “cancel culture” has created a toxic environment for discourse, but more importantly, mental well-being. This mob is relentless in its pursuit of control. Due to this Orwellian thinking dreams can evaporate as quickly as they appear.

The New York Times published an article titled “Tales From the Teenage Cancel Culture;” telling a story of 17 year old girl named “L.” “L.” was “cancelled” by her classmates and when inquiring as to why she was told she was, “an emotional leech who was thirsty for validation.” L would later state, “I am very prone to question everything I do; ‘is this annoying someone?” she would go on to say, “I have issues trusting perfectly normal things, that sense of me being some sort of monster, terrible person, burden to everyone, has stayed with me to some extent there is still a sort of lingering sense of: what if I am?”

These online rage sessions grown adults are having is showing kids how to treat one another. This anxiety sticks with children. Society now acts as a court of law trying to make bad people look good and good people look bad. Unfortunately, grace has left our society. Someone saying or doing something bad in their youth will now define them. The proponents of “cancel culture” seem to think grace is a quality to be overlooked, until they need it. The societal pressure to conform is an issue that deserves great urgency. Society now needs to breathe fresh air. A new breeze must blow. Author Jonathan Haidt writes an article for The Atlantic titled, “The Coddling of the American Mind” in that article he states, “Safe spaces where young adults are shielded from words and ideas that make them uncomfortable. This movement seeks to punish anyone who interferes with this aim. You might call this vindictive protectiveness. It is creating a culture in which everyone must think twice before speaking up, lest they face charges of insensitivity, aggression, or worse.” The guise of equality has been an excuse for abhorrent behavior and causes everyone to act irrationally. It is simple when doing something wrong, correct it not for them but because it is the right to do. Not bowing down to the altar of cancel culture is important, but so is being decent in the process. This movement wants control, not an equitable society. The mob goes after anyone, which is why it is important not to bow down. As French philosopher Albert Camus said, “The welfare of humanity is always the alibi of tyrants.” 

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  1. Gary Robbins Member
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    Spin (View Comment):

    Gary Robbins (View Comment):

    Some 35 years ago, I filed a motion where I went on and on for over a page. The assigned Judge, Ed Rapp, ran into me the next day. He said, “Gary, we need to introduce you at ‘our friend, the paragraph.’” I was just a few years older than you are now, and that advice has stuck with me.

    The piece here is well written. It should be considered by others. But it is 35 sentences long! A reader needs to come up for a breath! My suggestion would be to have each paragraph be no longer than three to six sentences long. Consider having headings which allow the reader to pause and reflect. I will sometimes draw a line to announce that I am going on to a new thought as shown below.

    ______________________________________________________

    I would not change a word of this piece. It is all good. But I wonder how many people have simply flipped past it and not read it because they do not have time to devote to reading such an undertaking.

    At Ricochet, the style directory is to present the first two paragraphs of a piece before one must press the ubiquitous “More” button. If you will present “bite sized” ideas, I am sure that readers will be sufficiently hooked to press the “More” button. Otherwise, I fear that your excellent post will be ignored by readers who are time limited.

    Please keep writing. You have a gift and a flair. I hope you will take this advice in the spirit it is offered.

    I thought we cancelled you, Gary? ha ha! Just kidding! Literally I was thinking the other day “I haven’t seen Gary posting in a while, I wonder if he quit?”

    Nah!  But we have had a number of Trump Skeptics leave from HeavyWater to The Gold Tooth.  So when you hear from my, add two likes to my comments!

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  2. Mark Camp Member
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    Arahant (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio) (View Comment):
    When did conservatives become the Sopranos?

    The Sopranos were part of a very old and conservative organization.

    True.  The Sopranos were part of a very old, very illiberal, and conservative organization.  Modern Conservatives are members of no organization. But Modern Conservatives are part of a very old, very liberal, and conservative body of believers.

