Driving with the Entitled

 

Few things irk me more than people who drive in a manner that suggests that they believe themselves to be The Chosen One. Though I confess to not being the world’s most faithful speed limit adherent, I try to be courteous in my driving. But like many, I am subject to the impulses that underlie road rage. My hackles get up when encountering cell-phone abusing drivers, cutters-off, and generally oblivious drivers dangerously weaving about as if they were the only people on the road. But while my temperature rises and my language becomes more colorful — unless there are kids in my car — I can generally avoid seeing red.

Except in school zones.

Yesterday, I was passing through one on a 4-lane, divided road when some lady drove right up to my rear bumper, swerved around me — cutting off someone else — and dove back in front of me before speeding away. Fortunately, there were no kids around at the moment; unfortunately, however, neither was the cop who occasionally monitors the area.

For a split second, a massive rage of righteous indignation sprang up inside me. I wanted nothing more than to hit the accelerator, follow her all the way to wherever she was going, read her the riot act, take a picture of her car tag, and otherwise shame her for putting other people in danger. In that split second, the world was colored blood red through my eyes.

Luckily, I had the presence of mind to remember that I was still in the school zone. I kept the rage in check, and before long, she was gone and out of sight. But a day later, my anger still simmers.

I am painfully aware of my own fallibility and susceptibility to emotion. But is it that hard to be courteous? Is it that hard to not lord oneself over others, putting oneself at the head of the line with no regard to the chain reaction that occurs in your wake?

It’s a school zone, for crying out loud! An extra minute or two isn’t going to cost you that much. The alternative could be much worse.

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  1. captainpower Inactive
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    Interesting. What’s the source for that data?

    Following the trail, I fail to find it.

    http://www.nbcnews.com/business/autos/buckle-most-dangerous-states-drivers-f799704

    –>

    http://247wallst.com/special-report/2012/05/24/the-most-dangerous-states-to-drive-in/2/

    –>

    http://healthyamericans.org/report/94/

    –>

    http://healthyamericans.org/assets/files/Investing.pdf

    But the PDF doesn’t mention “auto” “motor” or “motor vehicle.”

    I also tried searching for some of the statistics from the article, such as a statistic from the nbcnews Mississipi quote (same quote on page 3 of 23wallstreet link)

    • Lifetime medical costs due to one-year auto accidents: $7,158,007 (19th highest)

    Didn’t find it in the PDF. Go figure.

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  2. kylez Member
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    C. U. Douglas:I presently live in Portland. Everyone here on the road is stupid. If you don’t drive cautious, you’re doomed.

    Aren’t they all riding bikes though?

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  3. MarciN Member
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    captainpower:Interesting. What’s the source for that data?

    Following the trail, I fail to find it.

    http://www.nbcnews.com/business/autos/buckle-most-dangerous-states-drivers-f799704

    –>

    http://247wallst.com/special-report/2012/05/24/the-most-dangerous-states-to-drive-in/2/

    –>

    http://healthyamericans.org/report/94/

    –>

    http://healthyamericans.org/assets/files/Investing.pdf

    But the PDF doesn’t mention “auto” “motor” or “motor vehicle.”

    I also tried searching for some of the statistics from the article, such as a statistic from the nbcnews Mississipi quote (same quote on page 3 of 23wallstreet link)

    • Lifetime medical costs due to one-year auto accidents: $7,158,007 (19th highest)

    Didn’t find it in the PDF. Go figure.

    I have actually seen this other places, so I just ran a Google search for highway fatalities by state. There are many sources that came up. You have to hunt around on some of them, such as the CDC site, so I picked the one that was the easiest to read.

    My kids lived in Montana for a while, so it was interesting to see Montana at the top and Massachusetts at the bottom.

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  4. Western Chauvinist Member
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    MarciN:

    captainpower: Someone earlier said people see driving as a competitive game. I see it as a cooperative game. If we all help each other out we all get where we need to go. The problem is all these other drivers don’t see it that way.

    :)

    I used to drive into Boston every day, and I parked in the Congress Street Post Office Square garage. It was really cool. We all knew each other. People took turns, on their own, getting into and out of that garage. Restored my faith in humanity.

    Heh, when I had to go to Boston for work, Mr C. advised me not to make eye contact with other drivers. Sign of weakness. ;-)

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  5. Son of Spengler Member
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    Dave Carter:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:As someone who grew-up out West but lives in Massachusetts, I can’t shake my suspicion that New Englanders think of driving as a competitive sport.

    To be more specific, as someone who has spent a lot of time trying to negotiate New England in an 18-wheeler, they think of driving as roller derby.

    In New England, we don’t bother watching NASCAR, because it would be a kind of busman’s holiday. Why would I spend my weekends watching people simulate the morning commute?

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  6. The King Prawn Inactive
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    “Aren’t they all riding bikes though?”

    Or unicycles…
    portland

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  7. C. U. Douglas Coolidge
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    kylez:

    C. U. Douglas:I presently live in Portland. Everyone here on the road is stupid. If you don’t drive cautious, you’re doomed.

    Aren’t they all riding bikes though?

    The cyclists are the worst. Except for the pedestrians. They are the worst. Except the motorists. They are the worst.

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  8. MarciN Member
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    Son of Spengler:

    Dave Carter:

    Tom Meyer, Ed.:As someone who grew-up out West but lives in Massachusetts, I can’t shake my suspicion that New Englanders think of driving as a competitive sport.

    To be more specific, as someone who has spent a lot of time trying to negotiate New England in an 18-wheeler, they think of driving as roller derby.

    In New England, we don’t bother watching NASCAR, because it would be a kind of busman’s holiday. Why would I spend my weekends watching people simulate the morning commute?

    This just made my day.  :)

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