Silver Linings

 

I am tired of rehashing all the things I am mad about. So I’d like to try something new: a positive post on all the great results of the Wuhan Virus lockdown. Here is my quickie list; feel free to quibble, condemn, or supplement!

1) A lot of marriages and families are stronger for spending real time together. Corollary results: 40% of parents say they are now more likely to homeschool (30% less-so). I have heard from many parents that they have gotten to know their kids much better, and are happier for it. The family is the core unit of Western Civilization, and our families have run a gauntlet. Adversity which does not kill us makes us stronger.

2) Many jobs are being done as well or better at home, reducing commercial rental costs for business, enhancing the “value add” of knowledge workers. This trickles down to less cost for goods and services over time, as well as higher quality of life for people who will spend less time commuting and who like their families.

3) Hopefully, we have a lot more skepticism about “science” and “experts” and the media going forward. This may, of course, be mere wishful thinking in my part.

4) Is it possible that we will emerge with more balanced perspectives about what is important? I do not mean “our health” — I mean our relationships.

Pile on!

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  1. Jimmy Carter Member
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    I’m driving 90 mph in the Right lane and getting passed (whoops).

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  2. Mendel Inactive
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    I’m thankful that the dog-and-pony show known as the US Presidential Election Process has withered away to near-obscurity for the time being.

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  3. MarciN Member
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    I too would list all of the happy side effects of the quarantine suggested in the original post.

    My daughter has been working at two jobs and her husband one very demanding job ever since their son was born nine years ago. These past two months, my daughter and son-in-law have been enjoying the time together as a little family immensely. I’ve said to my husband numerous times, “Kate and Matt may be the only happy people in America right now. They are really enjoying being home with their son.” :-)

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  4. Susan Quinn Contributor
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    I’d say I’ve learned a lot about the importance of reflecting on the role of fear in my life, due to health concerns and the virus, too. It’s amazing how easy it can be to succumb to fear. I’m determined to not let it get the better of me!

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  5. Limestone Cowboy Coolidge
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    iWe:

    I am tired of rehashing all the things I am mad about. So I’d like to try something new: a positive post on all the GREAT results of the Wuhan Virus lockdown. Here is my quickie list – feel

    3: Hopefully we have a lot more skepticism about “science” and “experts” and the media going forward. This may, of course, be mere wishful thinking in my part.

    @iWe , as a corollary to your third point, it would be an incredibly valuable consequence if scientists and experts gained some much needed humility and self-awareness about their own intellectual limitations in general, and of the limitations of computer models in particular. In my dream new world, no model or forecast would ever be used without discussions of basic assumptions, uncertainties, error bars, and track record of the forecast method or model.

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  6. Limestone Cowboy Coolidge
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    One other silver lining of the Wuhan pandemic. 

    I’m very hopeful that just as the HIV/AIDS crisis gave us a far greater understanding of anti-virals, this current pandemic will yield insights into coronavirus attack mechanisms, and RNA virus replication. Indeed, understanding the attack mechanism will help us engineer pharmaceuticals which target only a sick cells while leaving healthy cells alone.

    Without intent to sound cynical, this is another crisis we should not waste.

     

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  7. Phil Turmel Inactive
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    I hope that voters remember which government officials have a tyrannical streak and which ones were inclined to leave matters in our own hands (or local hands, as appropriate).

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  8. kidCoder Member
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    Phil Turmel (View Comment):
    I hope that voters remember which government officials have a tyrannical streak

    And countries.

    But so many people I know would give up everything for a little security. I don’t know how to reach those people.

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  9. Mendel Inactive
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    Limestone Cowboy (View Comment):
    @iWe , as a corollary to your third point, it would be an incredibly valuable consequence if scientists and experts gained some much needed humility and self-awareness about their own intellectual limitations in general, and of the limitations of computer models in particular. In my dream new world, no model or forecast would ever be used without discussions of basic assumptions, uncertainties, error bars, and track record of the forecast method or model.

    There’s a corollary here as well.

    The majority of scientists involved in some form of Covid research – I’d say at least 80% – are actually just as humble, self-aware, and open about their limitations as you would like. Some of them even to a fault.

    The problem is that nobody is interested in those scientists.

    The media want the scientists who will give them a strong opinion with an excessively high degree of confidence. “This virus could kill millions of Americans!” or “this virus is actually no more harmful than the flu!” both generate magnitudes more clicks than “our data is insufficient to make any prediction about how deadly this virus might really be.”