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  3. Mark Camp Member
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    Gary Robbins (View Comment):

    Spin (View Comment):

    Gary Robbins (View Comment):

    Some 35 years ago, I filed a motion where I went on and on for over a page. The assigned Judge, Ed Rapp, ran into me the next day. He said, “Gary, we need to introduce you at ‘our friend, the paragraph.’” I was just a few years older than you are now, and that advice has stuck with me.

    The piece here is well written. It should be considered by others. But it is 35 sentences long! A reader needs to come up for a breath! My suggestion would be to have each paragraph be no longer than three to six sentences long. Consider having headings which allow the reader to pause and reflect. I will sometimes draw a line to announce that I am going on to a new thought as shown below.

    ______________________________________________________

    I would not change a word of this piece. It is all good. But I wonder how many people have simply flipped past it and not read it because they do not have time to devote to reading such an undertaking.

    At Ricochet, the style directory is to present the first two paragraphs of a piece before one must press the ubiquitous “More” button. If you will present “bite sized” ideas, I am sure that readers will be sufficiently hooked to press the “More” button. Otherwise, I fear that your excellent post will be ignored by readers who are time limited.

    Please keep writing. You have a gift and a flair. I hope you will take this advice in the spirit it is offered.

    I thought we cancelled you, Gary? ha ha! Just kidding! Literally I was thinking the other day “I haven’t seen Gary posting in a while, I wonder if he quit?”

    Nah! But we have had a number of Trump Skeptics leave from HeavyWater to The Gold Tooth. So when you hear from my, add two likes to my comments!

    I think that there remain hundreds of Trump Skeptics on Ricochet. We aren’t mostly as radical as you and The Gold Tooth when it comes to the question, “OK, but pragmatically speaking should we do about the problem?” But we are out there. We hundreds of patriotic Americans know that, although Trump is an unprincipled, emotionally stunted self-promoter, he is the best enemy of our enemy for now.

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  4. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Mark Camp (View Comment):

    Front Seat Cat (View Comment):

    Can I call you Anton for short? I am glad to hear from someone so young, but still searching for grace in all this. Here’s the good news. While this terrible virus has changed many good things, it put a stop to many bad things, like a giant wheel that just stopped turning. Young and old are being forced to share safe spaces, to shelter in place and learn new ways to be civil. You are seeing the good that was always there at work. Don’t expect the crap in the world to disappear – in fact, it will probably increase. Look for inspiration elsewhere. The online worship services are a good start – my friends and sister have shared their services with me and visa versa. Grace is always there.

    That’s not what our family has experienced. We’ve been deprived of most of the once-in-a-lifetime experience of being with three of our new grandchildren, helping with the challenges of giving birth, and of giving much-needed relief to their mothers–our two daughters–in their time of need. This the normal role of grandparents in human society.

    It is true that every case of imprisonment exposes one to some good experiences of life that one wouldn’t have gotten if one had been free. Your point reminds me of Corrie ten Boom’s sister, who in the days before she died of starvation and illness in a Nazi death camp, unexpectedly had a chance to read the scripture to other inmates every day. The guards had suddenly disappeared from the barracks. The sisters discovered that the reason was that the infestation of fleas that Corrie had been cursing had driven the Nazis away from their daily duties of watching for such unlawful practice.

    Another positive is that in my humble opinion, a small percentage of the American people have had their eyes opened by this experience, and will be better prepared to be recognize these techniques of mass deception and fear-mongering when the left launch their next offensive of mass deception and abuse of power.

    Sorry my comment invoked such a harsh response – my point reminds you of Corrie ten Boom? Good grief.

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  5. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Arahant (View Comment):

    Clifford A. Brown (View Comment):
    I fear we are seeing the beginning of a nationwide snitch culture, not so much grace, in the government and media induced and sustained hysteria.

    Stasi.

