Cobalt Blue
Joined
Jul '11
cain

So says a conservative strategist about Herman Cain, and it is inarguable that the odds are against him. But take a look at his speech before the Value Voters Summit yesterday (h/t Weekly Standard) and ask yourself: is any other candidate capable of articulating the cases for American exceptionalism and the conservative vision so clearly and persuasively? The answer should give "realists" pause - it's too easy to make the leap from "difficult" to "impossible" when it comes to nominating someone who doesn't fit the mold of a candidate that's set by casting central. Pay particular attention to how he defines leadership - the contrast between his executive approach and the dithering and excuse-making we've seen over the past 3 years couldn't be more stark.

This is a man making a strong case for his candidacy - will enough GOP voters take the time to listen?

As predicted by Ricochet's own Troy Senik, it looks like last night's debate confirmed what has been happening in the Republican race for the last week.  Cain is seriously ahead.  Newt is coming on strong.  From the Daily Caller:

Herman Cain is the new frontrunner to be the Republican nominee, according to a Public Policy Polling poll released Wednesday that found him leading Mitt Romney by eight points.

In the nationwide poll of likely Republican primary voters, Cain got 30 percent of the vote. Mitt Romney came in second with 22 percent, and Newt Gingrich has made a stunning surge into third place, taking 15 percent. Rick Perry is in fourth with 14 percent. No other candidate breaks double digits.

I said this last night on the live chat: Newt commands.  Last night, he made interesting points, he took the stage, he acted, in short, like a president.  He really has earned a second look, especially from those of us who have just reflexively dismissed him as temperamentally unsuited for the job.

I mean, he probably is unsuited, but his performance over the past few weeks has been impressive, unlike Rick Perry.

And it must be even sweeter to Newt that he's knocked Perry down to fourth place.  Gingrich's top advisors, you may remember, famously defected from his campaign in June to work for the emerging Perry campaign.  Newt may be a weirdo, but he's not so weird that he's not loving this.

~Paules
Joined
Jun '10

The following conversation occurred today in my classroom.  I'm transcribing the event from memory.  Even if the words are not exact, the sentiment behind the conversation is accurate.

Kid:  "What's your first name, Mr. Paules?"

Me:  "'Mister', and don't you forget it."

Kid:  "But we call all of our teachers by their first names."

Me:  "That practice infers that teachers and students are peers.  You are not my peers."

Kid:  "You're arrogant.  What gives you the right to think you're better than us (sic)?"

Me:  "It's not a matter of being better.  Before God we are all equal.  But in this classroom I have the power of in loco parentis granted me by the State of New Mexico.  For you Spanish speakers that doesn't mean 'my parents are crazy.'  It means that I hold the same degree of authority in school as your parents do when you're home."

Kid:  "Don't you think a school should be run like a family."

Me:  "I do not.  Education is a serious and formal business.  That's why I wear a jacket and tie to school."

True story.  Attitude is everything.  And my attitude has gone south after nine years in the biz.  Time to move on.  What a pity.

My four year-old has Down syndrome. Yesterday, I sent her off to school for the first time in our new suburban town. We chose this particular suburb because of its reputation for a committed and loving approach to educating and including children with special needs. In New York City, where we lived for eight years, the best strategy for families with limited financial resources looking to get their special-needs kids into decent education environments was to sue the city. Every year. Until they turn twenty-one. Usually these suits are successful, but we have no stomach for this kind of thing, and we don’t have the finances to keep a lawyer on retainer for seventeen years, so we moved. Even though we’re now in a better neighborhood, I can't help but worry a little bit extra about my sweet Miss M, since the country seems to be falling apart on so many fronts. Five years ago, the medical team who told us our unborn baby would have Down syndrome advised us to “terminate.” Hearing a diagnosis of Down syndrome is a horrible, terrible shock. All your hopes for your unborn baby, for your family, for your own journey into old age, change in an instant. To have people not-so-subtly reminding you that your child will also be a burden on society is a crushing blow. Yet this is the message that all too frequently gets sent to people in this very unfortunate, and vulnerable, position. We know Miss M won’t be going to Harvard, just as we knew we had to get out of the city in order to find a more hospitable place to raise our family, a place where she has the freedom to pursue her interests and talents. Maybe she'll end up living on her own, holding down a job, and, at least partially, supporting herself. Come to think of it, that’s what I’m hoping for all my kids. But under a government that seems intent on making ALL of us wards of the state, how long before some of us are deemed too much of a burden? After all, we’re living in a country where the president's right-hand man feels free to drop the R-bomb in the White House and Mr. Obama himself jokes on late-night TV that his atrocious bowling skills might qualify him for the Special Olympics (remember? he got a few laughs). I wonder what the future holds. Not just for my little Miss M, but for all of us.

I’ve been grumpy lately. Really grumpy. I’ve got one of those debilitatingly severe colds that doesn’t seem to want to get much better. I’m not looking for sympathy, but I mention it because I’m hopeful it’s partially responsible for my reaction when I re-watched the 1942 classic film, Mrs. Miniver, earlier today. Greer Garson won an Academy Award for her wonderful portrayal of the quietly brave title character who led her family through the dark days of World War II. The war was seen not on the battlefields of Europe, but through the lives of the people who resided in the small English town where the Minivers lived. The strength of character and the resolve and the quiet dignity of Mrs. Miniver and those around her was incredibly moving. But it got me wondering about today’s America and whether that strength of character, that resolve and that quiet dignity still exist. Do we have what it takes to make it through a really dark period? Do we really believe there are ideals and institutions worth making terrible sacrifices for? Can we really come together as a people to resist a terrible outside force?

My swollen head is truly worried about the answers to these questions. We seem soft and spoiled. We seem more connected to our communications devices than to the real world around us. The traditions, ideals and institutions that typically bind a people are under figurative attack as never before, and one has to wonder how they would fare under an actual attack. I know there was a burst of patriotism following the September 11th atrocities, but it didn’t seem to take long for political cynicism and expediency to begin to tear at us. Would the Miniver families of today be more willing to trade their way of life for peace and quite and uninterrupted satellite TV?

