Stuffing vs. Dressing

 

When I was growing up, one of the big staples of every Christmas and Thanksgiving feast involving turkey was a couple of giant pans filled with slightly-mushy baked cornbread dressing full of chicken or duck. I hated the stuff when I was younger, but it has grown on me considerably in recent years. I had known there was such a thing as stuffing, but that was always referred to as “what Northerners call dressing.”

In some cases, I suppose that would be true. Most of the “stuffing” recipes I find have you make the stuffing much like dressing, but use that to stuff the turkey, while dressing is only meant to be a side dish that you eat alongside the bird. For my in-laws, stuffing isn’t used for stuffing so much, but it is a stove-top concoction of chunks of bread with sage and eggs. It’s still very tasty, but very different from the dressing made by my family. On the other hand, I can find plenty of “dressing” recipes that look much like what my in-laws consider stuffing.

The term “dressing” first originated in the 1850s, when the Victorians decided to switch from the term “stuffing” as it was considered more crass. Southerners kept the term while the Northerners couldn’t be swayed.

Ultimately, the difference between stuffing and dressing depends upon the region you live in as stuffing and dressing can both be referred to as what you stuff the bird with and the casserole dish served alongside the bird.

This year, I introduced my in-laws to my family’s version of dressing, to go along with our introduction of deep-fried turkey. It was my first time making the dressing, so it was not perfect, but it was still pretty delicious!

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  1. Randy Webster Inactive
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    John Hanson (View Comment):
    to the rest I add about one cup of dried cranberries, and one cup of diced pecans,

    I hadn’t actually thought about putting pecans in it. That actually sounds pretty good! I still load up on pecans every time I go back home.

    Back when I was building restaurants, one of my partners was from somewhere south of Atlanta.  Every once in a while he’d bring in a gunny sack full of pecans he picked up out of his yard.  Paper shell ones, too.

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  2. Matt Balzer Member
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):

    RightAngles (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):
    Would you consider your inlaws as either Northerners or Yankees? Just out of curiosity about what Southerners call people from different regions.

    They’re all Yankees.

    Honestly, the word Yankee has no content for me past the baseball team. In the Pacific Northwest / Northwest where I’ve lived my life no one ever says that unless it’s a Canadian using it as a general term for an American. And I don’t know how many of them actually do that…

    Oh, you should ask Terry for his rant on the term for Montanans next time you see him. :)

    There’s a term for Montanans?

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  3. Matt Balzer Member
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):
    Here a while back, I made you an honorary Southerner, remember?

    Now that you mention it I do. If I could also remember why I think I’d be doing all right.

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  4. J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado Coolidge
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    Matt Balzer (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):

    RightAngles (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):
    Would you consider your inlaws as either Northerners or Yankees? Just out of curiosity about what Southerners call people from different regions.

    They’re all Yankees.

    Honestly, the word Yankee has no content for me past the baseball team. In the Pacific Northwest / Northwest where I’ve lived my life no one ever says that unless it’s a Canadian using it as a general term for an American. And I don’t know how many of them actually do that…

    Oh, you should ask Terry for his rant on the term for Montanans next time you see him. :)

    There’s a term for Montanans?

    Using the term “Yankee” against Montanans.

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  5. Front Seat Cat Member
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Matt Balzer (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):

    RightAngles (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):
    Would you consider your inlaws as either Northerners or Yankees? Just out of curiosity about what Southerners call people from different regions.

    They’re all Yankees.

    Honestly, the word Yankee has no content for me past the baseball team. In the Pacific Northwest / Northwest where I’ve lived my life no one ever says that unless it’s a Canadian using it as a general term for an American. And I don’t know how many of them actually do that…

    Oh, you should ask Terry for his rant on the term for Montanans next time you see him. :)

    There’s a term for Montanans?

    Using the term “Yankee” against Montanans.

    My mother in law got a card from her son’s friend in GA – the card depicts Robert E. Lee and two soldiers kneeling in the snow praying before a battle – I can’t imagine where you would get a card like that – he participates in a regimen in GA that does the battle reenactments of the Civil War. Do they do that in the north? I remember seeing it done in a park somewhere but I can’t remember what state I was in.

