Thanksgiving

 

This is an open post to discuss all the things for which we’re thankful, big and small.

MediaItem_234I may have more reason to be thankful today than most: First, I’m thankful to an anonymous pig who (reluctantly, I imagine) donated its aortic valve to my father, replacing his dangerously calcified human one. (Thank you, gentle pig! We hope you liked your experience of xenoplantation, and welcome you to your new human lifestyle! You’ll love settling in to watch The Simpsons with my dad: We absolutely loved that when we were growing up.)

Without a replacement, my father wasn’t apt to survive for long. But the pig valve is now happily doing its valvular job in my Pop’s heart, along with his two newly bypassed arteries and his new pacemaker. h9991261_007

He’s tired, but he’s home and comfortable in his own apartment. We’re about as thankful as a family can be — to the doctors, the surgeons, the surgical team, the nurses, the hospital staff, the tradition of modern medical research that made this possible, the luck of the defect having been detected and cured in time, and above all to He who Decided that we’d be allowed to have our father around a little while longer.

What about you? Anything making you feel especially thankful today?

CORRECTION: Because this author is not truly qualified to pronounce on any matter related to cardiology, she seems to have misunderstood both what she was told about this medical procedure and, perhaps, a key word in French. Her father’s new aortic valve has not been replaced by that of a pig. It has been replaced by … something made out of veal. The author learned this over Thanksgiving dinner. She’s still a little unclear about what happened to her Pop’s heart, but ever-so-grateful that it’s working, no matter what kind of animal they put in it.

Ricochet regrets the error.

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  1. RushBabe49 Thatcher
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    http://rushbabe49.com/2015/11/26/properly-grateful-joy-of-giving/

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  2. Midget Faded Rattlesnake Member
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    Some “little” things to be grateful for:

    Indoor plumbing, clean laundry, food preservation by freezing, warm, dry feet.

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  3. Lucy Pevensie Inactive
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    There are a million things to be thankful for. I am thankful for my family: my daughter who brings so much joy to my life, my husband who loves us and makes me laugh, and my father who is still hanging in there in increasingly extreme old age.  I’m thankful for good health–I’m old enough now not to take it for granted, and young enough to still be beating my old 5K PR in the Turkey Trot this morning.  I’m thankful to be living in the country I was born in and in this amazing and miraculous age, where food and shelter are taken for granted, and comfort and a long healthy life are normal.  I’m thankful for work that allows me to support myself and give to others. I’m thankful for my beautiful home with the answer-to-prayer ground-floor guest suite where my father can stay when he visits. I’m thankful to live in a beautiful area with a beautiful climate. I’m thankful for my church and my friends.

    It’s easy to look around the world and feel sad, angry, or anxious, but the number of good things around me is really overwhelming.

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  4. Petty Boozswha Inactive
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    I’m thankful for the four wonderful young men that sat around my table today; when I look at my sons I know this country as well as my family are going to go forward. I’m thankful for the advances in medical science and pharmacopoeia that have done so much this year to ameliorate my oldest son’s affliction with schizophrenia, and pray every night that more breakthroughs come in the future. I’m grateful for a profession that corresponds to my aptitudes and that supports me no matter how modestly in a home of comfort and domestic tranquility. And I’m grateful for the internet and Ricochet that allow a rural existence to have some of the benefits I thought only were available to sophisticates and big shots in my younger years.

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  5. Susan the Buju Contributor
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    Claire, I am so grateful to have a husband and brother-in-law who not only love me, but who joined in for all the cooking and clean-up for this blessed day. We served 13 people–more people than we’ve ever had at our table–and we’re tired but filled with joy that we not only have the bounty to feed them, but that we can share our love and gratitude with all of them on this precious day.

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  6. Front Seat Cat Member
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    She:Happy Thanksgiving, everybody.

    I’m thankful for lots of things, but at the top of the list, is this:

    My granddaughter is seven years old. Each year, before school starts, she and her mother, and a couple of her friends, open a lemonade stand for a day, in their little town, in their yard, by the gate. People, including police and county workers, whose offices are just down the road, buy her lemonade. No-one talks about health and safety rules. No-one shuts her down. Her mother explains about the cost of the lemons and the sugar, subtracts it from her ‘profit,’ and she learns a little about how the world works.

    I am thankful that my granddaughter lives in a family, a town, and a country, where her experiences, and her grounding, are such that when she starts to make decisions for herself, she makes decisions like this. And I am thankful for the adults who take her seriously and support her.

