On Being Too Nice in Politics

 

Mitt Romney’s declaration of independence from Donald Trump as he takes his seat in the U.S. Senate has been illuminating – more for the responses than the op-ed itself. Professional speculators are asking whether it’s the opening gambit of a 2020 primary challenge (his denials notwithstanding) or mere virtue signaling?

The unappeasable left has drummed its fingers on the table, demanding to know whether Romney will oppose absolutely everything Trump does. If you are truly appalled at Trump, they insist, you must obstruct every judge, deregulation, and foreign policy move. Anything less taints you as insincere or useless. If Romney doesn’t vote like a liberal Democrat, he could pace up and down Pennsylvania Avenue with an “Impeach Trump” sandwich board and still be dismissed as a wuss.

The right, by contrast, has adopted a world-weary tone. “Oh, he’s unethical. Tell us something we didn’t know.” They dismiss moral objections as overly fastidious. Thus, David Limbaugh: “This type of self-congratulating moral preening from Romney will have the precise opposite effect Romney intends as it will further entrench Trump supporters, who are just really sick of being demonized. Yes, these types of unsolicited attacks on Trump are shots at his supporters.” Is there such a thing as a solicited attack? Anyway, you see how this works. Those who stick to standards are “preening,” and worse, they are insulting voters. But that’s a fallacy. There are plenty of Trump supporters who don’t excuse everything Trump does. They are fully capable of saying “Yeah, can’t deny that Trump is a jerk and a liar, but I do like some of his policies.” They are not guilty of Trump’s sins, and Trump shouldn’t try to evade responsibility by hiding behind their skirts.

Ben Shapiro assumes that Romney must be considering a primary challenge. It would fail, he contends, because “Republican voters have . . . learned the lesson that character doesn’t matter — ironically enough, from 2012 Mitt Romney, whose sterling character plus five bucks bought him a cup of coffee in that election cycle.” It’s not clear whether Shapiro is endorsing this interpretation or just reporting it, but it is common on the right, and by the way, also on the left. People have a weakness for believing that their own side is being hammered by the unscrupulous tactics of their opponents. Republicans believe that Democrats demonize them as racists, commit voter fraud, and change the rules to suit their own purposes. Some of this is true (see my second book, Do-Gooders for many examples of the first offense), and see Harry Reid’s filibuster rule change for an example of the third. Democrats believe that Republicans suppress minority votes, bend the rules for their own purposes, and rely on scare tactics. Some of that is true is as well. Ask Merrick Garland.

It’s always possible to rationalize your own departure from ethics by claiming self-defense. You’ll never lack for examples of the other side’s perfidy – but that doesn’t justify it. If it did, we’d never be able to have decency at all.

Nor is it settled that Mitt Romney was defeated because he was too much of a gentleman. I’d wager that many of those who voted for Barack Obama in 2012 were thinking “A candidate who says that 47 percent of the nation are indolent ‘takers’ is not my kind of guy.” Besides, he was running against an incumbent president whose approval ratings were above 50 percent in the final weeks of the race. And despite all of that, he still managed to get a bigger share of the popular vote (47.2) than Donald Trump achieved in 2016 (46.1). And don’t forget, Trump’s opponent was under FBI investigation – an inquiry that was reopened a week before the vote.

The fable that John McCain was felled by excessive delicacy in 2008 is also absurd. A two-term Republican president had just presided over a (perceived) failed war and the worst economic crisis in decades. It would have been a steep uphill struggle for any Republican even without the collective swoon for the charismatic first black major party candidate.

Whatever Romney’s motive may have been in penning the critical op-ed – it’s clear that what he wrote is the truth, which is worth a lot these days.

One of the chief grievances Republicans nurse is that they are portrayed as “bad people” for holding the views they do. Someone who believes in color-blind admissions is not a racist. A skeptic of government regulation is not a polluter. A believer in American world leadership is not a warmonger. But if you slip into defending Trump’s character, as opposed to some of his actions, you risk living down to the caricature.

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  1. Ed G. Member
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    Mona Charen: Those who stick to standards are “preening,” and worse, they are insulting voters. But that’s a fallacy.

    Speaking of fallacies, I don’t think Limbaugh is objecting to standards. He is of course objecting to imprudent and even malicious actions especially when passively blamed on “standards”.

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  2. Ed G. Member
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    Mona Charen: There are plenty of Trump supporters who don’t excuse everything Trump does. They are fully capable of saying “Yeah, can’t deny that Trump is a jerk and a liar, but I do like some of his policies.” They are not guilty of Trump’s sins, and Trump shouldn’t try to evade responsibility by hiding behind their skirts.

    I’m not aware of anyone who excuses everything President Trump does. Nor do I see how President Trump is trying to hide, behind skirts or otherwise. 

    How does this even follow the David Limbaugh quote which served as the predicate of the point? 

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  3. George Townsend Inactive
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    Ed G. (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):
    If we lose our Moral guideposts, we will still exist. But i want to live, not just exist. We don’t do this by swallowing immorality to get a lower tax rate. I want to a lower tax rate too. But I want a President I can proud of. The two are not incompatible.