The world always looks a little darker when seen through swollen, watery eyes, so I hope those among you with clear heads and clear sinuses can say something comforting before I take another dose of NyQuil.

Just to prove that Richard Epstein and I are not the same person, Richard came over to Berkeley Law yesterday to debate Obamacare with my friend, colleague, and good old New Deal liberal Jesse Choper.

To my surprise, Richard predicted that the Supreme Court would uphold Obamacare, though he was clear that this was because of the sad state of the Supreme Court and not because he thought it consistent with the original meaning of the Commerce Clause.

But what equally caught my attention was that Richard said there were a number of free-market fixes that Republicans could propose in Congress that could do far more to make health care efficient and more broadly available than anything in Obamacare. 

This to me has to be part of the center-right conversation -- it is OK to call for repeal, but to truly win on the issue one has to propose sensible reforms for what most people agree is a dysfunctional system.

I will let Richard post here to do his arguments full justice.  But I think that Ricochet folks could start the process of developing a package of ideas to replace Obamacare when the time comes.

Peter Robinson
Dec 2, 2011 at 5:07pm

The fallout from Romney's interview with Bret Baier of Fox News this past Tuesday continues.  Now making the rounds:

In this brilliant essay Charles Krauthammer discusses that question.  And he steers it in a provocative way, one that shows why politics—more specifically, why getting politics right—is so important to any form of intelligent life.

Let me now write perhaps the second-most controversial statement I’ve ever written on Ricochet.  The answer to the above question, I believe, is yes – that we humans are the only intelligent beings in the universe.  (I believe my first-most controversial statement was that the BCS system in college football might be sort of okay.)

One reason I believe this is that the counter-theory is not falsifiable, in the sense argued by the great philosopher Karl Popper.

To explain this, let me first explain the opposite—that my theory is falsifiable.  What this means is that I can imagine an observable event that would make me disbelieve my theory.  One such event is simply that aliens visit our planet.  Another is that we receive radar signals from a distant planet that unmistakably come from an intelligent source.  E.g. suppose the signals, like those in the movie starring Jodie Foster, followed a pattern of prime numbers. 

However, the same is not true with the opposite theory.  That is, suppose you believe that we are not alone – that somewhere in the universe there are other intelligent beings.  What event would make you believe that that is not true?  I assert that you cannot imagine such an event.  E.g., suppose we send additional spaceships to Mars that conclusively show that no life exists on that planet.  You could simply respond, “Well that’s only one planet.  It’s still possible that intelligent life exists elsewhere.”  No matter what sort of experiment that a scientist conducts, you could respond with a similar statement.

As Popper explained, we should be skeptical of any theory that is not falsifiable.

A second reason is a form of the Fermi Paradox, which asks “If it’s so easy for intelligent beings to arise in the universe, where are they?”

Here are some quick calculations that I’ve done.  Over the last 2000 years, human population growth has been about 0.16% a year.  Suppose: (i) at least one civilization has existed for at least a billion years (The Earth is about 4.5 billion years old, while the universe is about 13.7 billion years old.  If it is easy for intelligent life to arise, then at least one civilization must have arisen before the birth of Earth.  If so, then that civilization, if it still exists, must be at least 4.5 billion years old.), and (ii) that civilization has experienced population growth similar to ours.  If these two facts are true, then the population of that civilization would be more than 10^700,000.  This is more than there are atoms in the universe.

Clearly, if it were easy for intelligent life to arise, and it grew at even a tiny fraction of human population growth, then—assuming such beings could invent technology to colonize other planets—such beings should exist in all corners of the universe.   This clearly is not the case.  It is one more reason that makes me skeptical that other intelligent life really exists in the universe.

The King Prawn
Joined
Dec '10

Robert Lux makes note of a 2nd Amendment test for politicians in his post "Thoughts About Cleavage." He writes:

The absolute first thing I want to know about a person is where they stand on guns. This is a better quick n' dirty read on a person than God or any other issue. "Pro-gun" = more likely to be realistic about good and evil, as self-preservation is our most primary right.

I really liked his description. I think he hit the nail on the head and drove it home in one strike. And that is why my reservations about Rick Santorum were strengthened within 5-10 seconds of browsing his campaign website. The top issue on his issues page is the 2nd Amendment. It's placement at the very top of his list of positions is favorable, but then I read where he actually stands.

Coming from Pennsylvania, a state with a rich heritage of hunting and fishing, Senator Santorum understands firsthand the importance of preserving our constitutionally protected rights found in the 2nd Amendment. Senator Santorum fights to preserve this tradition, and will work to ensure these rights are not infringed upon.

Rick Santorum is wrong. My 2nd Amendment rights are not about my ability to shoot ducks and deer. Most states so severely restrict and regulate game hunting that no level of access to weaponry would make game hunting sufficient to provide sustenance for a family, and so it does not protect hunting for food as a fundamental right. The 2nd Amendment certainly does not exist to protect my right to hunting as a sport. My right to bear arms guarantees a more fundamental right: the right to protect and preserve my own life and the lives of my family. It exists as my defense against burglars, bandits, and even armed invasion if the government is not adequate or timely in providing that protection. It exists, ultimately and in the very last case, to protect me and my family from the government should it ever become destructive to the ends of life and liberty. Rick Santorum does not get this, and because he does not get it, he will not get my vote.

Southern Pessimist
Joined
May '11

That is the title of an interesting NY Times opinion piece:

 The authors of the next edition of the diagnostic manual, the D.S.M.-5, are considering a narrower definition of the autism spectrum. This may reverse the drastic increase in Asperger diagnoses that has taken place over the last 10 to 15 years. Many prominent psychologists have reacted to this news with dismay. They protest that children and teenagers on the mild side of the autism spectrum will be denied the services they need if they’re unable to meet the new, more exclusive criteria.