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  6. Arahant Member
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    Front Seat Cat (View Comment):
    Do they do that in the north?

    Yes. Greenfield Village has re-enactors every year on some date in the summer. Both Yankees and Americans.

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  7. RightAngles Member
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    Arahant (View Comment):
    Both Yankees and Americans.

    hahaha

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  8. J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado Coolidge
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    Front Seat Cat (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Matt Balzer (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):

    RightAngles (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):
    Would you consider your inlaws as either Northerners or Yankees? Just out of curiosity about what Southerners call people from different regions.

    They’re all Yankees.

    Honestly, the word Yankee has no content for me past the baseball team. In the Pacific Northwest / Northwest where I’ve lived my life no one ever says that unless it’s a Canadian using it as a general term for an American. And I don’t know how many of them actually do that…

    Oh, you should ask Terry for his rant on the term for Montanans next time you see him. :)

    There’s a term for Montanans?

    Using the term “Yankee” against Montanans.

    My mother in law got a card from her son’s friend in GA – the card depicts Robert E. Lee and two soldiers kneeling in the snow praying before a battle – I can’t imagine where you would get a card like that – he participates in a regimen in GA that does the battle reenactments of the Civil War. Do they do that in the north? I remember seeing it done in a park somewhere but I can’t remember what state I was in.

    There is at least 1 Civil War re-enactment troupe that I’ve heard of in Montana. Most re-enactments are the battles between Native Americans and colonists, like Custer’s Last Stand.

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  9. Arahant Member
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    RightAngles (View Comment):

    Arahant (View Comment):
    Both Yankees and Americans.

    hahaha

    I was hoping someone would catch that. ?

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  10. EB Thatcher
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    RightAngles (View Comment):
    It’s dressing, and cornbread dressing is the best food on this earth

    It has to have some cornbread because regular bread ends up gummy.

    My mother’s recipe was: make a pan of cornbread, sauté onions and celery in butter (lots of butter), crumble the cornbread, mix all with one package of Pepperidge Farm seasoned stuffing mix, moisten with broth made from the turkey neck, put in larger pan and bake.

    I live in Florida which is chock-a-block with Yankees.  Matter of fact, I only have one other Southerner to keep up the side.  To appropriate a Yankee phrase, “They (Yankees) don’t know from dressing.”  However, once they tasted mine, it’s now required at any Thanksgiving meal we are invited to.

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  11. Flizzo Stizzo Member
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):
    Would you consider your inlaws as either Northerners or Yankees? Just out of curiosity about what Southerners call people from different regions.

    Northerners. I tease Terry by calling him a Yankee sometimes, but I would never seriously call him a Yankee. I only use that term for Northerners I don’t like.

    What would you call someone from Arizona? Or Hawaii?

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  12. OccupantCDN Coolidge
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    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces? (other than NOT from a can!)

    This was the first year I made my own cranberry sauce. I made a sugar free version – using Truvia sugar substitute instead. It turned out fairly good. Just cranberries 1/2 cup of Truvia (which is fantastic because its outrageously expensive) and boil in a cup of water.

    I think next year I want to try something like this:

    https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/worlds-best-cranberry-sauce/

     

     

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  13. J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado Coolidge
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    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    Flizzo Stizzo (View Comment):
    Would you consider your inlaws as either Northerners or Yankees? Just out of curiosity about what Southerners call people from different regions.

    Northerners. I tease Terry by calling him a Yankee sometimes, but I would never seriously call him a Yankee. I only use that term for Northerners I don’t like.

    What would you call someone from Arizona? Or Hawaii?

    Westerners and Islanders? Or maybe just their appropriate state-ian-ism?

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  14. J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado Coolidge
    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado
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    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces? (other than NOT from a can!)

    This was the first year I made my own cranberry sauce. I made a sugar free version – using Truvia sugar substitute instead. It turned out fairly good. Just cranberries 1/2 cup of Truvia (which is fantastic because its outrageously expensive) and boil in a cup of water.

