Contributor Post Created with Sketch. An Unexpected Gift

 

41nGNc2G5WL[1]“Here, take it. It’s for you.” Mr. Mandelbaum pressed a book into my hands. Mr. Mandelbaum was a fixture in the synagogue. Sweet, mild-mannered, and a little stooped, the nonagenarian widower still lived independently and attended daily services, morning and afternoon. As a teenager, I had little reason to interact with him, and saw him only on Shabbat. The gift was completely unexpected; it took me a moment to process the situation and thank him.

The book was a treatise on illuminated Hebrew manuscripts, with vivid color reproductions. Mr. Mandelbaum had inscribed it to me in his aged, shaky block writing: “In memory of your grandparents wo [sic] were my good friends.” He had misspelled my name. Also, Mr. Mandelbaum’s use of the past tense didn’t make sense; he and my grandmother were still alive. Perhaps, I thought, the errors could be attributed to a bit of senility. I was touched by the gift nonetheless.

About a month later, Mr. Mandelbaum died.

My family learned the rest of the story from Jerry, whose family had adopted Mr. Mandelbaum, the latter having no local relatives; Jerry accompanied him to synagogue each day. Mr. Mandelbaum had a passion for books, and was an avid collector all his life. A few months before his death, he called Jerry, and said that — at his age — he didn’t need all those books any more. He asked for Jerry’s help to give them away. Mr. Mandelbaum began to methodically select a recipient for each item in his collection.

A few months later, the project was complete. On the night that he gave away his last book, Mr. Mandelbaum called Jerry. “I’m bored, and I’ve got nothing to read. Do you think you could lend me something?” Jerry laughed and said he’d be right over. He arrived to discover that Mr. Mandelbaum had passed away, just after hanging up the phone.

I’m not particularly interested in illuminated Hebrew manuscripts and I was not particularly close to Mr. Mandelbaum in life. Yet his book is among my most prized gifts. Perhaps, when the time is right, I’ll find someone younger who will enjoy it as I have.

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  1. Profile Photo Member

    Floored. This is the stuff that has me coming back to Ricochet. Simple stories of life. There is truth that often mixes the happy with the poignant. I learn something special.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:28 AM PST
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  2. Profile Photo Member

    I was wondering of the word on the book. Is that the Greek word for G-d?

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:32 AM PST
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  3. Son of Spengler Contributor
    Son of Spengler

    The cover image is from a frontispiece to Deuteronomy. It’s the Hebrew word for “these” (“These are the words….”). But you have a good eye. The word’s first two letters by themselves would spell “el”, which could mean either “god” or “God”.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:39 AM PST
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  4. MarciN Member

    This is a beautiful story.

    I love books that have belonged to friends and family. When I hold a book in my hands that someone else has read and loved, it’s as if that person is right there, as if he or she has left a bit of himself or herself in that book.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:42 AM PST
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  5. MarciN Member

    Son of Spengler:The cover image is from a frontispiece to Deuteronomy. It’s the Hebrew word for “these” (“These are the words….”). But you have a good eye. The word’s first two letters by themselves would spell “el”, which could mean either “god” or “God”.

    You’ll be answering questions all day today about that beautiful book. :) Hope you have lots of coffee.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:43 AM PST
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  6. iWe Reagan
    iWe Joined in the first year of Ricochet Ricochet Charter Member

    Lovely

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:48 AM PST
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  7. Profile Photo Member

    Son of Spengler:The cover image is from a frontispiece to Deuteronomy. It’s the Hebrew word for “these” (“These are the words….”). But you have a good eye. The word’s first two letters by themselves would spell “el”, which could mean either “god” or “God”.

    Do you “swear” by this translation?

    Thank you for the help. I almost thought it was an “al” instead of an “el” but my Spanish is not very good.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:54 AM PST
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  8. Tom Meyer, Common Citizen Contributor

    That’s a fantastic story.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 5:39 AM PST
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  9. Profile Photo Member

    This post is a gift, too, SoS! When someone gives me a much-loved volume, I feel that they want to be with me daily. My favorite Bible is such a gift – from my Mom. I sometimes can hear her reading passages when I’m looking at them. My own life of faith is an outgrowth of hers. (Maybe I’m going a little soft in the head, since she’s still here, too.) <smile>

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:02 AM PST
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  10. Pencilvania Inactive

    Wonderful! Think of how many people Mr. Mandelbaum surprised and touched with his simple gifts, and now all of us know about it too.

    The cover art is radiant. Do you know if it would have been painted in Europe, in the Middle Ages or so? Looks like it could be of the same era as Christian monastic illuminated manuscripts.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:11 AM PST
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  11. Percival Thatcher
    Percival Joined in the first year of Ricochet Ricochet Charter Member

    Great story, SoS.

    Once my aunt noticed twelve-year-old me bidding on a box of old books at an auction. The bidding got too rich for my meager resources so I dropped out. Without drawing my attention, she jumped in at that point and on our way home presented me with the box.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:19 AM PST
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  12. Son of Spengler Contributor
    Son of Spengler

    Pencilvania: The cover art is radiant. Do you know if it would have been painted in Europe, in the Middle Ages or so? Looks like it could be of the same era as Christian monastic illuminated manuscripts.

    It’s from Southern Germany, early fourteenth century.