 But my experience can’t be unique. Under the rules in place today, any nerd, any withdrawn, bookish kid, can have Asperger syndrome.

This reminded me of a close friend. He struggled  with severe shyness and blamed much of it on his mother's paranoid schizophrenia. Apparently he was not cuddled much as a child and he once told me that one of his strongest early memories was being forced by his father to give his mother a hug and his mother sadly saying "It's OK, Don't force him." He couldn't explain his fear but assumed it was because he somehow sensed that his mother was different. It is natural to do that sort of thing don't you think? Not long ago, however, he remarked that maybe it wasn't his mother's fault after all. Maybe he had Asperger's syndrome and no one knew it. I don't know him well enough to say if he has Asperger's syndrome, but, if so, it seems to me that he has overcome it fairly well. I suppose behavior always comes up against that nature versus nurture discussion but I would be interested in your thoughts.

Hegesias
Joined
Aug '10

One of the most disturbing elements of the Weiner fallout for me has been the flood of editiorials amoralising and offering unsolicited marriage counseling—which largely consists of saying that failures in marriage don’t really matter because marriage isn’t really anything in particular.  Fellow Ricochet member L.T. Rahe has already highlighted one example for us.  She nominated an article for sickest of the century; I suppose this article by Jessica Bennett is my nomination in the same category.

Here’s its highlighted quotation:

"Humans aren't monogamous, we need to get over that," says Ken Haslam, a retired anesthesiologist who curates a library at the Kinsey Institute. "We fool around. We do! And if you don't fool around, you want to fool around."

I have never understood why this form of argumentation gets a grip when sex is at issue.  Consider: “Humans aren’t honest, we need to get over that.  We lie.  We do! And if you don’t lie, you often want to.”  Does this suddenly make you want to rethink your notions of honesty in the way that Bennett and Haslam assume you may now wish to rethink your notions of fidelity?  Fill in the blank with whatever vice you like.  All things evil, on some level, come naturally to human beings.  And so the fact of an impulse is irrelevant, even if we grant that the impulse is universal.  The question remains whether it is an impulse we ought to act on.

Nevertheless, considering that stubbornly persistent impulse to fool around, the article suggests: “‘Giving ourselves the license and permission to evolve marriage is perhaps the unique challenge of our time,’ [Pamela Haag] writes.”  –As though following whatever impulse we have at the time or rationalizing through hyper-romanticizing is a challenge.  My guess is the true challenge spoken of here is that of shutting up those who think there are higher goals to achieve.  Well, that and shutting up conscience.

The deepest offense to me is the idea that casting off the shackles of fidelity in marriage (as Bennett aparantly conceives things) would be progress, would be to ‘evolve marriage’.  As though the rational animal’s achievement of rationality, which enables it to reject animal impulse for higher goods, is ultimately a defect: we should return to pursuing whatever desire demands at the moment.  Being the rational animal means, in part, being able to step back and call into question the prudence of acting on our impulses.  Sure, we can argue the wisdom of monogomy.  But to take the fact of sexual impulses inclining us toward violating the vows of marriage as reason to abandon monogomy is to reject the very thing that makes humans distinctive, indeed, the very thing that makes us capable of such a thing a making vows.

Bennett urges, “Surely everyone in a relationship wrestles at some point with an eternal question: Can one person really satisfy every need?”  That’s an easy one: of course not.  But what a shallow understanding of human nature it demonstrates if this is all it takes for her to give up on traditional ideas of marriage!  Contrast her question with an observation of Stanley Cavell’s: “The achievement of human happiness requires not the perennial and fuller satisfaction of our needs as they stand, but the examination and transformation of those needs.”  If we do no more than take our needs at face value and seek to satisfy them on their own terms, we will never mature, and will certainly never achieve anything approaching genuine happiness.  The successful human endeavor requires severe scrutiny of whatever presents itself to us as a need and, where scrutiny reveals there is a better or richer or wiser or healthier end to be pursued, the strength and patience to transform that ‘need’, to bring it captive to the obedience of the higher good.

Emerson decried his acute observation that we all too often sell the throne of angels for a short and turbulent pleasure.  It seems many are responding to the Weiner scandal by endorsing just this transaction.

Two million YouTube views in two days.  Dad punishes daughter.  

And I am violating the Ricochet Code of Conduct by posting this.  But it's really blowing up on the internets, and it's exactly the kind of thing I'd like the smartest, wisest group anywhere to chime in on.

So, call it Executive Privilege.  Since this isn't really a democracy, I'll accept lashes from Peter and Peter alone.  

Still: fair warning:  There's some salty language, but it's PG-13, I promise.

I honestly don't know what to think about this.  So far, he's got 73k "Likes" on YouTube and only 5500 "Dislikes," so maybe that's saying something.  I have to confess, though, that I got seriously creeped out at the end.  Maybe it was the use of the "hollow points."  Or am I being a squish?

Special Note:  Sharp-eyed Ricochet member PracticalMary beat me to this post by several hours. Apologies to her!  If you commented there, feel free to cut and paste here....

From my latest at The Daily Caller:

Now is a time to give voice to the hard, embarrassing truths. One of the hardest and most embarrassing to confess is that the democratization of higher education has been a failure.

We flatter ourselves that America is the land of individuality, and that college is the place we go to “find” our unique “selves.” In fact, at prohibitive cost, college is churning out a single kind of person — self-entitled, immature and compliant. The nation’s prestigious cookie-cutters, and the human cookies they mass produce, are luxuries we can no longer afford.

EJHill
Joined
May '10
Something

So what is it about Mike Murphy that brings out the claws in the Ricochet faithful? It can't be anything personal since the only ones here who really know him well are Rob and Yeti. I only know him peripherally though a mutual friend.