    Good point – especially with the new tracking systems coming up on phones and AI, all to keep us “safer” from each other by “detecting” a corona virus carrier………

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  6. Randy Weivoda Moderator
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    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    You cannot have peace with someone who refuses peace. The Left is not civil and nothing other than making them pay a price for it will make a difference.

    This is not my experience, Bryan.  If you listen to left wing talk radio you can easily get the impression that everyone on the left believes that to be a conservative is to be evil.  Just like you could get the reverse impression by listening to some right wing talk radio.  But in the real world, most people don’t hate everyone who votes differently than themselves.  The people who join online mobs to cancel other people are a very small portion of society.

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  7. Bryan G. Stephens Thatcher
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    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    You cannot have peace with someone who refuses peace. The Left is not civil and nothing other than making them pay a price for it will make a difference.

    This is not my experience, Bryan. If you listen to left wing talk radio you can easily get the impression that everyone on the left believes that to be a conservative is to be evil. Just like you could get the reverse impression by listening to some right wing talk radio. But in the real world, most people don’t hate everyone who votes differently than themselves. The people who join online mobs to cancel other people are a very small portion of society.

    So what? They win. 

    It only takes a small group. See Russia. I will not be civil to people who attack me. I am not looking to start a fight, but if presented with one, I will fight to win.

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  8. Randy Weivoda Moderator
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    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    You cannot have peace with someone who refuses peace. The Left is not civil and nothing other than making them pay a price for it will make a difference.

    This is not my experience, Bryan. If you listen to left wing talk radio you can easily get the impression that everyone on the left believes that to be a conservative is to be evil. Just like you could get the reverse impression by listening to some right wing talk radio. But in the real world, most people don’t hate everyone who votes differently than themselves. The people who join online mobs to cancel other people are a very small portion of society.

    So what? They win.

    It only takes a small group. See Russia. I will not be civil to people who attack me. I am not looking to start a fight, but if presented with one, I will fight to win.

    Your previous comment did not distinguish between people who attack you and The Left in general.  I’ve got no problem with — and actually find it satisfying — when some individual who marshaled people to cancel someone for some imagined grievance gets cancelled themselves.  I don’t think it’s cool, though, when someone says that “the Left” cancelled someone on the right, therefore everybody on the left is a fair target.

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  9. Bryan G. Stephens Thatcher
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    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    You cannot have peace with someone who refuses peace. The Left is not civil and nothing other than making them pay a price for it will make a difference.

    This is not my experience, Bryan. If you listen to left wing talk radio you can easily get the impression that everyone on the left believes that to be a conservative is to be evil. Just like you could get the reverse impression by listening to some right wing talk radio. But in the real world, most people don’t hate everyone who votes differently than themselves. The people who join online mobs to cancel other people are a very small portion of society.

    So what? They win.

    It only takes a small group. See Russia. I will not be civil to people who attack me. I am not looking to start a fight, but if presented with one, I will fight to win.

    Your previous comment did not distinguish between people who attack you and The Left in general. I’ve got no problem with — and actually find it satisfying — when some individual who marshaled people to cancel someone for some imagined grievance gets cancelled themselves. I don’t think it’s cool, though, when someone says that “the Left” cancelled someone on the right, therefore everybody on the left is a fair target.

    Live by the sword, die by the sword. 

    They set the rules, so those rules should be applied equally. 

    The problem is, the people in general who support the left are fellow travallers. If someone supports cancel culture, then they are not innocent at all, they are part of the mob, but maybe in the back.

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  10. Randy Weivoda Moderator
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    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    You cannot have peace with someone who refuses peace. The Left is not civil and nothing other than making them pay a price for it will make a difference.

    This is not my experience, Bryan. If you listen to left wing talk radio you can easily get the impression that everyone on the left believes that to be a conservative is to be evil. Just like you could get the reverse impression by listening to some right wing talk radio. But in the real world, most people don’t hate everyone who votes differently than themselves. The people who join online mobs to cancel other people are a very small portion of society.

