Boys and Men

 

imageEight years ago, as the fifth anniversary of the 9/11 attacks approached, a small item in the New York Jewish Week caught my attention. A Bronx synagogue was dedicating a new Torah scroll. This is a big deal for a synagogue — a Torah scroll takes years to write, and costs tens of thousands of dollars — and this synagogue was hosting a large celebration, as is the custom. What caught my attention, though, is that this Torah scroll was being dedicated in memory of someone with a familiar name.

I went to Jewish summer camp with a kid named Andrew Zucker. But the Andrew Zucker I knew as a teen was fat and self-indulgent — and the Andrew Zucker in the article, a lawyer whose office was on the 85th floor of Tower Two, was a disciplined volunteer firefighter. The Andrew Zucker I knew from camp was a selfish little brat — whereas the Andrew Zucker in the article had given his life in the course of helping his colleagues, some disabled, get out safely. His firm had conducted an investigation and seven people credited Andrew with saving their lives.

All of the particulars lined up, though. I didn’t know the adult Andrew Zucker, but the two were one and the same.

At the time of the 9/11 attacks, Andrew’s wife was pregnant with a son. Today, that boy is about the age I was when Andrew and I were at summer camp together. If my math is right, his bar mitzvah is approaching, when he will read from the Torah scroll for the first time. I expect it will be the scroll dedicated to his father’s memory.

Others can, and have, written better tributes to Andrew Zucker than I ever could. He was apparently a passionate advocate, and we can only imagine what he would have accomplished had his life not been cut short. His is a remarkable example of heroism and self-sacrifice. But for me, his memory carries that personal something extra: I am deeply humbled too, by the power of growth and change. Whether it was Andrew or me who changed, I’m no longer sure.

Image Credit: Newsday.

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  1. She Member
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    Lovely post and tribute, thank you.  I wonder, if you count up the number of people who knew someone whose life ended on that awful day, how many hundreds of thousands you would find.

    Ken Waldie. http://www.forukenny.com/ (links still not working for me).

    Bethel Park High School, 1973.

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  2. EThompson Member
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    I’d like to acknowledge the 3,000 people comprised of rescue workers and just plain civilians I did not know.  The 19 hijackers responsible for this are, of course, excluded.

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  3. Nanda Panjandrum Member
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    A moving and fitting tribute, SoS!  “May his name be for a blessing…”.

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  4. 10 cents Member
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    SoS, thanks for the post.  Too bad it had an occasion to be written.

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  5. Boomerang Inactive
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    “But for me, his memory carries that personal something extra: I am deeply humbled too, by the power of growth and change.

    Me too, Son of Spengler, me too.

    Thank you for this window into Andrew Zucker’s life and death.

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  6. Annefy Member
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    Well done. A testament to why murder is unforgivable, cutting a life short and robbing people the time to become who they are meant to be.

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  7. Susan in Seattle Member
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    Lovely, SoS.  Thank you.

    As you stated and Boomerang iterated, your statement that “I am deeply humbled too, by the power of growth and change” is deeply meaningful.

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  8. Pencilvania Inactive
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    Seven people.  Can you imagine saving seven people’s lives in one morning?  Blessings on his memory, and on his family.

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  9. PHCheese Inactive
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    Remarkable man.

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  10. user_657161 Member
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    Thanks for posting this even though it made my eyes want to cry.

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  11. Son of Spengler Member
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    A special thanks to the editor who added the picture!

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  12. 10 cents Member
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    SoS,

    If you want, this would make an appropriate Hero Post. Just put September 18 in the title someplace. It is up to you.

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  13. Son of Spengler Member
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    10 cents:SoS,

    If you want, this would make an appropriate Hero Post. Just put September 18 in the title someplace. It is up to you.

    Thanks, but I have a separate Hero Post in the works.

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  14. 10 cents Member
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    Son of Spengler:

    10 cents:SoS,

    If you want, this would make an appropriate Hero Post. Just put September 18 in the title someplace. It is up to you.

    Thanks, but I have a separate Hero Post in the works.

    Looking forward to it.

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  15. user_1130581 Contributor
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    My guess is that both of you grew over the years and clearly (based on your beautiful post) became honorable people. And you can speak to his transformation, which reflects on your own.

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  16. douglaswatt25@yahoo.com Member
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    Seven people saved one horrible morning. There is some powerful symbolism here. The Hebrew word that means to swear a covenant is based on the Hebrew word seven. Andrew Zucker kept a promise that morning, a covenant to save as many as he could when the world was literally collapsing around him. A promise known only to him and God in that chaotic moment. Andrew Zucker, good and faithful servant, may you rest in peace.

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  17. Son of Spengler Member
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    Doug Watt:Seven people saved one horrible morning. There is some powerful symbolism here. The Hebrew word that means to swear a covenant is based on the Hebrew word seven. Andrew Zucker kept a promise that morning, a covenant to save as many as he could when the world was literally collapsing around him. A promise known only to him and God in that chaotic moment. Andrew Zucker, good and faithful servant, may you rest in peace.

    The Talmud (M Sanhedrin 4:5) relates the warning that would be given to witnesses in capital cases during Talmudic times (emphasis added):

    Know that capital cases are not like monetary ones. In monetary cases, (a false witness) can return the money and achieve atonement. But in capital cases, the blood of (the victim) and all his future offspring hang upon you until the end of time. For thus we find in regard to Cain, who killed his brother, “The blood of your brother cries out!” (Genesis 4:10) – the [Hebrew] verse does not say ‘blood’ of your brother, but ‘bloods’ of your brother, because it was his blood and also the blood of his future offspring…. It was for this reason that humanity was first created as one person (viz. Adam), to teach you that one who destroys a life is considered to have destroyed an entire world; and one who saves a life is as if he saved an entire world.

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  18. user_6236 Member
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    Thanks for sharing this SoS.

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  19. Mark Coolidge
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    Wonderful post.

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  20. FightinInPhilly Coolidge
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    Great piece. Well said.

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  21. B. Hugh Mann Inactive
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    Thank you for this post. Very well said.

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  22. user_199279 Coolidge
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    Andrew’s life is a perfect example of what I try to remember when I see or hear of awful things being done to others:  There are more of us than there are of them.

    Meaning there are more good people than bad, to put it in simple terms.  The good ones, like an Andrew, aren’t celebrated or pointed at in life, because they are just living their life, one day at a time, and quietly doing things that other people can’t or won’t do (like becoming a volunteer firefighter).

    For the one evil thing done on that day, an enormous and catastrophic evil, think of the millions of good things that happened, on a small scale, all during that day and for every day after, all around our country and the world.

    There are more of us than there are of them.  There always will be.

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  23. Mister D Inactive
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    As a teacher this is what keeps me going, because the world long ago would have collapsed if my Freshmen never matured into something better.

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