If it is not the man then it is surely what he embodies: The professionalization of politics. And it's not that he's hated for his organizational skills. No one would deny the importance of that or the reality that someone needs to keep ahead of the Byzantine labyrinth that is federal election law. No, it all comes down to The Lie.

The Lie is not the one that's told about the opponent, the slanders that include everything from drug running, "October Surprises" or fake National Guard memos. It's worse than that. It's the messaging. It's the focus group policy stances, the answers the candidates mouth because they've tested well. It's the fundamental dishonesty that pervades the system. It's what lets problems rage out of control until it's too late because just talking about fixing them is deemed a loser. After all, winning and perpetuating power is the bottom line, correct? If you accidentally do the right thing along the way, that's good, too.

But in the end we're all being lied to. Pundits speak of buyer's remorse and then wonder why. Mmmm, well, I just bought this box of "New Formula Hope'N'Change" but it looks like the same old crap that they've been offering for years under another name. It's the same feeling I had when I bought that box of "Compassionate Conservatism" in 2000 and that tube of "Read My Lips" back in '88. Or the "Buy One, Get  One" of 1992.

Murphy offers his opinions and experience honestly. But he's like the steroid pusher in sports. "Look, ya wanna win, kid? Then ya gotta do this my way. 'Cause ya know the guy on the other side of that line of scrimmage is usin', too! I know! 'Cause I know his dealer! Welcome to the National Football League!"

In Murphy, our ideals clash with his reality. We want to win but there's a part of us that only wants to win cleanly. We want conservatism to prevail because it's the right thing and because the country is standing on the precipice of the long decline. But Murphy is our own version of Al Davis, pacing the sidelines and growling, "Damnit, it's the NFL! Just win, baby!"

We'll root for the team, but we don't have to like the way it's being run.

Peter Robinson
Mar 13 at 10:53pm
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From the New York Times wrap-up of today's primaries in Alabama and Mississippi:

The biggest question hanging over the Republican contest is whether Mr. Gingrich will stay in the race.

Should he?

On Dennis Prager’s radio program yesterday, he devoted the entire third hour to a discussion of the annoying tendencies exhibited by many of the drivers with whom he shares the roads.  At the top of his list was the driver who, while waiting to make a left turn at an intersection where there is a left-turn arrow, refuses to proceed with his turn after that arrow goes out.  The lesson: unless there is a red signal indicating you have to wait, it is permissible to make your turn even after the green arrow is no longer illuminated; you just have to yield to oncoming traffic as you would at an intersection where there is no left-turn arrow.

Related to this and just as vexing to those unfortunates stuck behind such people is the driver who, when making a left turn, remains at the limit line when the light turns green rather than pulling into the intersection while waiting for traffic to clear as the law and common sense allow, thereby leaving the drivers behind him with no chance to make their turns before the signal changes to red.  Mr. Prager said he takes it as a “point of pride” that as many people as possible are able to make their turn behind him, an opinion I wholeheartedly share.

High on my own list of driving frustrations, owing to my profession, are those drivers who refuse to pull the right and stop for approaching emergency vehicles.  I’ve seen people here in Los Angeles who seem to think that a police car, ambulance, or fire engine going down the street with its emergency lights ablaze and its siren wailing is there to serve as their escort through heavy traffic.  I once even had someone pass me as I drove code-3 down Central Avenue, apparently figuring (correctly) that if I was in such a hurry to get somewhere, I would not take the time to stop and ticket him.  The lowest pit of Hell awaits him, whoever he is.

And now I put it to the Ricochet community: What are your pet peeves about your fellow drivers?  (As time allows I’ll try to answer any questions you may have about the traffic laws.)

Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent a new nation, dedicated to a great civil war.

The world will little note what they did here. It is rather for us to perish from the earth.

The King Prawn
Joined
Dec '10

I blame Mark Steyn for this sentiment, but I fear that even a landslide our way in 2012 will be too little too late. We could elect the most conservative president in the history of ever, and have TEA party senators and representatives running the capitol building, but would it really usher in the conservative version of kittens and rainbows?

Consider the Department of Education. It's budget is just over $63 billion and it employs 4200 people. Are we really just going to board it up? What will become of the local school district employees whose sole function it is to document compliance with the myriad federal requirements tied to the money provided through Title I and other programs? We know these things are ridiculous and unnecessary, but can we simply end them without cushioning the impact of such a decision? And this is just one cabinet level department with a relatively small budget.

We need to have that adult conversation Paul Ryan is always talking about. We as a nation need to reevaluate how much government we are willing to pay for and what services from government we are willing to live without. What concrete recommendations would we Ricocheteers make to our lawmakers and leaders on how to save our nation?

DocJay
Joined
Jul '11

In a move generating some expected controversy the Obama administrations health wizards are contemplating releasing many common prescription medications to over the counter status.  

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FDA may let patients buy drugs without prescriptions...

Various hypertension, diabetes, cholesterol, migraine, and asthma medications are being considered and pharmacists are excited about the expansion of their roles.  Many primary care doctors are not happy about this potential move though.  

Pharmacists and other non physician practitioners have the knowledge and skill to address mild and moderate issues which will result in cost savings to the feds.   They also do not have the experience to appreciate potentially deadly issues at the same level as MD's.  The convenience to patients will be offset by the probable increased cost of these meds and the insurance companies will not cover many of them anymore.   I mostly agree with this pharmacist here,

"We think it’s a great development for everybody — for pharmacists, for patients and the whole health care system,” said Brian Gallagher, a lobbyist for the American Pharmacists Association. “The way we look at it is there are a lot of people out there with chronic conditions that are undertreated and this would enable the pharmacists to redirect these undertreated people back into the health care system.”

The article also quotes internal medicine physicians and I agree with this statement.

“The problem is medicine is just not that simple,” said Dr. Matthew Mintz, an internist at George Washington University Hospital. “You can’t just follow rules and weigh all the pros and cons. It needs to be individualized.”