    Politicians want clear answers and suggestions to issues they know absolutely nothing about but need to react to immediately. So a politician will naturally gravitate toward the scientist who says “you need to lock everyone down now!” over the one who says “yes, the virus will spread more rapidly without lockdowns, but we still don’t know how bad the consequences of unchecked spread would be”.

    So of course, the 10% most irresponsible scientists get 90% of the public attention. That’s not to indemnify science, but just to say: it takes two to tango. The human nature underlying the public desire for certainty is at least as much to blame for overconfidence in shoddy science as are the scientists themselves.

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  10. GrannyDude Member
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    I agree, iWe. 

    I’ve got a colleague who says that he and his wife have been “attending church” with their three sons (19, 17 and 16) for the first time in years—the boys’ activities and jobs having been canceled and far fewer ways of evasion and escape, perhaps? Be that as it may, they will remember this time, and “church on the couch”  for the rest of their lives. 

     

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  11. Limestone Cowboy Coolidge
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    Mendel (View Comment):

    Limestone Cowboy (View Comment):
    @iWe , as a corollary to your third point, it would be an incredibly valuable consequence if scientists and experts gained some much needed humility and self-awareness about their own intellectual limitations in general, and of the limitations of computer models in particular. In my dream new world, no model or forecast would ever be used without discussions of basic assumptions, uncertainties, error bars, and track record of the forecast method or model.

    There’s a corollary here as well.

    The majority of scientists involved in some form of Covid research – I’d say at least 80% – are actually just as humble, self-aware, and open about their limitations as you would like. Some of them even to a fault.

    The problem is that nobody is interested in those scientists.

    The media want the scientists who will give them a strong opinion with an excessively high degree of confidence. “This virus could kill millions of Americans!” or “this virus is actually no more harmful than the flu!” both generate magnitudes more clicks than “our data is insufficient to make any prediction about how deadly this virus might really be.”

    Politicians want clear answers and suggestions to issues they know absolutely nothing about but need to react to immediately. So a politician will naturally gravitate toward the scientist who says “you need to lock everyone down now!” over the one who says “yes, the virus will spread more rapidly without lockdowns, but we still don’t know how bad the consequences of unchecked spread would be”.

    So of course, the 10% most irresponsible scientists get 90% of the public attention. That’s not to indemnify science, but just to say: it takes two to tango. The human nature underlying the public desire for certainty is at least as much to blame for overconfidence in shoddy science as are the scientists themselves.

    There’s a scary lot of truth in what you say about the culpability of politicians and media (andt he general public) for their appetite for simple and sensational sound bites and click bait. Unfortunately you may be correct about the limited audience for thoughtful and sober scientists.

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  12. E. Kent Golding Moderator
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    My family is not handling this well.  There is damage to the relationships that is going to take some time to heal.

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  13. sawatdeeka Member
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    Thank you for this, iWe.  These current events certainly brought my family together. It was also wonderful to see how the little private school I work for is handling the campus shutdown with such grace and leadership.  Also, many of the parents we surveyed commented that they are savoring this time with their children. 

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  14. iWe Coolidge
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    E. Kent Golding (View Comment):

    My family is not handling this well. There is damage to the relationships that is going to take some time to heal.

    I am very sorry to hear it.

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  15. Henry Racette Member
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    And regarding what’s important: of the many things that may not bounce back from this, I wonder if trivial and contrived causes might be among them. I’m thinking of global warming, gender-identity nonsense, etc.

    Let’s see if we emerge with a new sense of what isn’t a crisis.

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  16. Headedwest Coolidge
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    Phil Turmel (View Comment):

    I hope that voters remember which government officials have a tyrannical streak and which ones were inclined to leave matters in our own hands (or local hands, as appropriate).

    Interestingly, in Texas the governor and attorney general acted to rein in some local officials that were getting too big for their britches.  

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  17. RushBabe49 Thatcher
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    One of the huge benefits that should carry on is the obsession with cleanliness, especially in medical-care institutions.  It is well-known that even the most prominent institutions, including teaching hospitals, have a low-grade problem with hospital-originated infections. It is also well-known that long-term-care nursing homes have a big problem with infection control.  Even doctors everywhere often resist hand-washing.  After this, I think we can expect a lower level of infections in all health-care settings, from hospitals to nursing homes, to neighborhood clinics, based on all personnel developing better hand-washing habits.