    I have not lost my Moral guidepost. My morals exist outside of politics. Nothing JFK, or Clinton or Trump does as President, or before they were elected, affects my Morals.

    As a general rule if your Morals are being formed by or altered by a Politician then you need some real self reflection. There are an awful lot of immoral people in politics. 2016 gave us the choice between 2 candidates that had questionable morality. We choose the one who would give us our desired policy outcomes.

    I want a President I can by proud of. If I do not find his personal life to be inspiring or his speaking ability is problematic, I can still be proud of his accomplishments. I have never voted for someone I was proud of (sorry to young to have a chance to vote for Reagan).I did not sell my soul for lower taxes. I voted for the guy who would give me lower taxes, the guy who would be more friendly to my religion, more pro-life. Frankly given the choice between a Immoral Man who will do some good and a candidate suggesting free abortions on demand, the Immoral Man was the moral choice.

    I’ll rehearse my old argument here too: it’s weird to call someone an immoral man. We’re all mixed bags; at what point do we slide from moral to immoral? Is that judgement final? Is it a one drop rule?

    Speaking of weird: Are killers not immoral? How are rapists? How about a guy who slaps his wife around for kicks? What has happened to this conservatism today? How we lost our way completely that some people who claim to be conservative have no standards. I suppose Hitler and Stalin were just mixed bags??!!!

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  4. Franco Member
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    George Townsend (View Comment):

    Ed G. (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):
    If we lose our Moral guideposts, we will still exist. But i want to live, not just exist. We don’t do this by swallowing immorality to get a lower tax rate. I want to a lower tax rate too. But I want a President I can proud of. The two are not incompatible.

    I have not lost my Moral guidepost. My morals exist outside of politics. Nothing JFK, or Clinton or Trump does as President, or before they were elected, affects my Morals.

    As a general rule if your Morals are being formed by or altered by a Politician then you need some real self reflection. There are an awful lot of immoral people in politics. 2016 gave us the choice between 2 candidates that had questionable morality. We choose the one who would give us our desired policy outcomes.

    I want a President I can by proud of. If I do not find his personal life to be inspiring or his speaking ability is problematic, I can still be proud of his accomplishments. I have never voted for someone I was proud of (sorry to young to have a chance to vote for Reagan).I did not sell my soul for lower taxes. I voted for the guy who would give me lower taxes, the guy who would be more friendly to my religion, more pro-life. Frankly given the choice between a Immoral Man who will do some good and a candidate suggesting free abortions on demand, the Immoral Man was the moral choice.

    I’ll rehearse my old argument here too: it’s weird to call someone an immoral man. We’re all mixed bags; at what point do we slide from moral to immoral? Is that judgement final? Is it a one drop rule?

    Speaking of weird: Are killers not immoral? How are rapists? How about a guy who slaps his wife around for kicks? What has happened to this conservatism today? How we lost our way completely that some people who claim to be conservative have no standards. I suppose Hitler and Stalin were just mixed bags??!!!

    George judges Trump’s morality based on hearsay and 12 year-old quasi-facts unproven. Stipulating his perception a man of dubious character. Defending him is now tantamount to defending actual (as opposed to alleged) murderers and rapists. If this is the logic of conservatives, I want out.

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  5. Ed G. Member
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    George Townsend (View Comment):

    Ed G. (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):
    If we lose our Moral guideposts, we will still exist. But i want to live, not just exist. We don’t do this by swallowing immorality to get a lower tax rate. I want to a lower tax rate too. But I want a President I can proud of. The two are not incompatible.

    I have not lost my Moral guidepost. My morals exist outside of politics. Nothing JFK, or Clinton or Trump does as President, or before they were elected, affects my Morals.

    As a general rule if your Morals are being formed by or altered by a Politician then you need some real self reflection. There are an awful lot of immoral people in politics. 2016 gave us the choice between 2 candidates that had questionable morality. We choose the one who would give us our desired policy outcomes.

    I want a President I can by proud of. If I do not find his personal life to be inspiring or his speaking ability is problematic, I can still be proud of his accomplishments. I have never voted for someone I was proud of (sorry to young to have a chance to vote for Reagan).I did not sell my soul for lower taxes. I voted for the guy who would give me lower taxes, the guy who would be more friendly to my religion, more pro-life. Frankly given the choice between a Immoral Man who will do some good and a candidate suggesting free abortions on demand, the Immoral Man was the moral choice.

    I’ll rehearse my old argument here too: it’s weird to call someone an immoral man. We’re all mixed bags; at what point do we slide from moral to immoral? Is that judgement final? Is it a one drop rule?

    Speaking of weird: Are killers not immoral? How are rapists? How about a guy who slaps his wife around for kicks? What has happened to this conservatism today? How we lost our way completely that some people who claim to be conservative have no standards. I suppose Hitler and Stalin were just mixed bags??!!!

