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I’m a member of the Evangelical Philosophical Society. One Saturday morning a few months ago I woke up to a generic email from the EPS. Along with more of the usual stuff that doesn’t really affect my life (if you know where I live you know I can’t easily fly up to Michigan this March […]

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[ not to move to the Main Feed] Almost everyone can respond to this post: if you’re married, divorced, in a serious relationship, plan to be in a serious relationship, or are dying to be in a serious relationship, you are the perfect ricochetti to comment! Those who don’t know if they want to be […]

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Perhaps I’ve just seen too many movies, but I thought American legal tradition held that a spouse cannot be compelled to testify. A federal judge has just ruled otherwise. I presumed that this protection was an extension of the legal right against self-incriminating testimony. Western legal codes, probably based on the Christian tradition of considering […]

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I joined Ricochet in 2015 because I loved Claire Berlinski’s writing. My sister found her books and mailed to me – we have both been fans since. I also found on Ricochet, amazing posts on politics, religion, social trends, music, humor, travel, foreign policy, book reviews and more. I have been inspired by the collective […]

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Yes, I know that the country is headed toward the infernal regions in a proverbial hand basket, and that the whole world seems increasingly to take on the organizational model of Dante’s Inferno. And while it feels almost blasphemous to speak of happy things in a world gone horribly awry, in this my first extended writing after an extended absence, I prefer the bright light of dreams that come true to the intruding darkness of wicked and dishonorable men.

Have you ever felt as if the sum total of your life’s experiences were taking you inexorably to a moment in time so defining, so utterly crystallizing that it will forever define not only your existence, but your everlasting happiness? Standing at the altar, on November 15, I counted my blessings that I had reached just such a pinnacle, and that it was a gloriously happy place to be.

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IMG_1157In recent years, we’ve been treated to plenty of articles regarding the romantic and sexual habits of the young and college-educated. In general, the observation is that the ladies are finding it difficult to find men who are interested in committed relationships or marriage, while the guys are blithely bouncing from bed to bed. While no stereotype is true of the whole — as my early-20s self of a decade ago would have bitterly pointed out to you — this one seems to reflect at least a part of reality.

Though there’s no shortage of likely causes — including the ongoing effects of the Sexual Revolution — two factors that have rightly attracted attention of late are the power of scarcity within different dating markets and how those markets are largely demarcated by education (e.g., college graduates generally limit their dating pools to other college grads). Among college-aged Millennials, for instance, there are four women for every three men. In that demographic, this means that men’s preferences dominate, not in spite of their low numbers, but because of them. Consequently sexual mores tend to be loose and committed relationships relatively rare. (“Won’t sleep with me? Sorry, baby, there’s plenty who will.”) When you factor in youthful hormones, it’s little wonder that sex tends to happen relatively early and requires less commitment.

(The outcome is deeply ironic, given that most feminists seemed to assume that, as college become more dominated by women, their preferences would become ascendant. Chalk this up as yet another example of the dangers of political thinking divorced from economic understanding).

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shutterstock_21324538“It’s about what these women will let guys get away with.” You may not expect to hear commentary like that at your garden variety think tank panel discussion, but it got pretty lively at the American Enterprise Institute discussion on the topic “Do Healthy Families Affect the Wealth of States?”

Megan McArdle of Bloomberg View is author of the above comment. The question at hand was: Why are so many young women (64 percent of moms under the age of 30) having children out of wedlock? The class divide in America is nowhere as wide as on the matter of marriage. College educated men and women are sticking with the traditional order of marriage first, children after. Not only that, but they are far less likely to divorce than their parents’ generation. Those with only some college or less, by contrast, are much less likely to marry before having children, and much more likely to divorce if they do marry.

McArdle was answering her own question in a sense. She noted that many who had studied the retreat from marriage among the uneducated propose the “working class men are garbage” thesis. According to this view, lots of young men are unemployed and playing video games all day. Why would a young woman want to marry such a loser? She’d just be getting another kid.

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The preservation of preaching may not have been directly intended by the creators of YouTube, but I am thankful for it, because without it I may never have encountered Venerable Fulton Sheen’s various shows. His small screen sermons have a timeless quality, and I dig his Chestertonian combination of orthodoxy and wit. Knowing that marriage […]

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shutterstock_292260317There are, according to all demographic surveys, not enough single men. From Vice:

There simply aren’t enough college-educated men to go around. For every four college-educated women in my generation, there are three college-educated men. The result? What Birger calls a “musical chairs” of the heart: As the men pair off with partners, unpartnered straight women are left with fewer and fewer options—and millions of them are eventually left with no options at all.

