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I think I’ll have this, just to annoy those who hate it:
How in the world can anyone HATE this song!!??
At some point I’ll want this one:
And this one:
The one song I have specified I want played at my funeral is “All my tears washed away” by Emmylou Harris.
Some have heard it too often.
We definitely need Bach’s Toccata and Fugue in D Minor for my husband’s funeral. He’s been practicing it for the last year, although he won’t be there to play it. I think he also wanted the promenade from Pictures at an Exhibition. Things change. Should probably get an update.
I would like How Great Thou Art and Go Silent Friend (which is sung to the same tune as Danny Boy). I’ve already told my kids I want mourning and weeping – none of this celebration stuff. This hymn ought to do it.
Go, silent friend,
your life has found its ending;
To dust returns your weary mortal frame.
God, who before birth called you into being,
Now calls you hence, his ascent still the same.
Go, silent friend,
your life in Christ is buried;
For you he lived and died and rose again.
Close by his side your promised place is waiting
Where, fully known, you shall with God remain.
Go, silent friend,
forgive us if we grieved you;
Safe now in heaven, kindly say our name.
your life has touched us, that is why we mourn you;
Our lives without you cannot be the same.
Go, silent friend,
we do not grudge you glory;
Sing, sing with joy deep praises to your Lord.
You, who believed that Christ would come back for you,
Now celebrate that Jesus keeps his word.
I love Eliza R. Snow! At Mitchell (maiden name) funerals, we usually use “O, My Father” . Although, “Though Deep’ning Trials” seems more appropriate for mine. What is your favorite hymn?
For a funeral in our church, the only music allowed is sacred music. My mother only asked for one hymn in particular and like most Episcopal hymns it doesn’t really have a title, just the first phrase of the song: “The Strife is O’er, The Battle Done.”
I tried to find a good choir recording of it to attach here, but in vain. It is a beautiful hymn.
In the Presbyterian Hymnal (Pilgrim Hymnal) of 1980, it’s #181, written by William H. Monk, with the title “Alleluia! The Strife is O’er.” There is a special Alleluia before the main words. In the 1935 Methodist Hymnal, it’s #156 with the Tune Title of “Victory, 8. 8. 8. 4. with Alleluias.”
Nice hymn, by the way.
Well, I would have to give it more thought, but the one hymn that comes to mind for my funeral would be Precious Lord, Take My Hand.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIOrKd9puMI
My mom had Come, Thou Fount of Ev’ry Blessing, How Great Thou Art, O, My Father, and one called As Sisters in Zion/We’ll Bring the World His Truth, at hers. I would consider Via Dolorosa or Watch the Lamb at mine. Another favorite is Precious Savior.
The final movement in Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony (the introduction followed by the choral Ode to Joy).
I loved this and used to listen to it after a hard day to calm myself down.
Then, one day when we were taking out 15 year old Brittany to the vet for what was to be surely his last trip, it came on the car radio. I can’t hear it these days with tearing up and thinking of “Bandit”, the ultimate “go dog”
I might ask for it at my funeral.
I’ve sometimes joked that I’ll make them play “Born to be Stupid” by Yankovich at my funeral. I’d like to see the worship team try that one on for size.
But seriously, I’d like “Come Thou Fount” because it’s a prayer, and Gershwin’s “Lullaby for Strings” because I’m looking forward to a nice refreshing nap, and to where I’ll stand when I arise.
Maybe this, too:
How’s this from the National Cathedral?
I love Pavane!
I’ve told my family that whatever they want to do for my funeral is fine; it is for them, not for me. But if there is a church service and they are looking for music, I would want Schubert’s Ave Maria sung. A funeral staple, I know, but surely one of the most beautiful and comforting pieces of music ever written.
That is a really lovely message in this hymn. I’m pretty sure that my husband’s funeral won’t be in a church, but perhaps in a community gathering place. He’s not very religious. However, acoustic guitar music, and certain songs that are not hymns are permitted in our chapels, so I’m confident that I can have my children perform The Far Side of Jordan.
“Come Thou Fount” is also a lovely, terrific hymn! See, I need to just create a play list and maybe when people come to visit my resting place in the cemetery, their presence will turn on a song to play while they’re standing there. …new tech headstone?
AP of course. Which carries the best line of any song ever. “I know that I don’t know what I’m asking.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcSNF9gRVCg
I could never begin to choose just one favorite hymn!! And, since I was the default organist for many years as we moved about the country, some hymns are favorites to play, and some are favorites to sing!
I’m always happy to sing:
Battle Hymn of the Republic
The Spirit of God
In Remembrance of Thy Suffering
Some I LOVE to play:
All Creatures of Our God and King
A Mighty Fortress is Our God
For All the Saints
Cast Thy Burden Upon the Lord
And a couple I love to sing and play:
Press Forward Saints
Christ the Lord is Risen Today
Angels We Have Heard on High
Okay this could go on forever!! I love church music. I love music. I have limited skills, but I have several children with excellent, unbelievable skills, and that is one of the sorrows of having them all grow up and become self-sufficient adults.
Our choir did a beautiful version of I Stand All Amazed on Sunday. I was in tears. The Restoration hymns all make me cry. I served my mission in the New York, Rochester area back in the mid-90s. (Palmyra, Fayette)
If I die around Christmas, I want John Rutter’s Candlelight Carol sung at my funeral.
At my mom’s funeral, all of the youth aged grandchildren sang the EFY medley. I’d love to post that here.
A pavane is a type of musical piece with a dactylic rhythm. That piece by Susato is “The War.” Here is a newer and more famous pavane:
Thank you!
Cello players who are regretting their choice of instrument.
I’ve been thinking that “Be Thou My Vision” would be about right.
I especially like the last verse:
Oh high king of heaven, when battle is done
Grant heaven’s joy to me, bright heaven sun
Christ of my own heart, whatever befall
Still be my vision, thou ruler of all
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xV1mZ1BjKa8
They are still doing this routine, saw them in Boise this summer.