Here's how I see this for primary care.  One of the few ways private docs survive is the easy meat of medicine.  A common cold, routine medication checks, follow up blood pressure/diabetes/cholesterol etc.  The infirmed and elderly take far more time (and time is all we have to charge for unlike many specialties) and the compensation is just abysmal for a lengthy consult, often not even covering the overhead of the office let alone any profit.   People buying OTC meds for serious issues will often expect a doctor to pick up the phone for free and talk to them about it, fat chance in our brave new world, and people will be lucky to even get a secretary to acknowledge a question and put it in the pile of 100 daily issues that the doc will never get to.   Primary care will end up all government, hospital or insurance employees if they have no entrepreneurial spirit or go full private no insurance and charge what the market will bear.  The last scenario is what I do now but the feds are always threatening to shut us outside the box people down even though we still are out earned by all the subspecialties, especially procedural based ones.  The feds just cannot stand anyone in medicine beyond their control.  If this happens then getting to a doctor for any routine item will be impossible as no one but a pure masochist would ever enter the worst paying field (with the most paperwork also) of medicine. 

So we have pros and cons regarding this bold step.  On many levels I am for the move.  Of course the administration never dreams of real tort reform which would generate a 15% savings at a minimum, but that topic is for another day.

Michael Horn
Joined
Dec '10

I take no credit for this discovery, as it was a dear friend who sent me this link, but I had to share with the rest of you.

The following is the entire  letter that our dear President Reagan sent to his son in 1971, shortly before his son's marriage. The letter is short, powerful, and beautiful. Upon reading, I am reminded of Reagan's wonderful ability to distill complex, meaningful, and deep concepts in such a personal and clear manner.

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Reagan:

Michael Reagan
Manhattan Beach, California
June 1971
Dear Mike:
Enclosed is the item I mentioned (with which goes a torn up IOU). I could stop here but I won't.
You've heard all the jokes that have been rousted around by all the "unhappy marrieds" and cynics. Now, in case no one has suggested it, there is another viewpoint. You have entered into the most meaningful relationship there is in all human life. It can be whatever you decide to make it.
Some men feel their masculinity can only be proven if they play out in their own life all the locker-room stories, smugly confident that what a wife doesn't know won't hurt her. The truth is, somehow, way down inside, without her ever finding lipstick on the collar or catching a man in the flimsy excuse of where he was till three A.M., a wife does know, and with that knowing, some of the magic of this relationship disappears. There are more men griping about marriage who kicked the whole thing away themselves than there can ever be wives deserving of blame. There is an old law of physics that you can only get out of a thing as much as you put in it. The man who puts into the marriage only half of what he owns will get that out. Sure, there will be moments when you will see someone or think back to an earlier time and you will be challenged to see if you can still make the grade, but let me tell you how really great is the challenge of proving your masculinity and charm with one woman for the rest of your life. Any man can find a twerp here and there who will go along with cheating, and it doesn't take all that much manhood. It does take quite a man to remain attractive and to be loved by a woman who has heard him snore, seen him unshaven, tended him while he was sick and washed his dirty underwear. Do that and keep her still feeling a warm glow and you will know some very beautiful music. If you truly love a girl, you shouldn't ever want her to feel, when she sees you greet a secretary or a girl you both know, that humiliation of wondering if she was someone who caused you to be late coming home, nor should you want any other woman to be able to meet your wife and know she was smiling behind her eyes as she looked at her, the woman you love, remembering this was the woman you rejected even momentarily for her favors.
Mike, you know better than many what an unhappy home is and what it can do to others. Now you have a chance to make it come out the way it should. There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a door at the end of a day knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps.
Love,
Dad
P.S. You'll never get in trouble if you say "I love you" at least once a day.

I don't have to tell you, that as a group, we conservatives tend to wax poetic about Reagan,  but wow, this was something else.

Lord knows that Reagan had excellent speechwriters (looking at you Peter!) but reading this makes me wonder if he even needed them.

In the recent days, Ricochet has been afire with discussions relating to marriage and everything that comes along with it--as is the longstanding tradition here at Ricochet!--and the President's words seem to be quite relevant to our current times.

Sure, there will be moments when you will see someone or think back to an earlier time and you will be challenged to see if you can still make the grade, but let me tell you how really great is the challenge of proving your masculinity and charm with one woman for the rest of your life.

It's almost strange to hear this coming from the man who defeated the Soviets. This implicit admission of weakness--a very human weakness--from one of the most powerful men an history is both endearing and inspiring.

Endearing because it sheds light on a very personal issue; an issue that we can all relate to, and inspiring because we see the true strength--the masculinity!--of a man admitting his own human weakness, and striving to overcome it.

This bit hit home with exceptional force:

If you truly love a girl, you shouldn't ever want her to feel, when she sees you greet a secretary or a girl you both know, that humiliation of wondering if she was someone who caused you to be late coming home, nor should you want any other woman to be able to meet your wife and know she was smiling behind her eyes as she looked at her, the woman you love, remembering this was the woman you rejected even momentarily for her favors.

As someone who has been on both sides of the "cheating" coin, I can personally attest to the truth behind these words. There was a time when I was the "twerp" that Reagan spoke of. It was not a good time and I do not wish to revisit it.

It does take quite a man to remain attractive and to be loved by a woman who has heard him snore, seen him unshaven, tended him while he was sick and washed his dirty underwear. Do that and keep her still feeling a warm glow and you will know some very beautiful music.

The man that Reagan describes above seems to be a rare bird these days, but one that is needed more than ever. Men of my generation (I'm 28) including myself, would do well to read and understand this.

True masculinity comes not from the "conquests" of one night stands and infidelity, but from dedication, love, and commitment.

Paul A. Rahe
Oct 8, 2011 at 4:31pm

A number of those who have commented on various posts have mentioned the OBOPE Zogby Poll released on Thursday, which showed Herman Cain surging to 38%. I found it interesting for other reasons as well.