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  18. Lois Lane Coolidge
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    Henry Racette (View Comment):

    And regarding what’s important: of the many things that may not bounce back from this, I wonder if trivial and contrived causes might be among them. I’m thinking of global warming, gender-identity nonsense, etc.

    Let’s see if we emerge with a new sense of what isn’t a crisis.

    Unfortunately, some people use the virus itself to highlight those things… as if a virus has some form of conscious bias.  But it would be nice if those things died.  

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  19. Lois Lane Coolidge
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    E. Kent Golding (View Comment):

    My family is not handling this well. There is damage to the relationships that is going to take some time to heal.

    I’m sorry as well.  

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  20. Lois Lane Coolidge
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    I can’t say that I see a lot of silver linings, but I definitely appreciate the “normal” days that existed before mid-March a heckuva lot more than I did before….  It’s always good to understand how good you had it.     

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  21. Ansonia Member
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    My daughter and son in law have two children and wanted at least one more. They had, I think, kind of resigned themselves to accepting that it wasn’t to be.

    Found out yesterday they’re expecting a baby in December !!!

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  22. Stad Coolidge
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    Jimmy Carter (View Comment):

    I’m driving 90 mph in the Right lane and getting passed (whoops).

    At least you’re observing the rule “slow drivers keep right” . . .

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  23. Charles Mark Member
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    Maybe the callous treatment of the elderly and vulnerable in nursing homes and care facilities will slow down the growing push for euthanasia, here in Ireland and elsewhere. 

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  24. Saint Augustine Member
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    Maybe some of the healthcare deregulation will stick.

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  25. Charlotte Member
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    I have really upped my cooking game. There have been some delicious meals at our house in the past two months.

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  26. She Member
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    iWe: Hopefully, we have a lot more skepticism about “science” and “experts” and the media going forward.

    I hope so.  People keep using that word “science.”  I do not think it means what many of them think it means.

    I’ve always thought that “science” was furthered, and advanced, by the skeptics. And by people willing to (in some cases, literally) stick their neck out and go against the grain.  And say things like:  No, you’re wrong.  The earth does revolve around the sun, and not the other way round.  Sometimes, it took hundreds of years, and a great many people (some of whom came to unpleasant ends, or lived miserable lives as a result of their unpopular views) to prove this, but, by gum, they kept trying until they did.  Because, science.

    Apparently, we learned nothing from their experiences and haven’t benefited much from their hard-won victories.

    Because now, “science” just seems to be something that aligns with a political agenda and is delivered to us by talking heads and politicians.  And every time we are told what the science of a particular situation is (climate change, coronavirus, etc.), we are expected to do what we’re told, in the interests of “the science.” (Especially if it’s “settled science.”  That’s like using a “Z” tile in both directions at once and scoring double points in Scrabble.)  And anyone who doesn’t fall into line, or who says different at the time is a “science denier.”  Just like the sixteenth century.

    Until three weeks later, when we suddenly find ourselves all wearing masks.  The “science deniers” of three weeks ago are today’s purveyors of the settled science.  Just do it. And forget we ever said different. 

    Next week, who can say what the “science” will be?  But as long as we follow it, with no questions asked when we’re told what it is, I’m sure we’ll be just fine.

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  27. Brian Clendinen Inactive
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    I hope that the plastic bag ban will now be done with.

    I hope conservatives will see the major need to get on the books, personal  financial liability and even felony convictions for blatant disregard of the law (aka constitutions) by elected officials and bureaucratic. Or at lest curb executive powers and have quick checks that nip powers grabs with-in days. We need way more checks and balances. They are the only privileged class that can knowingly and blatantly break the law the highest laws of the land, be found guilty and the worse that happens is they get voted out. Why having robust checks and balance is not number one on ever conservatives policy agenda, I don’t know ( I guess it geeky and technical and not easy to understand sound policy). However it sure was number one, with the founders.

    I agree with Homeschooling. That might be the best long term change to happen in our nation.I think you will see a massive surge. Homeschooling is the only large mainstream movement that actually is making a long term difference in our nation. Letting other raise/teach your kids is the reason we are in the state we are right now. You want kids that follow your political and religious/Moral beliefs as Adults, be the primary person who teaches them.

    Spending less time in my car and almost no traffic in the morning are also nice.

    When every one is tested you see their real character. I am happy to see there are lots of stanch Democratic voters, who are closer to being classic liberal in their belief than your average elected Republican. Its sad to see we have almost no classic liberal in office.

