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‘Embrace the Suck’: It’s Time to Bridge What Divides the GOP
There’s nothing more zealous than a convert, goes the old saying. Conversions are deeply transformative. Converts more deeply embrace and evangelize their new faith, whether in religion or politics.
It doesn’t just happen with party switchers. Sometimes, someone wakes up and is politically charged when teacher unions keep schools shut down, or they read the homework assignments their kids bring home in utter horror. Or being unable to find infant formula at the grocery store for a newborn. Paying $5 per gallon of gas might do it, too.
I’ve had conversions. I was raised a southern populist Democrat from rural Oklahoma who once volunteered for former US Senator Fred Harris’ (D-OK) presidential campaign in 1976 while attending college. I voted for Jimmy Carter that fall. My first conversion happened in early 1977 when I raced upstairs to my apartment’s mailbox to open my first paycheck stub for my first job out of college and was shocked to find out what was being withheld in payroll taxes. I began to ask where my money was being spent. I didn’t like the answers. I voted for Ronald Reagan and Republicans for House, Senate, and everything else beginning in 1980. I’ve never looked back.
I later worked full-time to help elect dozens of GOP House members and Senators. I would later be nominated in 1995 as Secretary of the US Senate by Majority Leader Robert Dole, who I voted against for Vice President in 1976. Some journey.
I left the GOP for a year, registering as an Independent in Pennsylvania when Donald Trump became the presumptive nominee in 2016. His emergence offended my sensibilities. I held my nose and voted for him in 2016 anyway because I knew Hillary Clinton was worse and didn’t want to throw away my vote. I had my personal experiences with the Clinton machine some 10 years earlier as the nominee to a GOP seat on the Federal Election Commission. I’ve seen government power abused firsthand. I feared that the abuse would return in spades.
I enthusiastically embraced Trump in 2020 after three historic Supreme Court nominations and other successful policies. I didn’t have to agree with everything he said or did. I still don’t.
All things in good measure. It is possible to have too much corporate concentration.
I sense you wrote this splendid post just to be able to sneak in that last sentence.
We still don’t know who will win the nomination for PA Senate seat. As of this AM, there was less than a 1000 votes separating the two, and a mandatory recount will be necessary. It does seem like Oz will prevail. If he does, I hope he acts like he promised and campaigned; as a conservative. But his history from decades of TV revealed a different man than he campaigned as.
As the chair of the PA Republican committee told us: after the primaries, whoever is our nominee, even if they stink, that will be our guy, and he will be vastly better than any Democrat.
Let’s hope that is the case.
The obvious exceptions to that rule are Mitt and Liz.
Let us hope Oz, if he wins both the nomination and subsequently the Senate seat, isn’t another.
I guess it’s ok to call it a “bridge.” If I read right, however, your acquaintance won’t be voting for or supporting Mastriano. (Maybe “leaving the island?”)
It’s been obvious since 2008 that the Republican party would have to be emptied of comfortable leftists before any progress could be made against the left and our decline. If the Republic is to be restored, the first task is to scour the Republican Party. The loss of people whose values are antithetical to Republican government ought to be celebrated.
I will NOT clap.
And replace them with registered Democrats who hadn’t yet realized that they don’t want to be Democrats any more.
Gilets. One “e”.
I generally agree with this. Any R is better than any D. I appreciate the call for the “establishment” to get with the program. It does seem they always call for the grass roots to accept the squishy moderate when they win the primary and then work against the grass roots when the conservative firebrand wins. The door has to swing both ways. I would add though one other type of Republican we should vote against even if that means electing a D that would be the turncoat sellouts, i.e. Liz Chaney and Adam Kinzinger, the court jester republicans have to be purged. It is a matter of good party hygiene.
As I tell people, I’m a yellow-dog Republican through and through. I don’t have to like a candidate to vote for him (John McCain in 2008), but it is preferrable . . .
This wasn’t always the case but right now the D’s need to lose and lose badly. If that happens maybe it will break the fever. Once we have a break on the worst excesses of the current administration we can look at cleaning our own house but we have to get the D’s to the point where they are wondering the wilderness trying to figure out where they went wrong.
Kelly, thanks for this post. My experience was similar to yours, I think. I strongly disliked Trump initially, during the primaries. I consciously decided not to say “never,” and gave him a chance to make his case during the general election campaign. He was sufficiently convincing that, like you, I voted for him in 2016, albeit reluctantly at the time.
He outperformed my expectations, and I became a solid supporter of President Trump quite promptly.
How do we bring about this reconciliation that you propose? My own impression is that the anti-Trump folks need to apologize, essentially. I did so. You did so in this post, saying that your initial, negative impression of Trump turned out to be incorrect, and that he accomplished many good things.
I have the sense that hatred of Trump affects perceptions of many things. Trump-haters bought into the Russia Collusion hoax, and the first impeachment over that innocuous phone call with Zelensky, and the second impeachment over the so-called insurrection on January 6. People do tend to double down, it seems. This is probably because it is difficult to admit that one was wrong.
It is also difficult to forgive someone who doesn’t admit that he was wrong.
I’m delighted you learned this in time for 2020.
