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I was born in Romania under Communism, though I was to young to either understand or appreciate what I lived through I have heard the first hand accounts of totalitarianism. I am a naturalized American Citizen and while I was born in Romania I am an America, as are my parents. I am convinced that all people of the world can have what America has, though I am doubtful if they will achieve it. I am always amazed by how unappreciative many Americans are of the freedoms and sheer luck they have of living in a nation that promotes the maximum potential of the individual. I am also driven mad by the fact that so many American look to Europe as a model for anything. We do not live in a perfect nation, and we never will. We do how ever live in the most prosperous and free nation to have ever existed. We are citizens of the world greatest Republic and should fear and dread the day we stop being either. 


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Valiuth
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Valiuth

Facebook has money now lots of it....it is worth 100 billion dollars. I believe that qualifies it as "To Big to Fail". 

Valiuth

Doug Kimball

While committed gay couples should have every legal right and privilege afforded a married couple if they so choose, their relationship is not “marriage.”  It is important.  Society should encourage such relationships

There is the sticking point I too often detect, in discussions of SSM. I agree with you Doug. Society should encourage homosexuals to be in stable long term relationships, just like we do with heterosexuals. But, many including some on Ricochet think that society should discourage homosexuality as either unhealthy, or improper. 

We can all haggle over what public trappings and titles we bestow onto relationships if we all at least agree those relationships are legitimate and worthy of acknowledgment. I fear though too many people don't share that view. 

Valiuth

I like John, and he is right. The idea that he is not paying his fair share is BS. It is irrelevant whether he is willing to pay more or not. Under the right circumstances I making my modest Graduate Student salary will be willing to pay more. That does not change the fact that the rhetoric of the Dems on this issue is utter BS. 

Valiuth

Yah, we should make our taxes and regulations more globally competitive and all that we all agree...but when I hear a story like this, honestly, my first impression is "screw that guy".

While I think I would be cool enough to not pass a law to punish him for dropping citizenship I would not be above being personally petty against him as a matter of principle. But, then again I subscribe to a policy of bitter and lasting vengeance in all things. 

The one law I would pass is one stating that you can never regain US citizenship after you have renounced it. 

Valiuth

Burritos are the best food on earth and when they are deep fried they become, like all food, even better. In fact one of the reasons I could never really live outside the US is the fact that I could not get Burritos. Have you tried finding a Mexican restaurant in Europe? I spent 4 months looking for one in Newcastle.... I eventually gave up and decided I would make my own Mexican food. It took me 4 hours to find refired beans, and I could not find jalapenos. 

Viva Buritos!

Valiuth

I feel one can blame the decline in hard manual labor on increased obesity too. The average Medieval diet was around 4,000 calories which is actually higher than what most people eat today. There is little indication medieval Europeans had an epidemic of obesity. The reason is that most of them were engaged in incredibly strenuous physical labor. 

Today even traditionally hard jobs like bailing hay, tilling field, digging holes, require little effort on the part of the workers thanks to technological aids and machines. A cultural push to fitness and sports would probably counteract our problems.

Valiuth

Trace Urdan

Joseph Stanko

Trace Urdan

What data could you possibly cite to prove this is immoral?  Dog meat is a perfectly safe and healthy source of protein, and in this case, free.  Burying it would be wasteful.  And yet, most people realize eating the family pet is wrong, even if they have trouble explaining why. · 3 minutes ago

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I have no problem with this example. But I find cowardly the insistence that the "defense of marriage" rests on anything other than a negative judgement regarding the morality of homosexuality. · 44 minutes ago

I think the lesson of the dog example is that there is a lot of our "morality" that is based on pure and irrational impulses. We could all think it "wrong" to eat Fluffy, but would it be right to pass a law to prevent the one odd family from doing so? 

Valiuth

Katie O: I agree with what you say about divorce Joseph. Divorce has already changed the traditional meaning of the word marriage. In our culture marriage really just means a "love match". This is why I think gay couples should be able to have civil marriages. Civil unions may be a more palatable term, but it's really just semantics. Where I get troubled is when we start talking about forcing Churches to perform sacramental marriages, or the idea that the government should be in the business of deciding what people can believe is sinful or not.  · 31 minutes ago

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The US government could not force a Religion to perform a religious ceremony, I think they would loose that supreme court case. On the other hand a religious institution can not demand that it be above criticism of its religious practices and doctrines. 

The problem with marriage is that its religious and non-religious forms are so intertwined, by the fact that government would recognize a religious ceremony as legally binding. This problem could be solved by just not removing the government from recognizing any relationships in any way. 

Valiuth

Joseph Stanko

Valiuth: Jim: With respect to polygamy. I think that there are far fewer people interested in engaging in such relations assuming all parties are free to choose. 

Ghulam is a taxi driver who lives in Blackburn, a once-booming textile town in Lancashire. He has a terrace house near his local mosque (one of 53 in the area), a silver Nissan car and a very complex private life.

For he has so many children that he struggles to remember their names, and five wives from various countries, including Yemen, Egypt, Turkey and his own birthplace, Pakistan.