    So what? They win.

    It only takes a small group. See Russia. I will not be civil to people who attack me. I am not looking to start a fight, but if presented with one, I will fight to win.

    Your previous comment did not distinguish between people who attack you and The Left in general. I’ve got no problem with — and actually find it satisfying — when some individual who marshaled people to cancel someone for some imagined grievance gets cancelled themselves. I don’t think it’s cool, though, when someone says that “the Left” cancelled someone on the right, therefore everybody on the left is a fair target.

    Live by the sword, die by the sword.

    They set the rules, so those rules should be applied equally.

    The problem is, the people in general who support the left are fellow travallers. If someone supports cancel culture, then they are not innocent at all, they are part of the mob, but maybe in the back.

    This is the mentality that says that black people should hate all white people, because some white people have treated black people like garbage.  Or women should think of all men as likely rapists.  The fact that someone votes Democratic because they are pro-choice or because they want a higher minimum wage does not mean that they support the worst behavior of the worst members of their party or ideology.

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  11. Bryan G. Stephens Thatcher
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    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    Randy Weivoda (View Comment):

    Bryan G. Stephens (View Comment):

    You cannot have peace with someone who refuses peace. The Left is not civil and nothing other than making them pay a price for it will make a difference.

    This is not my experience, Bryan. If you listen to left wing talk radio you can easily get the impression that everyone on the left believes that to be a conservative is to be evil. Just like you could get the reverse impression by listening to some right wing talk radio. But in the real world, most people don’t hate everyone who votes differently than themselves. The people who join online mobs to cancel other people are a very small portion of society.

    So what? They win.

    It only takes a small group. See Russia. I will not be civil to people who attack me. I am not looking to start a fight, but if presented with one, I will fight to win.

    Your previous comment did not distinguish between people who attack you and The Left in general. I’ve got no problem with — and actually find it satisfying — when some individual who marshaled people to cancel someone for some imagined grievance gets cancelled themselves. I don’t think it’s cool, though, when someone says that “the Left” cancelled someone on the right, therefore everybody on the left is a fair target.

    Live by the sword, die by the sword.

    They set the rules, so those rules should be applied equally.

    The problem is, the people in general who support the left are fellow travallers. If someone supports cancel culture, then they are not innocent at all, they are part of the mob, but maybe in the back.

    This is the mentality that says that black people should hate all white people, because some white people have treated black people like garbage. Or women should think of all men as likely rapists. The fact that someone votes Democratic because they are pro-choice or because they want a higher minimum wage does not mean that they support the worst behavior of the worst members of their party or ideology.

    That is not true at all. I see anyone as subscribing to the ideals of cancel culture by supporting it, as an enemy of my way of life. Injecting race is akin to being a leftist to shade me as a racist. Or sexist. 

    For the thundering herd who supports cancel culture. Not all who vote democrat are that way, per say, but they do support the party that is for it. Support for the Democrat party is support for Abortion, it is support for Supression of Speech, it is support for Taking Away guns, it is support for Higher Taxes and more Wealth Redistrabution. That is what the party stands for, and I darn well can hold that against someone for wanting those things to pass. 

    Sheesh, if I cannot condemn people for their choosen ideology, then there is nothing I can do that for. Yours is the pathway to destruction of all I hold dear. No Sir, I will not follow you down a path of passivity. Not when the other side is supporting actual modern brownshirts. 

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  12. Mark Camp Member
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    Front Seat Cat (View Comment):
    Sorry my comment invoked such a harsh response – my point reminds you of Corrie ten Boom?

    Yes.  Your point was that being confined against your will by the government resulted in good experiences that would not have occurred otherwise. 

    That reminded me of Corrie ten Boom, whose being confined against her will by the government resulted in this good experience that would not have occurred otherwise.

    It is an example of the same fact, that God works in mysterious ways. It does not seem an odd thing to think of to me.

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