The Faded Blue Rug That Changed Everything

 

“We’re going to sleep in the new house tonight,” my dad announced one summer evening.  There were no beds in the new digs yet, just sleeping bags on the living room floor, yet none of us demurred.  Our current house, a stucco ranch set back in a lot with another brown stuccoed rental in front, had seen us through a year.  I’d finished eighth grade in this place: studied the anatomy of bird wings, made mnemonics for plant terms, recorded myself reading off grammar terms and definitions, and drove my older brother to my door saying “Would you shut that off?!” when I played back the tape. I’d stayed up until the wee hours reading my book report selections the night before they were due to avoid the fat, gaping zero we’d been promised for failing to finish.  (I made it through Gulliver’s Travelers, but had to give up on a tome called Bangkok.)

Brown. The old three-bedroom house was dark brown, from the rugs to the drapes to the trim.  There was the perimeter outdoors where us kids had played a game of hide-and-seek with the neighbor kids, racing to spy each other through parallel windows and laugh. We got in trouble for that–we had trampled the landscaping.  I remember fine black dirt, pepper or eucalyptus providing shade. A chain-link fence bordered a parched back yard where I’d felt mild interest in a tent one of us had put up.

In the living room, under the white ceiling, we scooched up close to our TV while the investigators and detectives of ’80s programming paraded by: handsome Magnum, the Simon brothers from San Diego, the Steele man with piercing blue eyes and vivid female sidekick, the Hart couple whose opening theme narration prompted me to ask my mom what “self-made millionaire” meant.  At Christmas, a tree stood in a corner, a tinselly bright Disneyland ad poured out of our TV set, and my mom made presents of new clothes, replacing thrift store items my sister and I had been wearing to school.  She had more than an inkling of the social pressures we faced because our wardrobe was different.

Getting to school was a problem, as we needed to ask local friends for rides. My mom, the first-grade teacher, would leave earlier. Then my siblings and I would cram into a red Hyundai–it was a red Hyundai no matter which of our friends we rode with–and I would sit tensely in the back and hope that we’d beat the trolley at the bottom of the hill before the dreaded clanging started and the barrier came down, putting us at risk of being late.

When eighth grade finally wrapped up, after a day of pizza and yearbook signing (“Stay sweet!”), we found out we’d be moving again. Moving, even though we were well past the stage of eating off a makeshift sawhorse table; of hearing Neil Diamond adjuring us to turn on our “heartlight” while my dad worked on improvement projects; of getting used to skirting our front neighbors’ latest motorcycle enhancement endeavors on the oil-stained driveway.  Now we gathered around a solid wood table decorated, eighties style, with small black splashes, a fifty dollar purchase from a garage sale across the street. I still cringed at “Tonight, I celebrate my love for you,” intimately crooned across the kitchen, but our busy school days meant those songs were no longer the backdrop for life.  And we didn’t exactly roam the neighborhood with joyful abandon, but we had made a few connections with some of the kids.

Yet when my dad announced that we were going to sleep at the new place, we didn’t hesitate. Oh, it wasn’t really new–just new to us. It would be new to have a blue carpet faded nearly to grey by the sunlight that flooded through the windows in the bright, high-ceilinged living room; to be one of a row of multi-story planned homes with neat front lawns and back yards cooled by ocean breezes; to simply walk up from the cul-de-sac and cross the highway to get to school; to have friendly acquaintances living around us. The music director’s wife, visiting from down the street, saw me and said, “Oh, wonderful–a babysitter!”

That home, with its spacious living room, hosted our Sunday evening family TV parties, where my mom brought out trays of crackers and cheese for our dinner. I did my science fair experiments in the back yard, which was always just a tad chilly; fell asleep doing algebra homework in the middle bedroom of the three that were lofted over the living room; readied for summer volleyball practice and fall games; shared numerous family dinners at that flecked dining room table. And I babysat for neighbors’ children, turning quite a profit by tenth grade, rich enough now to buy all my own clothes. I talked for hours on the phone with my friend from school, or waited near our green lawn with its little ornamental tree for her to come pick me up for a day out together.  This time, our family stuck around for three years, and that’s all we needed for the faded blue carpet to do its work.

