It’s Not Heroic to Choke and Quit

 

I don’t want to be overly critical of Simone Biles’ decision to withdraw from the Olympic team’s competitions.  I haven’t followed gymnastics for years, but my impression is that Biles is widely considered to be the greatest female gymnast of all time.  Her ability and achievements are extraordinary.

During the first rotation in the team all-around competition, Biles had a disappointing vault.  She then pulled out of the competition, with varied explanations that seem unconvincing.  It looks, to me, like she briefly lost her mojo.  This would be, here’s that word again, disappointing, but understandable.  Nobody’s perfect.

Biles set herself up for this, to some extent.  She’s sometimes called the GOAT, meaning “greatest of all time.”  She apparently leaned into this hype, like Muhammad Ali, by wearing leotards bearing an image of a goat.  Humility is a wiser course, I think.  But again, I don’t want to dump on Biles, who is quite young and the young rarely display notable wisdom.

The thing that is strange, to me, has been the reaction in much of the media.  The narrative seems to be that Biles quitting was heroic, in order to take care of her “mental health.”  Here’s a sample of this reaction:

  • “The Radical Courage of Simone Biles’s Exit from the Team USA Olympic Finals.”  The New Yorker.
  • “Simone Biles’ Olympic withdrawal could be her greatest act of heroism.”  SBNation.
  • “The world was clamouring for the American to outdo her competitors as well as herself.  It took exceptional bravery for her to step back.”  The Guardian.
  • “As athletes, we’re told to tough it out.  It’s toxic masculinity at work, this idea that we should ignore our emotions and what our body needs.  We call what she did heroic.”  Time.

I dissent, not respectfully (yet).  I do not find it heroic to choke, and I do not find it heroic to quit after choking.

It is understandable, a bit disappointing, fine.  Maybe she was having a bad day, though all that we know is that she had a single bad vault.  Biles might or might not have done well on the remaining events.  We’ll never know, because she gave up.

We do expect more of our heroes.

But it’s the media reaction that is so bizarre, to me.  What in the world is going on here?  Is it just an attack on competence?  Is it the typical resentful, sour-grapes attitude of the ordinary?

Is it the victim narrative?  The silly Time article linked above says that gymnasts “are taught that their bodies are not their own.”  In sport that “sacrifices bodies, minds and lives for perfection.”  What?

Is it because Biles is female?  Is it because she is black? Is it because the media had hyped a black woman as the greatest athlete ever, just unbelievable, wait ’til you see her, she’ll blow your socks off . . . well, not so much.  Not that day.

So, apparently, the media has to lie about it.  To pretend that failure and worse, quitting, is heroic.  I do not see any justification for this narrative, and I do not see any reason to dissent “respectfully.”  I am open to a counter-argument, as perhaps I’m missing something.

Again, I don’t want to beat up on Simone Biles.  She’s had an amazing career.  She appears to have cracked under the pressure, at these particular Olympic Games.  That is sad, but not the end of the world.

You know, even Mighty Casey struck out.  There was no joy in Mudville that day, but that’s OK.  Casey was still a hero, just not a perfect one.

But I don’t recall anything about Casey walking away from the plate after his first strike, or making excuses.  That’s not what heroes do.

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  1. Instugator Thatcher
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    Unsk (View Comment):
     Nasser  has also been accused by several other girls on the team, which  gives credence for that claim.

    He was convicted for similar charges and is currently incarcerated for 60 years in federal prison. When he is released (in 2069) he will be transferred to Michigan where he is scheduled to serve his concurrent sentences of 40 to 125 years and 70 to 175 years.

    The FBI mishandled their investigation of him, giving him cover to molest another 70 girls before being arrested.

    More than 70 women and girls claim in civil lawsuits that Nassar sexually assaulted them during that yearlong period after the FBI received complaints about him. – espn

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  2. She Member
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    Randy Webster (View Comment):

    She (View Comment):

    Instugator (View Comment):

    Jerry Giordano (Arizona Patrio… (View Comment):
    I’m skeptical of this. Can you explain the difference between “the twisties” and just not having your head in the game?

    Twisties sounds like a form of spatial disorientation – it can have any number of causes, physical through mental.

    Indeed. There are all sorts of vestibular (inner ear) disorders that can cause spatial disorientation and which have nothing to do with “having your head in the game.” I don’t know, and I don’t expect any of the rest of us will ever know, exactly what went on with Simone Biles, but as a person who–when she’s working her way down to her seat in a large sports stadium–sometimes has to hang on to the shoulder of the person in front, and lower her eyes so she’s not looking out at the vast expanse so she doesn’t pitch head first down the steps, I can testify to that fact. (The opening scenes of Bladerunner made me vomit, and I don’t do so well in scenic mountain and canyon expanses, either.) It comes and goes. And it’s extremely inconvenient, and sometimes embarrassing.