I was a Cruz supporter in the 2016 primary. Trump just had too much baggage as a former Democrat for me to trust. But he was pitching what I wanted, and I sucked it up for the 2016 general. In precisely the same way country club Republicans insisted we do in 2008 and 2012.
I worry about Oz for exactly the reason I worried about Trump back then–much lefty baggage. I’m not a Pennsylvanian, so my opinion doesn’t count, but if I could, I would vote for Oz in the general if he wins the recount. Oz winning the primary means a bunch of PA republicans saw enough to take the chance against his background. That means something.
Jerry, if your goal is reconciliation, demanding an apology is usually a poor first step.
I did what I did because I felt and believed it to be right.
After reading William Barr’s book, I realized that the Russian Collusion was waaaaay overblown, and promptly admitted it. But that wasn’t an apology.
I respectfully suggest that you edit out the word “apology” if you want to be more successful with reconciliation.
An apology would be preferable to self-mutilation, wouldn’t it?
I don’t think anyone is obligated to vote for a candidate that, in their gut, they don’t think should hold the political office they seek. You can talk about loyalty to the Republican party if you want. But the David Duke example in the OP is a good illustration that just because a candidate has an “R” next to his name doesn’t mean that everyone is going to vote for that candidate out of party loyalty.
Gary, I don’t think that I’m going to accept your suggestion.
Do you still feel and believe that what you did in the past — opposing Trump, supporting and voting for Democrats — was right? I understand that you thought that it was right at the time. Do you still think so?
If not, then it seems to me that reconciliation should begin with an admission of error. If not, then I don’t think that reconciliation is feasible.
I’m not looking for groveling. I’m looking for an admission of error. In the absence of such an admission, why should I I believe that a NeverTrumper is going to behave any differently next time? Their behavior, from my perspective, seemed like a stab in the back.
This you?
I would say impossible. At least until they do admit it. And maybe not even then, depending on how much damage they did first.
Not impossible at all. It’s just that pride frequently gets in the way. Withholding forgiveness doesn’t punish them; it punishes you. Forgiveness, even if they don’t admit their wrong, is freeing. Demanding an apology indicates that the forgiveness is conditional, and not really forgiveness as much as it is putting yourself above others.
Do it.
At the very least, then, forgive if you want, but then keep them out of your life.
The problem isn’t forgiving. It is should you trust them again? In this as with most political cases it really doesn’t matter much. I would never vote for a prominent NT person. I don’t tend to pay as much attention to someone who was NT, because I don’t trust their judgement anymore. An apology might change that. It would at least prove that they have enough self awareness to acknowledge they were wrong about the risks of their course of action (embracing the Ds).
Just remember who stood up on that GOP debate stage vowing to support whoever got the nomination, and then immediately breaking that vow when the nominee was chosen.
You might not have liked President Trump’s answer, but he was the only one who was honest.
Ted Cruz was pretty anti-Trump after Trump won the nomination but before he was elected. Admittedly he has some personal problems with Trump and hard feelings from the campaign I think were understandable. I also think he didn’t cover himself in glory at the 2016 Republican Convention.
After Trump was elected Ted worked with him to get things done. He campaigned with him and was an ally to Trump. I don’t know if he apologized publicly or not but he put aside any personal differences and helped get an agenda that was broadly conservative passed. I can support Cruz. Romney was critical then cozied up to Trump to try to become Secretary of State. Basically kept his mouth shut to get elected to the senate. Then move against Trump in two impeachments one of which was a sham. I couldn’t support Romney.
In the end I think Trump was a good president and I wish he had won reelection because I don’t think we would be here if he had. I also think he shot himself in the foot a lot, and I have never seen someone who alienates people who work for him quite as much as Trump does.
A lot of the comments here just strike a weird tone with me with words and phrases like “apology,” “forgiveness,” and “stab in the back.” Might some of you be taking things a little too personally? We’re not talking about your spouse cheating on you. We’re talking about people who have the same general political viewpoint who disagree on how worthy a particular politician is. Is it so hard to say, “We may never agree on Donald Trump, but that divide doesn’t have to carry over to everything else?”
Some who work for him and with him speak very highly of him. Others don’t, and you can never quite tell whose ego is the problem. It really is a mixed bag. But I guess we’re all like that.
There you go.
Except they don’t limit it to just Trump himself. They extend it to anyone they view as “Trumpy” or even just didn’t vote for impeachment, either or both times.
I would say immoral. Asking for repentance without a hope of forgiveness is cruelty, but forgiveness before repentance is weakness that encourages stupidity and evil.
That’s a valid perspective too.
The divide was over way way way more than Trump. I don’t so much feel like they stabbed me in the back as much as I’m with Raxx on questioning their judgement and thinking they lack way more integrity than they think Trump lacks. And if they think Trump’s lack of integrity and boorishness disqualified him, then I have no problems judging them by their own standards… and I find them lacking.
Admitting wrongness shows a bit of integrity and better judgement and gaining of wisdom.
I don’t think anyone feels we have to exclude everyone who questioned DJT’s suitability for office. But I do think that anyone who’d vote for FJB is someone I’ll never turn my back on, not for one second.
There’s a saying in law enforcement circles that I’ll paraphrase here. Once they’ve gone there, the safe bet is they’ll do it again.