As you will see if you click on the link, the sampling took place on 30 June, 11 and 25 July, 29 August, 12 and 26 September, and 5 October. Mitt Romney started out with the support of 14% of the prospective Republican primary voters polled, rose to 17%, dropped to 12% when Rick Perry entered the race, and rose again to 18% when Perry proved to be tongue-tied. Ron Paul has been steady throughout with support varying from 11 to 13%. Newt Gingrich has ranged from 2 to 6%. Rick Santorum started out with 7%, dropped to 3%, rose to 5%, has fallen steadily in recent weeks, and now commands the support of 1% of the prospective primary voters. Jon Huntsman’s support is steady. He has support from about 4% of those polled. And Gary Johnson has run the gamut from 1% to 1%.

There are three dramatic stories evident in the data.

Back in June Michele Bachmann had the support of 34% of those polled. Since then, she has lost ground steadily, and she now commands the support of 3% of the prospective primary voters. Her support dropped like a stone when Rick Perry entered the race, but it did not recover when she savaged him in the debates. She, in fact, appears to have done herself as much damage as she did the frontrunner at that time, and the same may be true for Santorum.

When Rick Perry entered the race, his support surged to 41% almost immediately. At the same time, support Romney fell 5%; for Cain, 10%; for Bachmann, 16%; for Santorum, 2%; and for Not Sure, 7%. Briefly, until he stumbled in the debates, Perry took the wind out of nearly everone’s sails (Ron Paul being the exception).

Then, Perry committed hari kari on national television three times in a row, and Herman Cain jumped from 12% to 28% to 38%.

To make sense of this data, we have to ask what Michele Bachmann, Rick Perry, and Herman Cain have in common. The answer is, I think, twofold.

First, they are not libertarian utopians – like Ron Paul and Gary Johnson – persuaded that, if we were to cut our defense appropriations in half, adopt a posture of isolationism, legalize marijuana, and puff many a magic drag in, all would be well, everyone would be mellow, peace would break out, and we would henceforth be unmolested.

And, second, not one of the three is the proud father of the individual mandate that lies at the heart of Romneycare (and, of course, Obamacare). Moreover, none of them is a Republican Al Gore intent on proceeding down the well-worn path towards Reinventing Government on the presumption that, if the fat is eliminated and government is made more efficient, all will be well.

All three are, in fact, constitutional conservatives – dedicated to restoring limited government in this country.

Here is the upshot. There is within the Republican Party a very large floating constituency of constitutional conservatives – some 34 to 41% of the prospective primary voters – and they are desperately looking for a plausible conservative candidate. And to this number, one can, I suspect, add the remaining support of Michele Bachmann, Rick Perry, and Rick Santorum: another 16% of the prospective primary voters.

I would like to think that Herman Cain can prosper where Michele Bachmann and Rick Santorum have foundered. But, of course, if wishes were horses, beggars like me would ride. I suspect that Bachmann and Santorum – the Republican ankle-biters – will take him down in the next debate. Watch them. I guarantee that they will try. Neither of them can stomach the possibility that someone else might emerge as the champion of the constitutional conservative cause.

I am left with a question. Is it not odd that, in a time when the country is increasingly open to the suggestion that the administrative entitlements state is on its last legs and that the moment has come for rolling back its encroachment on the prerogatives of the states and the rights of individuals, there is not one seasoned Republican officeholder capable of articulating the argument for limited government who is willing to step forward, shoulder the burden, seize the opportunity, and take the bull by the horns. What has this country become? Greatness beckons, and no one genuinely qualified rises to the occasion!

Paul Ryan! Mitch Daniels! Your phones are still ringing. If you do not answer, I am virtually certain that we will be left with the last man standing – and given the intensity of Republican dissatisfaction with that option, I would not be surprised were he to lose in November, 2012.

Is there anyone apart, from his co-religionists, thrilled at the prospect that Mitt Romney will be the Republican nominee? When members of Ricochet say that they would vote for a syphilitic camel over Barack Obama, do they not have Romney in mind? Come November, 2012, how many of our fellow Americans will be willing to swallow a syphilitic camel in a good cause?

I, for one, will be willing – but I shudder to contemplate the consequences.

Per WSJ News Alert:

Before taking questions at a midday news conference, the president said the U.S. is suspending the exploration of two regions off Alaska, as well as off the Gulf Coast and Virginia, and will suspend action on 33 wells currently being explored.

Is that sound a cheer coming up from Iran? You bet. 

A friend just said to me; “Assuming that the "top kill" working, how long before critics say ‘why did BP wait so long to try this approach?’  There is no winning.” 

He’s right. We have become a nation of utopians, arrogant 2nd guessers, and Lilliputians who are certain that enough rules will make everything work just right, not realizing that at some point they will just make everything grind to a halt.  And with perfect timing, Obama has decided to extend his fiats to…make everything grind to a halt.

Bravo, Nicole Gelinas, for drawing the connection between China's treatment of Ai Weiwei and its treatment of Unilever:

In the week and a half since the Chinese government detained artist Ai Weiwei on suspicion of "economic crimes," Western governments and the global arts community have condemned China's repression of free speech. Regular Americans, too, should care about China's habit of stifling information that it doesn't like to hear. China is applying the same habit to another type of speech, economic speech. And the results could hit Americans more directly — in the pocketbook.

Nicole points out something that cannot be pointed out enough: Prices convey information. Interfere with the free flow of information at your peril.

I'd use a slightly different taxonomy: It is not so much that free markets are, literally, free speech, but that both are essential aspects of freedom.  Not only is it inherently wrong to limit freedom, but if you gag either one, you shoot yourself in the foot--and, in this case, you shoot the rest of the world, too. 

