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  1. OccupantCDN Coolidge

    I would disagree with your advice on the dating of the exotic dancer. Unless she openly lied about her occupation – I dont think not telling someone she’s dating about the dancing is wrong. She maybe ashamed of it, or she may have had experiences with men getting weird with her after telling them. She may have been holding back on that news until she knew how it would fly. Exotic dancers have to be some of the most lied too women in the world – she’s probably very cautious about whom she dates, and what she lets them in on. I would suggest he use the time before he goes to school to explore the possibilities with this girl, figure out if a real relationship is workable.

    I have lived my entire life cautiously. I had many opportunities to have relationships with girls, but mostly let them go because there was something wrong in my life I wanted to fix first – I struggled with depression of many years, and spotty employment caused by that… I always thought “I’ll get a stable job, get into a good headspace and start looking” – but I am now 50, the opportunities have gone. While I am glad I didn’t create a broken home or break someone’s heart. I regret that I didn’t try harder.

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    • July 18, 2019, at 1:16 PM PDT
  2. Arahant Member

    OccupantCDN (View Comment):
    but I am now 50, the opportunities have gone.

    I wouldn’t say that. 50 is not dead.

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    • July 19, 2019, at 9:13 AM PDT
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