Vote for Us, the Adults in the Room

 

For many Americans, President Trump’s actions; the things his administration has accomplished, are worthy of reelection. But it’s his tone, his Twitter feed, his words, that leave much to be desired. It isn’t presidential and it makes one long for a more dignified period in American politics.

The Democratic Party can’t run easily against President Trump’s record, the economy is too good, his peace through strength foreign policy is proving remarkably effective. And so, if they want to convince Americans to hop ship, in my estimation, they have to prove to voters that they can be the adults in the room and bring decorum back to politics.

Which is what made this move from House Speaker Nancy Pelosi so dumbfounding last night during the State of the Union:

What is accomplished by this? Theoretically, it’s red meat for the progressive Trump-hating base, though I’ve seen few progressives really thrilled by her actions. So we’re just left with the fact that the level of pettiness between Trump and his opponents is even:

And that’s fine, but all things being equal on childishness, why would voters choose a Democratic nominee over a President with a successful first term?

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  1. Bishop Wash Member
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    Jager (View Comment):
    In politics and diplomacy it may be advantageous to ignore an insult, but that is not a Universal Law. It does not apply in all situations. The prior Republican strategy was to always ignore bad behavior. That is just not a usable strategy. There is a point where people have had enough, their patience has been exhausted. 

    At one point around 2006 Ace threw in the towel on defending Bush. He said, if he [Bush] isn’t going to lift a finger to defend himself I’m finished sticking my neck out. Karl Rove later said that was a mistake, but come on guys you can’t always be a punching bag. That should have been obvious. 

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  2. DrewInWisconsin, Oaf Member
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    Bishop Wash (View Comment):
    At one point around 2006 Ace threw in the towel on defending Bush. He said, if he [Bush] isn’t going to lift a finger to defend himself I’m finished sticking my neck out.

    I think that sentiment wasn’t uncommon.

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  3. Bill Nelson Inactive
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    Jager (View Comment):
    Being an Adult is not synonymous with being polite or proper. I know plenty of Adults who are neither. 

    I know few. And an adult who is not polite is quickly off my screen. And I know many very liberal people. Three of my children are quite liberal, and all very polite, hard working and accomplished.

     

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  4. Franco Member
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    RightAngles (View Comment):

    But it’s his tone, his Twitter feed, his words, that leave much to be desired. It isn’t presidential and it makes one long for a more dignified period in American politics.

    Not all of us “long for a more dignified period,” not if it means going back to the usual politicians who talk for an hour without saying anything or say one thing to get elected and then do another. Some of you need to get this through your heads: The brashness, the “tone” as you put it, all of it, are exactly what the country needed at this moment in history. And whether you like it or not, Trump is the only person who could have done what he’s doing.

    I and a lot of others are pretty sick and tired of the way some of you talk down to us. You can no longer avoid admitting that the achievements of this man are remarkable, but you just can’t stop yourselves from adding “Oh but his TWEETS! Oh his TONE! See? I noticed that, so I’m not one of THOSE people” Nobody wants to hear it. And I for one do not want to see it on the Main Feed. That was the best SOTU speech in history. But you just can’t leave it at that. You have to pour cold water all over it. Why don’t you go write a fan letter to Mitt Romney or something instead of writing this.

    Amen!

    On top of that, I do not believe that there could be such a person who could at once disarm the opposition, retaliate, and confound them while being a paragon of manners. This is magical thinking on our side. This is Kristolism, a condition named after a guy who perpetually seeks nuanced perfection in his candidates, and then complains about it. 
    It’s more like, you can have one or the other, not both.

    One of Alinsky’s precepts is make the other side live up to it’s own claims. Well, with the conservative claims that,  we are the better, more decent people position (as a constant common denominator of the NT and Sometimes Trump crowd) has been mercilessly exploited by these underhanded amoral snakes. They’ve tested this tactic out to great electoral victories. They’ve dined out on this one for decades. The Republican is found to have one slip-up, anywhere in his past, and he’s an unbelievable hypocrite, while Democrats shtup interns in the Oval Office. 
    Then there are the insults we don’t respond to because we are better than that
    Let’s get this straight,  Mr&Mrs. Emily Post; in politics, if you don’t respond in kind to an outrageous charge, the people ( you know the ones outside the gates who weren’t invited to the party, and the help inside) will think it just might be true given the non-reaction. 

     

     

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  5. OmegaPaladin Moderator
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    Bill Nelson (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):
    Being an Adult is not synonymous with being polite or proper. I know plenty of Adults who are neither.

    I know few. And an adult who is not polite is quickly off my screen. And I know many very liberal people. Three of my children are quite liberal, and all very polite, hard working and accomplished.

     

    So they might support socialism, abortion up to birth, cancel culture, the trans lunacy, surrender as a foreign policy, etc , but at least they are polite while working to destroy what we hold dear.

    Your position is a dignified surrender, and I want no part in it.  If that makes me impolite, so be it.

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  6. Ontheleftcoast Inactive
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    JamesSalerno (View Comment):

    Bethany Mandel:

    For many Americans, President Trump’s actions; the things his administration has accomplished, are worthy of reelection. But it’s his tone, his Twitter feed, his words, that leave much to be desired. It isn’t presidential and it makes one long for a more dignified period in American politics.

    “Acting presidential” means following the constitution. That’s it. You don’t have to “reach across the aisle” to parasites who hate our country and want to set the constitution on fire. We have nothing in common with them.

    “A more dignified period in politics” requires at least some basic agreement on American principals. Republicans still believe in those principals. Democrats do not.

    Leaving a thoroughly defeated enemy a face saving way to do what you want is good. Treating an active enemy like a colleague except for purely tactical reasons, not so much. Mistaking the active enemy for a colleague with different views, really bad.