    I think next year I want to try something like this:

    https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/worlds-best-cranberry-sauce/

    My mom has been making chutney the last few years, though we generally never ate cranberry sauce with our holiday meals.

    • #74
  15. OccupantCDN Coolidge
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces? (other than NOT from a can!)

    This was the first year I made my own cranberry sauce. I made a sugar free version – using Truvia sugar substitute instead. It turned out fairly good. Just cranberries 1/2 cup of Truvia (which is fantastic because its outrageously expensive) and boil in a cup of water.

    I think next year I want to try something like this:

    https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/worlds-best-cranberry-sauce/

    My mom has been making chutney the last few years, though we generally never ate cranberry sauce with our holiday meals.

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces? (other than NOT from a can!)

    This was the first year I made my own cranberry sauce. I made a sugar free version – using Truvia sugar substitute instead. It turned out fairly good. Just cranberries 1/2 cup of Truvia (which is fantastic because its outrageously expensive) and boil in a cup of water.

    I think next year I want to try something like this:

    https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/worlds-best-cranberry-sauce/

    My mom has been making chutney the last few years, though we generally never ate cranberry sauce with our holiday meals.

    Its the only meals when we would have Cranberries… I dont think you can even get them in a store otherwise…

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  16. J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado Coolidge
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    OccupantCDN (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces? (other than NOT from a can!)

    This was the first year I made my own cranberry sauce. I made a sugar free version – using Truvia sugar substitute instead. It turned out fairly good. Just cranberries 1/2 cup of Truvia (which is fantastic because its outrageously expensive) and boil in a cup of water.

    I think next year I want to try something like this:

    https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/worlds-best-cranberry-sauce/

    My mom has been making chutney the last few years, though we generally never ate cranberry sauce with our holiday meals.

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):

    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces? (other than NOT from a can!)

    This was the first year I made my own cranberry sauce. I made a sugar free version – using Truvia sugar substitute instead. It turned out fairly good. Just cranberries 1/2 cup of Truvia (which is fantastic because its outrageously expensive) and boil in a cup of water.

    I think next year I want to try something like this:

    https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/worlds-best-cranberry-sauce/

    My mom has been making chutney the last few years, though we generally never ate cranberry sauce with our holiday meals.

    Its the only meals when we would have Cranberries… I dont think you can even get them in a store otherwise…

    Now that you mention it, yeah. I’ve really only seen dried cranberries near the salad stuff.

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  17. Matt Balzer Member
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    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):
    Now that you mention it, yeah. I’ve really only seen dried cranberries near the salad stuff.

    Depending on how much you like cranberries, you’re missing out then. I think the WI cranberry marketing board has been shelling out some dough to get cranberries marketed the past few years. I’ve seen them in salsa, cheese, sausage (I think), probably some desserts. They’re around all right.

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  18. Arahant Member
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    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Its the only meals when we would have Cranberries… I dont think you can even get them in a store otherwise…

    It may be the only time you happen to look. People who look can get them anytime.

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  19. Kim K. Inactive
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    Matt Balzer (View Comment):

    J.D. Snapp, Possum Aficionado (View Comment):
    Now that you mention it, yeah. I’ve really only seen dried cranberries near the salad stuff.

    Depending on how much you like cranberries, you’re missing out then. I think the WI cranberry marketing board has been shelling out some dough to get cranberries marketed the past few years. I’ve seen them in salsa, cheese, sausage (I think), probably some desserts. They’re around all right.

    My daughter worked for a low-income elderly lady who was eligible for some kind of commodity distribution. She always got loads of pinto beans, brown rice, and cranberry products – along with a few other things. The lady didn’t like cranberries so we ended up with all of it.

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  20. EB Thatcher
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    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    Are there lots of opinion on cranberry sauces?

    My grandmother and mother always made cranberry sherbet, served in little individual footed glass dishes with the Thanksgiving meal.  (Or any special meal where we had turkey.)

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