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Catching up on my reading, I just now came across this piece, "The Future of the Obama Coalition," on the website of the New York Times.  The author, Thomas Edsall, spent 25 years covering politics for the Washington Post before taking his current position as a journalism professor at Columbia.  If I had to make a wager, I'd bet a lot that Edsall is as liberal as any other product of Washington, D.C. newsrooms.  But I've met Edsall a few times, and in conversation, as in his large body of work, he strikes me as thoroughly fair-minded.

Which makes his piece today all the more arresting.  An excerpt:

For decades, Democrats have suffered continuous and increasingly severe losses among white voters. But preparations by Democratic operatives for the 2012 election make it clear for the first time that the party will explicitly abandon the white working class.

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All pretense of trying to win a majority of the white working class has been effectively jettisoned in favor of cementing a center-left coalition made up, on the one hand, of voters who have gotten ahead on the basis of educational attainment — professors, artists, designers, editors, human resources managers, lawyers, librarians, social workers, teachers and therapists — and a second, substantial constituency of lower-income voters who are disproportionately African-American and Hispanic.

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The New Class plus poor people of color.

Everybody deserves representation, of course, and who knows? That coalition may indeed put Obama over the top.  

But the Democratic Party of Franklin Roosevelt and John Kennedy and Hubert Humphrey--the party that prided itself on championing the ordinary working American--has utterly vanished.

Tom Lindholtz
Joined
May '10

Finally, a responsible adult speaks out on Urinegate.  You can read Allen West's response here.

Bill Kristol

Making the case for the Ron Paul purge, The Weekly Standard's Bill Kristol:

“A lot of people when they criticize Ron Paul have to preface their criticism by saying, ‘you know, he’s good guy, he brings a lot to the debate,’” Bill Kristol said on C-SPAN. “I actually don’t buy that. I do not think he’s a particular good guy . . . I think it would be better for the Republican party, if he left the Republican party.”

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“[Buchanan] left the party in 1999 and a lot of people, and I was one of them, said, goodbye and good riddance, you’re not in the mainstream of the Republican party, go run as some Reform party candidate . . . he did in 2000 and he didn’t get many votes and actually George W. Bush I think was helped—and the Republican party was helped—to be free of Buchanan’s extreme isolationism, protectionism, anti-Israel views, and the like. Ron Paul is a little different from Pat Buchanan—but he’s no better, in my view. And I actually think we’d benefit in the long run—but even in the short run . . .I don't think anyone should plead with him not to run or to stay in the party. I would be comfortable in a general election if Mitt Romney or Newt Gingrich or Rick Santorum as the Republican in the Reagan tradition and debating both Barack Obama and Ron Paul.”

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And on the other side of the great Paul debate, Sen. Jim DeMint:

"One of the things that's hurt the so-called conservative alternative is saying negative things about Ron Paul," DeMint told conservative radio host Laura Ingraham. "I'd like to see a Republican Party that embraces a lot of the libertarian ideas."

Moreover, Sen. DeMint has said that he really hopes Ron Paul stays in the race for as long as it takes for the GOP frontrunner to adopt some of Rep. Paul's ideas. And as was pointed out over on the Member Feed, Sarah Palin has articulated something very similar.

So who's got this one right? Would the conservative cause be better off if Ron Paul made his exit from the GOP now, or does he bring something of value to the table?

Gallup is out with a new polling showing that "Americans perceive that there is a large U.S. gay population -- one far larger than is likely reality."

It's almost absurd. No, it's completely absurd. While the actual population that identifies as gay or lesbian represents around 2% of the total population, Americans estimate that some one in four are gay -- and young people and females think it's close to one in three!

Why is this? Is this a failure of the preachy culture (Glee), the mainstream media (constant editorializing against traditional marriage), or an education system that systematically removes rational abilities from the students? Or what? How could this poll show such absurd results?

Dave Carter
Apr 13 at 5:06pm
hard of hearing funny

 After welcoming one and all to the weekly installment of Ricochet's primary podcast, James Lileks typically brings in Peter Robinson and Rob Long and asks how they've been getting along.  Whereupon Rob can be counted on to preface his remarks with a happy reference to, "Sunny Southern California." Uh huh.   Having spent today in southern California, I can vouch that this is the kind of sunshine that resulted in Noah's ark.  Perhaps Rob really said, "I'm growing gills," and I just misunderstood.  I've been very busy misunderstanding a lot of people lately.  

The load that brought me to Ontario, California today originated in the Nashville area on Tuesday.  My understanding of the load was that it had to be delivered by 6PM today.  I planned my trip accordingly.  Then, Wednesday night, I checked the computer and saw that the delivery had been changed to 8AM today, effectively moving events almost a full work day earlier.  Did it really change, I wondered, or did I misunderstand the assignment in the first instance?  What followed was a grueling schedule that culminated with an all-night drive last night, providing time to wonder if I've been paying sufficient attention lately.  

At 2 o'clock this morning, while I was nearing the Arizona / California border, a contemporary yet deliciously sweet piano rendition of Bach's Jesu Joy of Man's Desiring filled the cab.  The patch of desert landscape, illuminated by the headlights, seemed all the more bright against a cold starless night.  The delicious warmth of the coffee seemed especially comforting.  I caught just a hint of what looked to be a brush of silver light to my left, almost like a reflection from one of the dashboard gauges against the driver's side window.  I looked again and saw that it was moonlight, formless, without focus, just a wisp of silver fading in from behind the clouds.

I had misunderstood my fortune, because rather than an arduous task, this night time drive was turning into a wondrous experience.  Or so I thought.  The California authorities were thoughtful enough to construct an inspection station in the middle of Interstate 40, where they could more properly welcome commercial drivers.  "Papers," said the nice officer.  More misunderstanding ensued because I didn't believe myself to be passing through Checkpoint Charlie into East Berlin.  I handed over the bills of lading, which stated that I was delivering medical supplies to a Costco distribution center.  "Wachagot?" he asked.  "Pardon?" I asked.  "What are you carrying?" he asked.  He was staring at the load list that told him precisely what I was carrying.  So I answered, "drugs."  "What?" he said.  "Medical supplies," I clarified.  I was allowed to proceed.  