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  1. LibertyDefender Member
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    Nicely expressed – in the same language as my memories of such ages and experiences.

    My “faded blue carpet” memory is from a much earlier move, to Hermosa Beach California, before I started school.  At nap time, my brother and I played “inchworm,” scooting across the hardwood floor on our bedrolls, in the loft at the beach house.  A year or two later we moved to Connecticut.

    After 8th grade, I moved from one small town to an adjacent small town, where I attended high school.  Although we were moving up in the world, we moved to a dirt road in a more rural, smaller town.  Changing schools was mildly traumatic, but mitigated by the fact that everyone in my class was just starting high school, and my new high school served two towns, so every freshman on day one assumed I lived in the “other” town.

    The Wonder Years addressed the issue fairly well, I thought.  Giovanni Ribisi played the part of a transfer student from a nearby town during Kevin Arnold’s sophomore year or thereabouts.  After a few episodes, he had to address head on how to reconcile his old and newfound loyalties.

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  2. sawatdeeka Member
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    LibertyDefender (View Comment):
    The Wonder Years addressed the issue fairly well,

    Yeah, the middle years are hard for everyone, so I don’t know if our move coincided with a naturally easier era in my life, or whether the change in physical circumstances had a big positive effect.

    LibertyDefender (View Comment):
    Changing schools was mildly traumatic,

    Changing schools is hard.

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  3. Caryn Thatcher
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    Sawatdeeka, this is lovely.  Evocative.  Your essays are a pleasure to read.  Thank you.

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  4. Jimmy Carter Member
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    Wonderful, wonderful post.

    sawatdeeka: my sister

    How is Yer Sister @nicegrizzly doing, by the way?

     

     

     

     

     

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  5. sawatdeeka Member
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    Caryn (View Comment):

    Sawatdeeka, this is lovely. Evocative. Your essays are a pleasure to read. Thank you.

    Thank you, Caryn! 

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  6. sawatdeeka Member
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    Jimmy Carter (View Comment):

    Wonderful, wonderful post.

    sawatdeeka: my sister

    How is Yer Sister @ nicegrizzly doing, by the way?

     

    Thank you, Jimmy.  

    My sister is doing well. She’s dabbling in school nursing, photography, and other stuff. The baby is eight now.  

     

     

     

     

     

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  7. LibertyDefender Member
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    sawatdeeka (View Comment):

    LibertyDefender (View Comment):
    Changing schools was mildly traumatic,

    Changing schools is hard.

    Moreso for girls than for boys, I’m certain.  Having an identical twin helped too.

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  8. The Reticulator Member
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    LibertyDefender (View Comment):

    sawatdeeka (View Comment):

    LibertyDefender (View Comment):
    Changing schools was mildly traumatic,

    Changing schools is hard.

    Moreso for girls than for boys, I’m certain. Having an identical twin helped too.

    I changed schools five times before I graduated from high school. Two changes were due to family moves, two were due to the school closing its doors, and one was due to the change from grade school, as we called it, to a high school different from the one that all my eighth grade classmates went to. I wasn’t enthusiastic about the last of the five changes (in the middle of my sophomore year in high school).  Leaving my old school and home was the part I didn’t like. Starting at a new one was always interesting and exciting. 

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  9. She Reagan
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    Lovely essay, @sawatdeeka.

    For me it wasn’t so much the carpet as the curtains.  As we moved around, Mum made new curtains if the windows didn’t fit the old ones, put the old ones in where they did, and gave me the cast-offs as they wore out.  I learned to sew making clothes for my (few) dolls, my (many) pets and, eventually, myself out of old curtains.  Scarlett O’Hara, call your office.  I think the last dress I made from old curtains and wore into the real world saw me through high school.

    Our sewing machine was one like this, certainly not electric, and not even a treadle.  But for its time, very compact and portable:

    Rear view of Singer 201K sewing machine made in 1949

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