Tag: boys

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The latest tragedies, raw and painful, seem to be reflecting a similar thread: young men. Look at the age of the recent shooter at a Walmart in Texas (21 years old,) the killer in Dayton (24), the age of the boy being accused of the murder of the young co-ed at Ole Miss. Look at the ages of the boys on a murderous rampage across Canada, the Florida school shooting, the recent California shooting at the Garlic Festival, the Synagogue in Pittsburgh. They are all young men consumed with hate and vengeance, and armed to do as much damage as possible. They leave “manifestos,” they shout, “I’m angry!”, they cease to think and feel, or see their fellow human beings as part of their world.

The struggle to find blame is next. Social media, politics, violent video games, rampant porn and the new virile push of social engineering are playing a role. Young men begin as young boys, innocent, but are being influenced by all of these things, and their core personalities, their sense of self, is being corrupted, at younger and younger ages. I am not sympathizing with the killers, these acts are beyond despicable, but the patterns are showing these similarities.

The radical group Antifa, whose network now stretches across the continent to Europe, is composed of young men mostly, very angry, courting physical confrontation, and at the very least, intimidation and control. Young women have become more fearful and maybe rightly so. I have to think that the removal of boundaries, lack of consequences for actions, monitoring what is being taught in schools, what is accessible on the Internet, the decline of the family and faith, are now all bearing rotten fruit. The family and the Church have always been the armor before sending young people into the world to live their dream and find their purpose, and to sustain them going forward.

Recommended by Ricochet Members Created with Sketch. More Shootings, More Divorces, More Single Parent Homes

 

What if we are looking at this incorrectly? What if the number of shootings per year in the last 70 years is X and that corresponds to an average population of 250 million people. Now, we have 350 million people and so we should expect that X to be correspondingly larger in raw numbers — everything else being the same.

Now, here’s my question: what if the actual phenomenon correlates better with, rather than the total population, the population of single-parent homes or homes with children of divorced parents?

Promoted from the Ricochet Member Feed by Editors Created with Sketch. Raising Your Kids To Be Good Feminists

 

There is a proliferation of ridiculous memes today across the media (especially across social media), with people getting tetchy and defensive over all sort of things. This usually takes the form of either a 10-point list or a long-winded rebuttal to an argument that no one is making. I’m sure you’ve seen them, as practically anyone with any sort of idiosyncrasy feels compelled to “like” and “share” the moment they find something that hits close to home.

A year or so ago it was a series of things like, “10 things you didn’t know about introverts“, which was duly followed by “10 reasons why the world is biased against extroverts.” Right now I’m seeing, “The best things about raising a stubborn child,” “Raising Daughters: Why it only gets better!“, and “Why being raised in Minnesota is better” (logical conclusion from all of this: stubborn introverted Swedish girls from Minnesota are better than the rest? I prefer English chicks myself, though am descended from the former). These posts frequently have obligatory #hashtag callouts for some silly movement or another too — some irritating grab at “raising awareness” or self-identifying with yet another victim group.