    She is an excellent little person. She is hope. And I am thankful for that.

    It’s amazing to me that such a simple thing that brings people together, teaches a good lesson, would be shut down for any reason!

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  7. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Leslie Watkins:I am thankful for the radiation and chemo therapy treatments I received this fall that made me suffer no significant side effects and greatly shrunk the tumor in my rectum such that it will much more easily be extracted from my body come Monday. I’m especially thankful for the caring and concern shown by my entire oncological team at Duke–it doesn’t take a village, but it does take a highly motivated and collegial team to deal effectively with cancer. I’m also very thankful for the positive long-term prognosis. Most of all, though, I am thankful for the loving expressions of support and concern that have come to me from near and far, by childhood as well as contemporary friends (some on Ricochet!), since I found out about all this in July. And I’m so very thankful that it’s beautiful outside and that there is a very good likelihood that I will be able to contribute to this life as well as enjoy my favorite time of year for years to come.

    Leslie – will say a prayer for you for Monday – please keep us posted.

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  8. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Instugator:Happy Thanksgiving!

    I am thankful for all of you and this place we share. I am thankful for my family and friends (real and imaginary).

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    Is that your turkey? Yumm!

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  9. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Petty Boozswha:I’m thankful for the four wonderful young men that sat around my table today; when I look at my sons I know this country as well as my family are going to go forward. I’m thankful for the advances in medical science and pharmacopoeia that have done so much this year to ameliorate my oldest son’s affliction with schizophrenia, and pray every night that more breakthroughs come in the future. I’m grateful for a profession that corresponds to my aptitudes and that supports me no matter how modestly in a home of comfort and domestic tranquility. And I’m grateful for the internet and Ricochet that allow a rural existence to have some of the benefits I thought only were available to sophisticates and big shots in my younger years.

    I’m reading Patrick Kennedy’s Book called A Common Struggle – he is amazing and well worth reading – highlights mental health issues – he is a fearless advocate for and suffers with bi-polar. He broke the silence code that the Kennedys have lived with for years. It seems there were many challenges that were kept from the public. Many within his family are not happy with the book – mental health issues affect so many and should be at the forefront – he is working to make that happen.

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  10. Petty Boozswha Inactive
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    Thanks for the recommendation, Ms. Cat I will look it up on audible.

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  11. Instugator Thatcher
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    Front Seat Cat:

    Instugator:Happy Thanksgiving!

    I am thankful for all of you and this place we share. I am thankful for my family and friends (real and imaginary).

    IMG_20151126_114421374_HDR

    Is that your turkey? Yumm!

    Cajun Flavored – just a little bit of heat.

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  12. The Reticulator Member
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    I’m grateful that for the 21st year in a row I can report that I haven’t been sent to one of Hillary’s internment camps.  I’m grateful that it’s still a free country for some of us, and my condolences to those who have been the innocent victims of no-knock raids.

    My father and mother both died this year, at ages 96 and 91.  I’m an orphan now and miss them greatly, but there are a lot of good family memories.  I’m the custodian of my parents’ extensive photo collections and am having a good time scanning them for my siblings and their families.

    It was probably in 1953 when I was about 5 that Mom came into my bedroom and we had the talk – about countries where people lived in fear of the midnight knock on the door. This wasn’t completely new information to me (which may give you an idea of the adult conversations I listened to) but she told how it could someday happen in our country, too.  Mom gave it about 20 years.  I’m grateful that she was wrong about that.  She didn’t say anything more about it by the end of that period, and that was also about when our first child (Mom and Dad’s first grandchild) was born.

    Maybe we’ll hold out for a few years yet, and maybe we won’t.  I’ll be grateful for what we get.

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  13. Little My Member
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    It is so wonderful to read everyone’s thnaksgivings, and to realize all the common things we are together so thankful for.
    As an aside, I was struck by the illustration of the “St. Jude valve.” Isn’t St Jude the patron of impossible situations?

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  14. Claire Berlinski, Ed. Member
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    Little My:It is so wonderful to read everyone’s thnaksgivings, and to realize all the common things we are together so thankful for. As an aside, I was struck by the illustration of the “St. Jude valve.” Isn’t St Jude the patron of impossible situations?

    Yes, and St. Jude, the company, is among the finest purveyors of  low-profile, bileaflet, central-flow valve prosthesis made entirely of pyrolytic carbon mechanical. And they make a top-notch pacemaker, too. Apparently.

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