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For about the last two or three years, I have been a volunteer patient advocate for friends and relatives who have medical problems. I don't try to broadcast this, but word gets around. Many of the friends I have helped also attend Saturday evening Mass. Often seated one row in front of me is a woman who appears very frail and unsteady. She has a very strong tremor that involves not only her hands but rocks her head and body. A few months ago she spoke to me by name as I was leaving church. I was stunned that she knew my name and assumed she wanted to start a conversation, but other people were greeting me and she was gone before that could happen.
I did not see her again for many weeks. Last week she sat before me once again in the pew ahead. At some point in the service I felt a strong impulse to reach out to her. At the time for sharing the sign of peace, I leaned forward, touched her shoulder and someone kinder, and I hope wiser than me, said, "I haven't seen you in a while, welcome back."
She turned, smiled and said, "If you only knew."
She once again hurried away at the end of Mass. I am not sure in any way what this portends, but I do believe that every simple act of kindness is a seed that is planted by us but tended to by God.
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We can't begin to measure how these simple gestures, which we often miss giving because we are so pre-occupied, can be treasured by another. Thank you for reaching out as you did.
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Do it again next time.
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Have you considered mentioning a possible problem to the pastor?
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A good reminder to speak up when we sense a need. Thank you.
I’ve been thinking of asking our parish priest to let parishioners know that they can contact me to support them on their hospital visits. Quite a few have asked me to accompany them when they are scheduled for a surgery, I don’t know why. Just being a driver and companion can make a big difference for many people.
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