Wait. Let me rephrase that. There are not enough single college-educated men. Almost 35 percent more women than men graduated from college last year. Women outnumber men in law school and medical school. In the college class of 2023, women will outnumber men by 47 percent!

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Kim Davis, the Kentucky clerk, is confused. No wonder! The Supreme Court confused the entire country with their recent marriage ruling. As I wrote one year ago in Marriage v. Marriage, the institution we call marriage is two different things. The government now defines marriage as a legal relationship of two individuals regardless of their […]

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PRESS RELEASE An International Symposium on the Creation of Adam and Eve and the Foundations of Holy Marriage ROME, ITALY. In anticipation of the re-opening of the Synod on the Family in October, an international symposium on the creation of Adam and Eve as the foundation of the Catholic doctrine on Holy Marriage will be […]

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11201919_10152908409594072_6411389927715469707_nA fellow Ricochet member wrote me a private message this week, letting me know my contributions have been missed and asking why I’ve been away so long. It was sweet and he was right: I’ve been gone for a bit and haven’t been writing, though the words have been resting on the tip of my tongue.

Three month ago, my grandmother Harriet passed away at the age of 103. I haven’t written about her because, honestly, I was embarrassed at how shaken I was by her passing. Losing someone that age should be natural, not dramatic. It should evoke gratitude for having had her rather than the anger and emptiness I felt.

I was born far from everything, at the edge of a mountain, just as the lilacs were fading from bloom. My mother had her own battles to fight, so the one constant in the chaos of the first years of my life was that woman with the French twist and the warm smile hiding behind an array of stern expressions.

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Kim DavisKim Davis, the court clerk in Kentucky who refused to issue marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples is going to jail for contempt of court. Her reasons for refusing to do so are because, in her own words, “To issue a marriage license which conflicts with God’s definition of marriage, with my name affixed to the certificate, would violate my conscience.”

So quit your job, Kim. Problem solved.

I worked for ten years as a commercial/advertising photographer, and there were jobs I turned down on moral and religious grounds. I took a hit in the wallet for doing so, but I walked away with a clear conscience and good feeling knowing that there were just some things I would not do for money. Come to think of it, I’ve had moral qualms of one kind or another at just about every job I’ve had because I’m surrounded by people who don’t share my convictions. It’s not that I was asked to do anything illegal, but in every job, there are corners that can be cut and rules that can be bent. There were/are some lines I will not cross.

Contributor Post Created with Sketch. Really, Cato? Nothing Better To Do?

 

shutterstock_179087879Like prosecutors, activists should employ discretion, giving some thought to the best allocation of their talents, efforts, and scarce resources. If you’re a national, libertarian think tank operating in 2015 America, you’ve no shortage of causes worthy of your attention.

That’s why I’m a little confounded — not a lot, a little — that the Cato Institute filed an amicus brief in federal court on behalf of the polygamous family featured on TLC’s Sister Wives. The show documents the life of a polygamist family, including patriarch Kody Brown, his four wives, and their 17 children.

Before 2013, a person was guilty of bigamy in Utah when,

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Earlier this year, I signed on to one of the amicus briefs arguing against judicial imposition of nationally recognized same-sex marriage and I am not changing my position here. However, I have gradually come to understand — largely thanks to the tireless efforts of SSM-supporting Ricochetti over on the SSM PIT — a pretty good argument for it. This argument deserves a fair hearing, and traditionalists like myself deserve the chance to confront it directly. Hopefully the result will be that some of us understand each other a little better, even if no one is actually convinced of anything.[1]

I say the argument is good because its premises support its conclusion and all of the premises — if not unquestionably true — at least have something going for them. Now, arguments have forms (as I explained here) and it’s probably best to not jump right into the argument itself, but its form, which is as follows:

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Hello, all, your favorite radical Marxist movie reviewer here. I was going to do a post on Shane–it’s forthcoming, all about how the personal is & is not the political!–but a few days back, my young miss came home to tell me about Trainwreck–it was girls’ night at the movies, more or less, & they […]

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I’ve heard some wonderful, sweet stories throughout the years of couples that have endured lengthy separations, but their love remained steadfast and they were ultimately reunited-John and Abigail Adams, Liz Thompson’s parents, my friends Kathryn and Andrew. The love letters, the lengthy phone calls, Skype…it’s all so romantic! So why is it that when people […]

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“Spring is in the air.”
“It is.”
“We could just get in the car and start driving.”
“We could.”
“A road trip. To anywhere. It wouldn’t matter where.”
“We could.”

shutterstock_114034636-2But we wouldn’t. Not because we both wouldn’t want to, but because it would be stupid. One of us had to remember that. If he wouldn’t, I would. I owed him at least that much.