We live in chaotic times when the political world is falling apart. People are angry, discouraged, and outraged; many are throwing up their hands and are depressed that we have reached this state of disharmony and vitriol.
Several weeks ago I wrote about my own despondency in being surrounded by evil acts and evil people. I had people concerned about my mental wellbeing, which deeply moved me. I felt I had an obligation to find a way to experience my life as I wished to know it, in spite of giving in to the ugliness around me. I thought you might find my discoveries helpful:
- I will not let others manipulate my value system or pressure me to change my beliefs.
- I will live with the paradox that I am surrounded by viciousness and it will not destroy my resilience and generally positive attitude.
- I will not hide from or avoid the decline of civil behavior but will condemn those who insist on indulging in it and spreading it.
- I will remind myself every day that the war is not over, and I will fight, but I will retain my honor and dignity while speaking out against the despicable behavior of others.
- I will wake up every day and recognize how blessed I am to live in a free country protected by men and women of honor, and established with the wisdom of our Founders who knew that we would all be challenged with adversity.
- I will celebrate that I live in more affluence and with more opportunity than I could ever have imagined.
- I will appreciate the dear family, friends, and colleagues who are willing to fight these battles with me and encourage me to stand tall.
I will work to influence my own little universe by speaking truth to power, encouraging others to hold on to hope, and set the best example that I will never give up, no matter how dark the future looks. I will use these times to strengthen my resilience, to challenge our adversaries and to cheer on others who are disheartened and flagging in strength. I am choosing to see the upcoming days, months and years as a chance to grow. I’m prepared to meet the enemy head-on.
More lemons, please.