    Also its not good, but this shined a big light on one major weakness. I did not realize how vapid and shallow most American Church leaders are. They care more about there little fiefdoms, and kingdoms they have built than actually practicing Christianity. Either they don’t know scripture, and church history, or they care more about what other think, than living a Christian life.  They are actually not willing to pay a relative small cost to obey scripture compared to Christians (and Jews) of the past. I guess I did not realize how prevalently shallow we were in American church leadership.

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  28. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Some good things that come to my mind are:

    1. No more drag queen story time at the local libraries since they have been closed, and as far as I know, they haven’t added any more letters to the “new genders” lately, since all the talk has been on COVID-19.
    2. I echo others here who have stated better hygiene conditions at all hospitals, and also they have had to dust off the pandemic emergency protocols that have sat on their shelves for years.  The governors and feds also, and revise and modernize.
    3. The working from home thing is a plus for my sister who works in state government. She has a lot less stress, and has been more productive – even getting accolades from her boss instead of being called on the carpet for forgetting to cross a T or dot an I. They are sending out surveys to gauge how the return will affect everyone, and asking questions as to who would like to work more from home or less.  Some single people actually prefer the work environment as a social function.  Since they use the court system, they will have to eventually return for some things.
    4. The hard look at China by all countries, especially US and our dependence, our trade, safety and so many other issues.  This is a biggie. Communists only have one goal.
    5. The virtual church thing has been wonderful. I have been a lousy attendee and I have made a commitment to reconciling that. It has given me a chance to “attend” where I thought I would return (but after experiencing the virtual, have solidly decided to put my devotion in another church / direction).  My sister who is in another state has also shared her church’s website and I love it.  It’s like we are attending together. It’s a small country town, but this minister is so good – he really knows his stuff. Reading his bio, he has quite an impressive background and his parents worked in Intel for gov. You never know!
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  29. Kay Ludlow Inactive
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    Love this post – here are some of the silver linings I’ve seen:

    1. My husband’s family has instituted a weekly Zoom meeting and we’ve been doing much more FaceTime with family in general. It’s been great to connect with the aunts, uncles and cousins whom we would ordinarily only get to see at weddings and graduations. I look forward to having more virtual reunions even when things get back to “normal.”
    2. Likewise we’ve spent so much more time catching up with friends who live far away. My husband and I have moved several times and each move it feels harder to make new friends, so it’s nice to remember that we actually DO have friends.
    3. Thanks to the daycare closures, we’ve spent the last two months watching our daughter learn to use a fork and spoon, begin to use sign language to communicate with us, and get ready to learn to walk.
    4. Also thanks to the daycare closures, I’ve learned how to prioritize my work tasks and how to actually say “no.”

    Some of my hopes for the future:

    1. More people choose homeschooling or even just that more parents will opt for a simpler life that allows one parent to stay home.
    2. More flexibility for working remotely or staggering work schedules to lessen time commuting.
    3. Greater productivity in the office when the workforce does return to the office, but I hope especially that with this newly gained time, instead of working the same hours as always we go home to our families earlier, spend the time improving our communities, go outside to exercise, etc.
    4. Greater perspective about what’s really important.
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  30. Front Seat Cat Member
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    Kay Ludlow (View Comment):

    Love this post – here are some of the silver linings I’ve seen:

    1. My husband’s family has instituted a weekly Zoom meeting and we’ve been doing much more FaceTime with family in general. It’s been great to connect with the aunts, uncles and cousins whom we would ordinarily only get to see at weddings and graduations. I look forward to having more virtual reunions even when things get back to “normal.”
    2. Likewise we’ve spent so much more time catching up with friends who live far away. My husband and I have moved several times and each move it feels harder to make new friends, so it’s nice to remember that we actually DO have friends.
    3. Thanks to the daycare closures, we’ve spent the last two months watching our daughter learn to use a fork and spoon, begin to use sign language to communicate with us, and get ready to learn to walk.
    4. Also thanks to the daycare closures, I’ve learned how to prioritize my work tasks and how to actually say “no.”

    Some of my hopes for the future:

    1. More people choose homeschooling or even just that more parents will opt for a simpler life that allows one parent to stay home.
    2. More flexibility for working remotely or staggering work schedules to lessen time commuting.
    3. Greater productivity in the office when the workforce does return to the office, but I hope especially that with this newly gained time, instead of working the same hours as always we go home to our families earlier, spend the time improving our communities, go outside to exercise, etc.
    4. Greater perspective about what’s really important.

    Beautifully said!

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