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At the risk of alienating some of my Christian friends, I want to get some feedback on my reaction to a phrase that is often stated by those who are Christian. I have seen many members say they are sinners, which is not a label that Jews use to define themselves. Of course, we sin, and probably plenty of times, but our focus is on recognizing our shortcomings, apologizing to people when we hurt them, and trying to make amends. I don’t think I was born into sin, nor do I believe that I have to overcome the mistakes that Adam and Eve made. I know that G-d expects me to make good and wise choices, not bad or hurtful choices, and I know He knows that I know that. I don’t think I would be helped by calling myself a sinner.
So I’m trying to understand the mentality behind calling oneself a sinner. I’m not making it out to be bad or wrong, but I just don’t understand the purpose behind it, and how it is helpful to the devout Christian. I suspect it might be related to one’s relationship with Jesus, but I just am not clear.
As I reflect on my life, I am occasionally overcome by hubris. I so dislike when I let myself fall into that mindset. I also try not to concentrate on my shortcomings and errors, though I have plenty of those. When I beat up on myself, I get stuck in a negative attitude. I sometimes isolate myself from others, and my creative juices dry up. For many years I told people I wasn’t creative—so I wasn’t—until I changed my attitude. So, I try to find the balance of acknowledging my faults while also becoming a better person.
So, if you consider yourself a sinner, please consider this as a serious inquiry and not a judgment of you as a Christian. Thanks for your help.
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I think that it's a reminder that we all sin and need to continue to mend our ways and emulate Christ.
Also I think some Christians may say it to prevent others from thinking that they (the Christian) think they are better than a non-Christian. Or (if they are having a conversation and perhaps giving some unsolicited advice or criticism to another Christian) trying to deflect the same kind of response.
I try not to give unsolicited advice to anyone. I'm not 100% successful, but much better than I was when in my 20's and 30's. These days when I'm tempted, I usually preface it with, "How do you feel about unsolicited advice?" If they don't want it, I change the subject.
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Boy, does that take discipline! I did it for years and do it much less. Sometimes when I can't help myself, I ask if I can offer a suggestion (and realize the person may say no).
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I figured the reminder part was important, but I guess I'm very well aware I can scew up.
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Ms. Quinn, this is a fabulous question. Thank you for the courage to ask it. I hope you can be tolerant of my attempt to respond in a positive manner.
The answer lies in the basis of Christianity itself, why did our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, have to give up his divinity and become man to suffer and die.
The basic answer is because all of humanity sins (we are sinners) and needs God's saving grace. We are rebels against God from the moment we are conceived, it's in our spiritual DNA.
EB's answer is a great start to the practical outcomes. Maybe other Christians can keep adding to the list.
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Thank you for your very thoughtful response. So you believe we rebel against G-d at conception and there's no getting around that. I assume that is due to the sins of Adam and Eve?
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