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  7. Bill Nelson Inactive
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    OmegaPaladin (View Comment):

    Bill Nelson (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):
    Being an Adult is not synonymous with being polite or proper. I know plenty of Adults who are neither.

    I know few. And an adult who is not polite is quickly off my screen. And I know many very liberal people. Three of my children are quite liberal, and all very polite, hard working and accomplished.

     

    So they might support socialism, abortion up to birth, cancel culture, the trans lunacy, surrender as a foreign policy, etc , but at least they are polite while working to destroy what we hold dear.

    Your position is a dignified surrender, and I want no part in it. If that makes me impolite, so be it.

    No, they are working for a better life for themselves and their family, and to help others. The last thing I would want is to require my children to think as I do. We raised them to be smart and independent. No surrender at all.

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  8. Instugator Thatcher
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    ‘Gator, What is best in life?

    To crush the Demoncrats, see their acolytes driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their media.

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  9. ShaunaHunt Inactive
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    Stop attacking Bethany! You can disagree without being disagreeable.

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  10. Stad Coolidge
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    Franco (View Comment):
    One of Alinsky’s precepts is make the other side live up to it’s own claims. Well, with the conservative claims that, we are the better, more decent people position (as a constant common denominator of the NT and Sometimes Trump crowd) has been mercilessly exploited by these underhanded amoral snakes. They’ve tested this tactic out to great electoral victories. They’ve dined out on this one for decades. The Republican is found to have one slip-up, anywhere in his past, and he’s an unbelievable hypocrite, while Democrats shtup interns in the Oval Office. 

    This has been a problem for most Republicans.  They have no courage when it comes to defending someone who’s flawed, even though every human being alive has flaws.  So what if they don’t like Trump’s character or the way he conducts business?  So what if they don’t like his tweets?  To me, these squishy Republicans and pundits are showing character flaws signifiantly worse than anything Trump has to offer, by not defending one of their own against a full-scale assault from the left, an assault based on lies.

    This is what happens when you put demonstrating your own “virtue” ahead of fairness . . .

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  11. Instugator Thatcher
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    ShaunaHunt (View Comment):

    Stop attacking Bethany! You can disagree without being disagreeable.

    Who is attacking Bethany?

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  12. Bill Nelson Inactive
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    Instugator (View Comment):

    ‘Gator, What is best in life?

    To crush the Demoncrats, see their acolytes driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their media.

    I have very god friends and family members who are democrats, even democratic socialists. And very good friends and family members who are strong Trump supporters. And very good friends and family members who are very conservative Trump opponents. 

    When did so called republicans become so hateful?

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  13. DrewInWisconsin, Oaf Member
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    Bill Nelson (View Comment):

    Instugator (View Comment):

    ‘Gator, What is best in life?

    To crush the Demoncrats, see their acolytes driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their media.

    I have very god friends and family members who are democrats, even democratic socialists. And very good friends and family members who are strong Trump supporters. And very good friends and family members who are very conservative Trump opponents.

    When did so called republicans become so hateful?

    Forty years of constantly being called racist/sexist/homophobic/illiterate/slope-foreheaded rednecks will do that to someone.

    Beat your dog endlessly, and eventually he’ll bite back. And you will have earned it.

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  14. Bill Nelson Inactive
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    DrewInWisconsin, Oaf (View Comment):
    Forty years of constantly being called racist/sexist/homophobic/illiterate/slope-foreheaded rednecks will do that to someone.

    I have the courage of my convictions. Even if I am in a 5% minority I will still hold on to my convictions. If you believe in what you are, and know what you are not, then the names are rather humorous.

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  15. Instugator Thatcher
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    Bill Nelson (View Comment):
    When did so called republicans become so hateful?

    Who said I am a Republican?

    Classical Liberal. Says so in my bio.

    I just vote Republican.

    BTW, when did parodies of movie quotes become hateful?

    Do you ascribe to “cancel culture” and the ethics therein?

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  16. Franco Member
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    Bill Nelson (View Comment):

    DrewInWisconsin, Oaf (View Comment):
    Forty years of constantly being called racist/sexist/homophobic/illiterate/slope-foreheaded rednecks will do that to someone.

    I have the courage of my convictions. Even if I am in a 5% minority I will still hold on to my convictions. If you believe in what you are, and know what you are not, then the names are rather humorous.

    Yeah, humorous to you (and me), but if you allow bystanders and coyotes to watch you get attacked and you don’t respond other than a laugh and a shrug, they will do one or more of the following: think you must be guilty because you didn’t defend yourself, think you are a weakling, see you as an easy target to use to rally their followers around to victimize again and again for entertainment and to advance their agenda. It’s a jungle out there. You seem to think we are playing a game of church. 

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  17. Norm McDonald Inactive
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    Instugator (View Comment):

    ShaunaHunt (View Comment):

    Stop attacking Bethany! You can disagree without being disagreeable.

    Who is attacking Bethany?

    Who is Bethany?

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  18. Bill Nelson Inactive
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    Franco (View Comment):
    think you are a weakling

    I work in a very challenging high tech environment, where positions on technical issues must be taken and supported by solid reasoning. Responding with calm and reason to poorly reasoned challenges does not make one appear weak.

    There is a very liberal political discussion web site it contribute too on occasion, depending on the issues. The language to the very few conservatives is vulgar and even threatening. I always respond with calm reasoning. I know I am not going to change anyone’s ideas, just want to demonstrate how good discussions can be held. And I find it challenging and somewhat entertaining.

    And even here, the pro-Trump responses can become very similar to the progressive rants.

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  19. Instugator Thatcher
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    Bill Nelson (View Comment):
    And even here, the pro-Trump responses can become very similar to the progressive rants.

    But without giving approbation to gulags.

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