A few hours later, I was traveling south on Interstate 15 toward Los Angeles, when the highway took a turn up through a mountainous region.  We drove up into large black cloud of "Sunny Southern California," which opened a deluge on us, causing me to remember that I had come all the way out here and forgotten my suntan oil.  

Later still, the load having been delivered, I wandered inside the truck stop restaurant in Ontario for a hot breakfast prior to turning in for some rest.  In most truck stops, if one wants to engage in conversation with other truckers, one sits at the counter.  Drivers who opt for a table or booth are generally understood to be feeling a little less sociable.  Soaked to the bone, I went straightaway to a booth.  A few minutes later, another driver sat in the adjacent booth.  "Hope you drive wrong," he said.  "Pardon?" I asked.  "Have you been driving long?" he repeated.   It was going to be one of those meals.  

Now, my daughter and I don't always have the greatest of phone connections, due to my cell signal and her wireless gizmos, so that what she says and what I actually hear are not always the same thing.  Occasionally, instead of asking her to repeat something, I'll simply tell her what I thought I heard, which is always good for a laugh.  This morning's conversation was worse because the guy would neither speak up nor  shut up.  I had hoped, after asking him to repeat himself some five or six hundred thousand times, he might give up and go back to his eggs and bacon.  Alas, his narrative was as boundless as his appetite.  I threw in the towel:   

Him:  "My aunt flapped on a flatbed all the way to Norfolk." 

 Me:  "Really?"

Him:  "Yeah, I told the idiot that lumber wouldn't make the trip in a ribbon like that, but you know how dispatchers are." 

Me:  "Yep."  

Him: "Spinach." 

Me:  "What?"

Him:  "Spend much?  On food?"

Me:  "About 10 bucks on average."

Him:  "Yeah, you know what I told the manager at Petro?"

Me:  "Yep."  

Him:  "I told that sonovabiscuit eater that there ain't no way a cackeroni with flim flies can run no 8 bucks." 

Me:  "Really."  

Him:  "If l'm lyin' I'm fryin', besides, the menu said the steak lice was sledge over cork."

Me:  "No kiddin'."  

And on it went.   And went.  He ate more food than I could manage, quicker than I could manage, and never broke stride with his story-telling.  I'm not sure, but I think he was telling the waitress how much he'd like to take her to Topeka on a wheel barrow, but I might have got that part wrong. It was time to pay the bill and get some sleep.  I was reminded of the story of the genteel old man who, on the occasion of his 60th wedding anniversary, told his wife, "Honey, I'm proud of you."  "Well," she said, "I'm tired of you too."  

Meanwhile, the southern California sun continues to rinse off my truck.  I think I'll have to turn the volume up for the next podcast.   

Adrian
Joined
Nov '11

Any Calvin and Hobbes fans around? Try to imagine what Calvin would have been like with no woods in sight, with only brick and concrete to explore. Or how about the Taxi Driver types, looking with disgust at the neon-lit trash and boarded-up storefronts around them - could such attitudes survive a drive down Anne Shirley's White Way of Delight?

Look, I know that these things shouldn't matter, that what matters is on the inside, not the outside, etc, etc. I got plenty of pushback in a prior post arguing in favor of more grown up clothing (hey, at least Peggy Noonan agrees with me about the 'mooks' [update: PJ O'Rourke does, too!]), and I'm sure many will raise similar objections: God no more cares about our landscaping than our laundry, and the divine truths of the world are just as accessible in the projects as in the prairie. Granted, granted. But, generally speaking, I am speaking generally. The good will find goodness, the evildoers evil, no matter the setting. That leaves the rest of us, for whom circumstances matter. And I think that, no matter what you American Beauty fans say, it is easier to lift one's soul with a view of the woods at sunset, and thoughts of their creator, than by contemplating a discarded plastic bag, and its supermarket logo.

I'm biased, I admit it: I grew up just like Calvin or Anne or Christopher Robin, exploring the woods with only my faithful dog and my imagination by my side (returning as  an adult, I was shocked by how small that forest was; just fifteen years ago, it had been my whole world). I live in the city now, and, spending time in the 'underserved urban communities,' I just don't understand how people can raise their kids surrounded by liquor stores and graffiti. Yes, I believe the breakdown of the family is the single most influential factor in our current state of affairs, but couldn't a single mom at the least raise her innocent, curious babe somewhere in the vicinity of shrubbery? The government can mail welfare checks to the countryside, too, can't it? 

I'm not talking just about the hopelessly poor; my apartment building is full of young professional couples skilled at squeezing strollers into packed elevators. Raising my child in an apartment, with carpeted hallways instead of hills, stairwells and parking garages instead of squirrels and sparrows, I don't know, I don't think I could do it. Well, actually, no squirrels would've been nice, I hate those tulip-eating jerks.

So what do you guys think?

(As for the election season political angle, well, I bet you can just about guess my thoughts on the Obama administration's latest attack on child farmers...)

Casey
Joined
Mar '11
Casey
May 5 at 6:59pm
License To Ill

The passing of MCA is truly sad news.  I was a big fan.

Licensed To Ill was the first cassette tape I ever bought with my own money.  I carried it to school with me every day and delighted my friends with the mild cuss words printed on the cassette insert.  I haven't listened to it in years but I bet I still know every word.  I can certainly make it through Paul Revere without a hitch.

It's almost a shame that my children will never experience the thrill of holding an album or cassette or CD.  (Or, I suppose, the thrill of thrusting an 8-track into the stereo and listening to two songs simultaneously.)   They weren't just tapes.  They were my tapes.

And Licensed To Ill was my first tape.  Born in the U.S.A. was my first album.  Cooleyhighharmony was my first CD.  

I have no idea what my first MP3 download was. 

What was your first album?  What does it mean to you?  Describe your experience.

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