     

    I won’t go down steps that don’t have handrails.

    Yes.  They help.

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  3. She Member
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    Randy Webster (View Comment):

    DaveSchmidt (View Comment):

    Randy Webster (View Comment):

    kedavis (View Comment):
    It’s not a simple either/or, but as Stina also pointed out, such activities can make it difficult or impossible for women to have children, and in any event it’s definitely not “fair” since, in essence, for one woman to not have her 2 children requires those 2 children to be had by someone(s) else, unless you’re content for humanity to fade away and disappear. That seems a pretty steep price to pay for women’s athletics.

    I’d rather have humanity fade away (or be dominated by more fecund societies) than tell women they have to have children.

    If I had to choose between these two options, I’d say all biological women should have babies.

    “Should” is not the same as “must.”

    As if.  Sometimes, that’s not an option.  I know. I’d love to have had.  But perhaps the Good Lord decreed otherwise for my situation.  And who am I  (or you) to argue?

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  4. Stina Member
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    Stina (View Comment):
    Two sports I would leave as exceptions to that – wrestling and jockey.

    I wrestled for eight years. I don’t know about my body fat ratio; I typically lost about 30 lbs. to get down to weight. I don’t think it affected my sex life.

    I was referring to the kind of abuse dancers put themselves through isn’t uncommon among wrestlers and jockies- anorexia type behavior in order to meet weight.

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  5. Instugator Thatcher
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    Instugator (View Comment):
    More than 70 women and girls claim in civil lawsuits that Nassar sexually assaulted them during that yearlong period after the FBI received complaints about him. – espn

    The news of the FBI blowing a chance to stop him in 2015 broke immediately prior to the start of the Olympics.

    It would make anyone victimized by him question themselves.

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  6. Flicker Coolidge
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    I’m sure most of you know, often enough when athletic women become too lean (lose too much body fat) their menses do stop.

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  7. Hoyacon Member
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    Instugator (View Comment):

    Instugator (View Comment):
    More than 70 women and girls claim in civil lawsuits that Nassar sexually assaulted them during that yearlong period after the FBI received complaints about him. – espn

    The news of the FBI blowing a chance to stop him in 2015 broke immediately prior to the start of the Olympics.

    It would make anyone victimized by him question themselves.

    As a refresher, this is a good read on FBI malfeasance in the cases.

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  8. Django Member
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    Brian Watt (View Comment):

    I just wanted to say that Rep. Adam Kinzinger is very upset with this post.

    So upset he couldn’t find a parking place:

    Benny Johnson – Kinzinger Blocks Wheelchair Entrance for Rep. Cawthorn – Madison Gets Sweet Revenge | Facebook

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  9. CACrabtree Coolidge
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    DaveSchmidt (View Comment):

    DrewInWisconsin, Oaf (View Comment):

    I’ve gone back and forth on this myself. I want to encourage the sort of intestinal fortitude that people draw on to overcome the issues in their “head space.” The modern era has made the “head space” the most important part of a person’s life. But part of being a strong adult person is being able to push through negative thoughts and bad feelings and carry on! Courage, as they say, isn’t being about not being afraid. It’s about doing what you must do even if you are afraid. The general theme applies here, too.

    She is being applauded for not continuing with the competition because of what she was feeling. “Your mental health is more important than some gold medal!” And you know, I can agree with that in principle, but I also don’t think that’s necessarily something worth celebrating. (Nor criticizing her for it, don’t get me wrong.)

    What we seem to lack in the modern era is GUTS. The constitution that soldiers on in spite of the mental or emotional difficulties. That’s what I want to see more of; not just from Biles, but from everyone.

    There’s a big lack of this in our culture, which has elevated feelings and emotions above accomplishment. One now becomes applauded for feeling the right things rather than doing the right thing.

    Do each of us have the guts to carry in the tough days ahead? Will we crack under pressure?

    I suppose I might be making an apples to oranges comparison but all the furor over Biles’ decision brought back memories of Commander Donnie Cochran.  Whatever drove their decision was lost in all the conjecture.

    https://scholar.lib.vt.edu/VA-news/VA-Pilot/issues/1996/vp960530/05300353.htm

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  10. DaveSchmidt Coolidge
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    Some people should retire. 

    There are roofers and steelworkers who know that they can no longer go up any more.  

    Here and there you will find professors who could easily retire.  However they are pretty certain they will be replaced by folks whose principal qualification is their ranking in the intersectional hierarchy.  So they stay in place.  