    Murder is immoral and illegal; have murderers done something immoral or are they immoral people? 

    Stalin and Hitler were murdering tyrants. While both of those actions are immoral, I’ll leave some kind of total judgement of them as people to God. 

    No one is arguing for no standards.

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  6. George Townsend Inactive
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    Franco (View Comment):
    George judges Trump’s morality based on hearsay and 12 year-old quasi-facts unproven. Stipulating his perception a man of dubious character. Defending him is now tantamount to defending actual (as opposed to alleged) murderers and rapists. If this is the logic of conservatives, I want out.

    You know, the Ever-Trumpists (as some have taken to calling this mentality) are the ones with Trump always on the mind. They are overly defensive. I didn’t even mention Trump. I was responding to the silly statement that calling someone immoral is weird. And I stand by what I wrote.

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    Ed G. (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):

    Ed G. (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):
    If we lose our Moral guideposts, we will still exist. But i want to live, not just exist. We don’t do this by swallowing immorality to get a lower tax rate. I want to a lower tax rate too. But I want a President I can proud of. The two are not incompatible.

    I have not lost my Moral guidepost. My morals exist outside of politics. Nothing JFK, or Clinton or Trump does as President, or before they were elected, affects my Morals.

    As a general rule if your Morals are being formed by or altered by a Politician then you need some real self reflection. There are an awful lot of immoral people in politics. 2016 gave us the choice between 2 candidates that had questionable morality. We choose the one who would give us our desired policy outcomes.

    I want a President I can by proud of. If I do not find his personal life to be inspiring or his speaking ability is problematic, I can still be proud of his accomplishments. I have never voted for someone I was proud of (sorry to young to have a chance to vote for Reagan).I did not sell my soul for lower taxes. I voted for the guy who would give me lower taxes, the guy who would be more friendly to my religion, more pro-life. Frankly given the choice between a Immoral Man who will do some good and a candidate suggesting free abortions on demand, the Immoral Man was the moral choice.

    I’ll rehearse my old argument here too: it’s weird to call someone an immoral man. We’re all mixed bags; at what point do we slide from moral to immoral? Is that judgement final? Is it a one drop rule?

    Speaking of weird: Are killers not immoral? How are rapists? How about a guy who slaps his wife around for kicks? What has happened to this conservatism today? How we lost our way completely that some people who claim to be conservative have no standards. I suppose Hitler and Stalin were just mixed bags??!!!

    Murder is immoral and illegal; have murderers done something immoral or are they immoral people?

    Stalin and Hitler were murdering tyrants. While both of those actions are immoral, I’ll leave some kind of total judgement of them as people to God.

    No one is arguing for no standards.

    Unless you are some kind of preacher (and even then), I find your previous statements crazy and offensive. If one keeps doing immoral thinks, he is in fact immoral.

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  8. Ed G. Member
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    George Townsend (View Comment):

    Ed G. (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):

    Ed G. (View Comment):

    Jager (View Comment):

    George Townsend (View Comment):
    If we lose our Moral guideposts, we will still exist. But i want to live, not just exist. We don’t do this by swallowing immorality to get a lower tax rate. I want to a lower tax rate too. But I want a President I can proud of. The two are not incompatible.

    I have not lost my Moral guidepost. My morals exist outside of politics. Nothing JFK, or Clinton or Trump does as President, or before they were elected, affects my Morals.

    As a general rule if your Morals are being formed by or altered by a Politician then you need some real self reflection. There are an awful lot of immoral people in politics. 2016 gave us the choice between 2 candidates that had questionable morality. We choose the one who would give us our desired policy outcomes.

    I want a President I can by proud of. If I do not find his personal life to be inspiring or his speaking ability is problematic, I can still be proud of his accomplishments. I have never voted for someone I was proud of (sorry to young to have a chance to vote for Reagan).I did not sell my soul for lower taxes. I voted for the guy who would give me lower taxes, the guy who would be more friendly to my religion, more pro-life. Frankly given the choice between a Immoral Man who will do some good and a candidate suggesting free abortions on demand, the Immoral Man was the moral choice.

    I’ll rehearse my old argument here too: it’s weird to call someone an immoral man. We’re all mixed bags; at what point do we slide from moral to immoral? Is that judgement final? Is it a one drop rule?

    Speaking of weird: Are killers not immoral? How are rapists? How about a guy who slaps his wife around for kicks? What has happened to this conservatism today? How we lost our way completely that some people who claim to be conservative have no standards. I suppose Hitler and Stalin were just mixed bags??!!!

    Murder is immoral and illegal; have murderers done something immoral or are they immoral people?

    Stalin and Hitler were murdering tyrants. While both of those actions are immoral, I’ll leave some kind of total judgement of them as people to God.

    No one is arguing for no standards.

    Unless you are some kind of preacher (and even then), I find your previous statements crazy and offensive. If one keeps doing immoral thinks, he is in fact immoral.

    You George?!? You are so rarely offended and are an exemplar of sanity so there must be something to your comment. It’s truly sobering and food for thought.

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