    Written on fine vellum, this manuscript at one time belonged to the Duke of Sussex. Its vibrant colors of blue, purple, red, yellow, and green and the expressive grotesqueries resemble the style of the artists who worked on such south German manuscripts as the 1310 Aich Bible…. The architectural background is an adaptation of large-scale churches in Germany with a stepped-in brick gable above the nave. The lancet windows are handled in a fanciful way. Below the Hebrew word is a six-pointed star in gold, surrounded by animal grotesques, and within the red roundel in the center of the star is an elephant (probably modeled after a depiction in a Bestiary). The six-pointed star (Magen David–the shield of David, but also known as the Seal of Solomon in the Middle Ages) is a symbol now linked almost exclusively with Judaism and Zionism. In the Middle Ages, however, the Magen David had little intrinsic Jewish significance, but was known and used as a magical symbol in both Christianity and Islam.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:21 AM PST
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  13. MarciN Member

    10 cents:Floored. This is the stuff that has me coming back to Ricochet. Simple stories of life. There is truth that is often mixes the happy with the poignant. I learn something special.

    Dime, you will turn us into a warm fuzzy place. The Democrats will be shocked, shocked! :)

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:33 AM PST
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  14. Profile Photo Member

    Marci, Dime’s already fuzzy – not enough fabric softener…

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:39 AM PST
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  15. Pencilvania Inactive

    I keep telling him to clean out the lint trap . . . .

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:41 AM PST
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  16. Profile Photo Member

    Beautiful story, thank you so much for sharing this with us.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:47 AM PST
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  17. Vicryl Contessa Thatcher

    How incredibly sweet. It’s often small, unexpected gestures that are the most meaningful.

    Dime, you’ve turned positively chenille on us.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 7:09 AM PST
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  18. Sandy Member

    MarciN:

    10 cents:Floored. This is the stuff that has me coming back to Ricochet. Simple stories of life. There is truth that is often mixes the happy with the poignant. I learn something special.

    Dime, you will turn us into a warm fuzzy place. The Democrats will be shocked, shocked! :)

    Yes, and I’ll take all the warm fuzzies I can get (though I do appreciate the occasional dousing with cold water).

    Thanks, SoS.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 7:13 AM PST
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  19. Hartmann von Aue Member

    This is a delightful story, SOS! Thanks for sharing it with us. Ha kodesch baruch hu!

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    • December 9, 2014, at 7:57 AM PST
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  20. donald todd Inactive

    One might hope to meet Mr. Mandelbaum in a better place and perhaps be instructed on illuminated Hebrew manuscripts, filling in a few more of the blank spaces which one finds in one’s learning.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 8:14 AM PST
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  21. She Reagan
    She Joined in the first year of Ricochet Ricochet Charter Member

    One of the best posts ever!

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    • December 9, 2014, at 8:20 AM PST
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  22. Son of Spengler Contributor
    Son of Spengler

    She:One of the best posts ever!

    You’re too kind.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 8:38 AM PST
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  23. Boomerang Inactive

    A gift that doesn’t quite make sense, quirky, unexpected. Those are sometimes the very best kind.

    My favorite nonagenarian (thank you for that word) is also quirky and doesn’t always make sense, but she is the very best kind of person. I try to hang out with her as much as possible, hoping through osmosis I can become a little more like her.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 9:10 AM PST
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  24. Son of Spengler Contributor
    Son of Spengler

    BTW, thanks Dime for the inspiration. I had never thought to share this story with my wife and children until you prompted me to write about gifts.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 11:38 AM PST
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  25. Kay of MT Member

    I have 4 copies of beautifully illustrated manuscripts that my mother brought back from Israel in 1960. Two of them are framed and I cannot read the printing at the bottom. I was told that one of them was a “Ketubah” a Jewish marriage contract.

    The two unframed are: Job, “Rothschild MS24” 1475, Bezalel Museum, Jerusalem. And: Book of Esther, 1730, Bezalel Museum, Jerusalem.

    I’m pretty sure all were purchased from the same Bezalel Museum.

    Thank you SoS. I have a similar story about a couple of books of poems, loaned to me in the 1980s, but the dear soul died shortly after loaning me the books with no relatives to return them. “The Sentimental Bloke” by C.J. Dennis, published 1916 in Sydney Australia. And a follow up book, Doreen in 1917.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 1:39 PM PST
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  26. Jules PA Member

    Oh. My. Heart.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 3:28 PM PST
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  27. Profile Photo Member

    SoS,

    Thank you for your warm thoughts. My thoughts are sometimes a dime makes a difference. A nudge is enough at times. It is surprising what big things can be started and opened with a little key.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:23 PM PST
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  28. Mike Rapkoch Moderator

    Thank you SoS. What better gift to us than the story of a gift. Not only does such a story move our hearts. It also brings back memories of those special gifts we have received–and given.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 4:44 PM PST
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  29. Jim Chase Member
    Jim Chase Joined in the first year of Ricochet Ricochet Charter Member

    I still want the ability to Like posts. Great post!

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    • December 9, 2014, at 5:52 PM PST
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  30. AUMom Member
    AUMom Joined in the first year of Ricochet Ricochet Charter Member

    Ah, SoS, you have given us two gifts. The first is your beautifully told story and picture. The second is the desire to share. Thank you.

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    • December 9, 2014, at 6:37 PM PST
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