     

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    Hoyacon (View Comment):

    Instugator (View Comment):

    Instugator (View Comment):
    More than 70 women and girls claim in civil lawsuits that Nassar sexually assaulted them during that yearlong period after the FBI received complaints about him. – espn

    The news of the FBI blowing a chance to stop him in 2015 broke immediately prior to the start of the Olympics.

    It would make anyone victimized by him question themselves.

    As a refresher, this is a good read on FBI malfeasance in the cases.

    Huh.  I did not know this awful case was still being investigated WRT FBI culpability for Nasser’s assaults continuing, and his pool of victims expanding, long after his activities were documented and reported to the agency.

    In retrospect, perhaps it will occur to someone that it might have been a good idea to delay this “long-awaited” report on how the FBI ignored the allegations and then lied extensively to cover up their mistakes for a couple more weeks.  The closing paragraph from the linked article:

    The report came on the same day the 2021 U.S. Olympic gymnastics team, a group that includes reigning world and Olympic champion and Nassar abuse survivor Simone Biles, flew to Tokyo for the Games.

    It doesn’t take a great deal of imagination to connect the dots here.

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  12. cdor Member
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    She (View Comment):

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    Instugator (View Comment):

    Instugator (View Comment):
    More than 70 women and girls claim in civil lawsuits that Nassar sexually assaulted them during that yearlong period after the FBI received complaints about him. – espn

    The news of the FBI blowing a chance to stop him in 2015 broke immediately prior to the start of the Olympics.

    It would make anyone victimized by him question themselves.

    As a refresher, this is a good read on FBI malfeasance in the cases.

    Huh. I did not know this awful case was still being investigated WRT FBI culpability for Nasser’s assaults continuing, and his pool of victims expanding, long after his activities were documented and reported to the agency.

    In retrospect, perhaps it will occur to someone that it might have been a good idea to delay this “long-awaited” report on how the FBI ignored the allegations and then lied extensively to cover up their mistakes for a couple more weeks. The closing paragraph from the linked article:

    The report came on the same day the 2021 U.S. Olympic gymnastics team, a group that includes reigning world and Olympic champion and Nassar abuse survivor Simone Biles, flew to Tokyo for the Games.

    It doesn’t take a great deal of imagination to connect the dots here.

    Unbelievable. Could the FBI try any harder to earn our disrespect? Everything they touch, they screw up.

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  13. DrewInWisconsin, Oaf Member
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    Django (View Comment):

    Brian Watt (View Comment):

    I just wanted to say that Rep. Adam Kinzinger is very upset with this post.

    So upset he couldn’t find a parking place:

    Benny Johnson – Kinzinger Blocks Wheelchair Entrance for Rep. Cawthorn – Madison Gets Sweet Revenge | Facebook

    What a dickweed.

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  14. She Member
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    DrewInWisconsin, Oaf (View Comment):

    Django (View Comment):

    Brian Watt (View Comment):

    I just wanted to say that Rep. Adam Kinzinger is very upset with this post.

    So upset he couldn’t find a parking place:

    Benny Johnson – Kinzinger Blocks Wheelchair Entrance for Rep. Cawthorn – Madison Gets Sweet Revenge | Facebook

    What a dickweed.

    Yeah.  I am so stealing that image, though.  LOL.

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  15. cdor Member
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    DrewInWisconsin, Oaf (View Comment):

    Django (View Comment):

    Brian Watt (View Comment):

    I just wanted to say that Rep. Adam Kinzinger is very upset with this post.

    So upset he couldn’t find a parking place:

    Benny Johnson – Kinzinger Blocks Wheelchair Entrance for Rep. Cawthorn – Madison Gets Sweet Revenge | Facebook

    What a dickweed.

    To whom does this guy think he is appealing? Does he think the left admires him? How could he possibly think that the right is doing anything but puking over his crybaby behavior? So who does that leave…his mother? Maybe.

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  16. DrewInWisconsin, Oaf Member
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    cdor (View Comment):

    To whom does this guy think he is appealing? Does he think the left admires him? How could he possibly think that the right is doing anything but puking over his crybaby behavior? So who does that leave…his mother? Maybe.

    His constituency is composed of the media, the corporations, and the democratic party. What does he care about the right-wing citizen class? Congress is just an entry-level job toward greater success as a media figure and lobbyist for globalism.

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  17. Hoyacon Member
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    DrewInWisconsin, Oaf (View Comment):

    cdor (View Comment):

    To whom does this guy think he is appealing? Does he think the left admires him? How could he possibly think that the right is doing anything but puking over his crybaby behavior? So who does that leave…his mother? Maybe.

    His constituency is composed of the media, the corporations, and the democratic party. What does he care about the right-wing citizen class? Congress is just an entry-level job toward greater success as a media figure and lobbyist for globalism.

    I don’t know much about his constituents, but it’s also possible his choice of party was influenced by his chances of winning under what banner.

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