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Gender Identity and Blood Donation
I am a long-time regular blood donor to the American Red Cross. I’ve always found it an easy way to “give back” to my community. Being tall, giving a pint is easy for me to do. I also used to enjoy the post-donation treats, but my revised way of eating has placed those snacks off-limits.
On my most recent visit, I had taken the “RapidPass” online, where one answers 30 or so questions on one’s lifestyle choices and how they may impact what I’m about to donate. I’m thinking with that out of the way, starting my donation should be quick. I sit down with my American Red Cross assistant interview, and he begins;
“How do you wish to identify? He or she?”
“Wait … what?”
“Please let me know which pronoun I should use for the rest of your time here.”
“Your excellency isn’t a pronoun, is it?”
Dead, humorless eyes stare back. He (er, I presume he) simply waits for me to give him an answer.
“I have the same set between my legs I had on my last visit.” Sigh. “He.”
This interaction leaves a bitter taste in my mouth. The tiny minority of people with gender dysphoria are now “wagging the tail” where it matters. That people whom are pathologically obsessed with demanding that reality and language “bend the knee” to their delusional fiction is one thing. That the American Red Cross is willing to indulge and enable their pathology is simply wrong.
Oh, and that blood from people whom call apples bananas is now in the health system. Lord knows how well they’ve wrongly answered the otherwise straightforward questions they’ve answered to satisfy an agenda of their own making.
@Skyler suggests that the ARC doesn’t need my blood. It may be time to find another donation service, or stop altogether. I am persuaded. If so, however, I do wish to continue donating, but to whom?
Thoughts?
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What’s the problem? Everywhere I go they already got it – it’s “Sir”.
Maybe it’s the beard.
However popular this pronoun preference piffle becomes, it’s clear nonsense to the vast majority of people 30 and above. If the Red Cross wants to alienate their donors that is their prerogative.
For the record, I identify as a turnip.
The International Red Cross does not let the Israeli Magen David Adom (red star of David) be part of their organization because that name signifies a religious affiliation. In spite of the fact that they like the Red Crescent of Moslem countries just fine.
For these and other anti-Israel and anti-Semitic offenses, my response to the IRC is CoC compliant by omission.
There certainly are Skid Marks.
Does that answer your question?
Next, you folks will tell me that the ARC blood I’ve been donating all these years winds up in the morning milk/blood bowls of the Illuminati, or something.
Corporate hands down a directive. The poor schlumps actually handling the donations have to deal with it. Don’t take it out on them. I’m fairly confident the majority of them rolled their eyes, massively, when it became part of their standard question set.
If I self-identify as a “she”, does that mean I now have to have an annual gyn exam?
Yes, you do. Your bits are now women’s bits.
Careful Stad, I don’t think you are going the whether the nether exam very well.
On the NR Cruise this December, I think I’ll self-identify as “Coorsgender” instead of cisgender . . .
I am type O+, but the problem is some of my erythocytes identify as AB-, and a few identify as Zeta Prime Blue. Can you separate those?
My mother always said that about the red cross based on a cousin that was in Korea.
Why does anyone need to use a pronoun other than “you” or “your” when addressing you, unless they are talking about you behind your back? Why the need to even ask?
Yes, very much so. But, for the curious, here’s a fellow that enjoins you to ignore the penis between his legs, well, just because.
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/andy-wilkins/dear-red-cross-i-am-not-a_b_6995296.html
Here’s some “guidance” for the addled:
Phew! Gotta clean the sweat off of my keyboard.
For self-identification, “I am Locutis of Borg!” just might get their attention. If not, just follow up with “You will all be assimilated! Resistance is futile!”
“Using the right pronouns is hard” – Reminds me of the Math is Hard Barbie doll.
Are you sure it wasn’t a Ken doll self-identifying as Barbie?
That reminds me of an ‘activist’ attack; shortly before Christmas some people purchased a bunch of Barbies and GI Joes of the 12″ variety, switched their voice boxes and took them back to the stores. Part of me feels bad for the kids that got sabotaged toys, but I still smile to think of Joe saying, ‘math is hard,’ and Barbie yelling, ‘eat lead, Cobra!’
I donate platelets and plasma about once a month. When I donated on Sunday I got the “Please verify your gender” thing for the first time. The nurse seemed embarrassed to ask, but that’s where we are now. The hospital in my area gets its blood from the Red Cross, so I have no alternative place to donate. It takes about two hours with needles in both arms; a bit uncomfortable keeping my arms still the whole time. But it’s the only time I get to watch a movie the whole way through. And the bottom line is that there are people who need it.
It just occurred to me that the way to stop this is to say, “Well, let’s see!” Then stand up and start to unzip your pants. If that happened enough times, I think this would stop. The best way to fight nonsense is with bigger nonsense.
This one is not for the faint of heart:
Red Cross Volunteer: “How do you self-identify?”
Donor: “I am the Angel of the Bottomless Pit,”
“The Wrath of the Lamb,”
“The Fool for Christ,”
“And the Paraclete of Caborca!”
At this point, they might not want your blood. But on the bright side, just think of the expedited access you’ll have to Mental Health Services.
(Brownie points to anyone who knows which movie I stole this from-without using google, Wikipedia, or IMDB🙂)
My nonsense is bigger than yours.
On the one hand, it’s crazy enough, it might just work.
But then again, my optimism fades. The crowd confused by apples and bananas are also confused by their very own groin, as is, apparently, the ARC, and, as is this lady.
Check with your local hospital. Most of them have a department called “donor services” or somesuch. They’re professionals and they use it directly. No service fees or other immoral crap.
And I’m glad you are not bending to the Evil Empire.
I have become aware of that through several threads. Carry on. You’re doing a fine job.
I recently had a “transmale” patient.
“He” had a classic UTI just like a woman.
Who’d a thunk it?
I’ve contacted the ARC to let them know my concern. “We’re following FDA guidelines.” I see, show me the published guidelines, and they have:
My head is spinning. I’m hoping I’m misreading this. People whom suffer gender dysphoria should “self-identify” their “gender.” Isn’t that like asking the escaped dementia patient where he was coming from?
Please tell me I’m wrong.
Welcome to the wonderful world of modern healthcare.