I learned of Ghulam and Wasim this week while investigating a subject that is taboo in politically correct Britain. It is the huge rise of bigamy (having two wives) and polygamy (more than two) in our Muslim communities. 

She warned the Lords (and also wrote an article for the Mail on the subject) about how our shambolic benefits system is being exploited by men hailing from Pakistan and other Muslim nations who indulge in multiple marriages — with taxpayers forced to foot the bill.

Read more.

2 hours ago

Are we sure those women are really free to choose to leave those relationships?

Valiuth

Jim: With respect to polygamy. I think that there are far fewer people interested in engaging in such relations assuming all parties are free to choose. Any interest in such an arrangement quickly falls apart and in situations without coercion people usually go their separate ways as so many free love communes found out. The few cases where some strange individuals find each other and make it work are probably so rare as to be negligible. 

If as people such as Katieves  are right about claim as to the innate naturalness of complimentary and monogamy, social recognition of divergent and rare arrangements will not change the prevailing practices. Laws can't change human nature one way or the other, they can only suppress it. Those aspects of our nature that are good need not be suppressed those that are bad must be curtailed as rationally as possible. 

I agree with the idea that at the heart of SSM debate is really the question of whether homosexuality is one of the bad aspects of our nature. If it can be so argued than Katievs is right, if it is not than Trace is right. I lean towards no. 

Valiuth

Katie O

Trace Urdan:  It's not really about preserving marriage but rather about condoning or not condoning homosexuality. · 42 minutes ago

Ah shoot Trace, I was with you, but now I think you went and made katievs's point. If it's not about extending marriage to gay people, but forcing others to condone homosexual acts, that runs smack up against religious liberty.  · 2 hours ago

Is there a position that can not be defended by religious liberty? I mean religions can create whatever irrational beliefs their founders and adherents want. If your religion teaches that the Earth is 6000 years old and made by God in on a Tuesday does the teaching of Modern cosmology and its promotion by NSF run up against your religious liberty? 

When you say forced you make it sound like you will be water boarded until you admit homosexuality is normal.  That isn't what they are doing in schools. It seems to me you don't like having to compete with another ideology. 

Valiuth

Social approval of homosexuality is the the entire goal of homosexuals, and who can blame them? If I knew people thought I was unnatural and inherently flawed I might take a more vigorous stance in defending and promoting my way of life as normal too. Obtaining the right to marry is the societal seal of approval of their relationships. 

I think it is foolish of them to try to force the issue through courts and political maneuvers, but ultimately acceptance is what they need. 

Valiuth

Pseudo...abortion existed before and is independent of homosexuality. I would think actually the increase in families in need of adoption might sway many expecting mothers to choose to let their baby be adopted by a gay couple rather than abort it. 

Every last gay person I know (which isn't to many granted) are fine and moral citizens. They are not debauched hedonists, in fact I would not have realized any of them were gay had they not told me. Their relationships (those who have them) are as loving and normal as any heterosexual ones I have seen. 

I say right on Trace. 

Valiuth

Paul A. Rahe

Valiuth: Right on. The control by public sector Unions is a major problem for CA, and without that structural fault being fixed no federal aid can ever help. If they fix their structural problems, then aid can actually help to the state move from insolvency. 

That is what Germany was trying to do with Greece. They provide debt relief and aid in return for structural changes. Their problem is the Greeks will rather leave the EU than give up their ways. CINY don't have this luxury and neither do the other states. 

A responsible Fed Gov. would try to make these states see the writing on the wall, and help them make the changes that need being made.  · 3 hours ago

For what it is worth, my instinct is that the federal government should not try to play the role Germany tried to play vis-a-vis Greece. This creates an us-vs.-them propensity. If a Scott Walker emerges in California, only then should the feds offer help. · 6 hours ago

I think we agree on this, and I hope rather strongly California and Illinois get their own Scott Walkers or Chris Christie...

Valiuth

The States aren't Nations. People have moved between them and to them for as long as they have been. States also change, you will have to accept this I am afraid. The one thing you can be glad about is that Texas won't actually change into California any more than Florida changed into New York. Your best defense (If you wish to take such a crude stance) is to be friendly and overwhelm guests with local flair, integrate them into being Texan. Show them how much better things are when you do things the Texas way. 

What makes foreigners become American isn't the harsh reprimands of angry locals. Rather it is the genial American friendliness, tasty foods, fun sports, and constant affirmation of why where you live is the best place on Earth. In great American cities and towns people really want to make you know why here is so great. And you know? After awhile you come to believe them. 

No one wants to see a thing they love change beyond recognition, and turn into something bad. 

Valiuth

I wish to put forth an attempt to defend Mr. Jerry Brown, with the caveat that I really know nothing about him, and I really will be talking about some one else. 

I have recently found myself in the odd position of cheering for Rahm Emanuel. Why you may ask? Because so far he is the first prominent Illinois politician that has actually called out the fact that the state pension system is insane and will ruin the City of Chicago and the state as well. He has proposed what I think are rather good suggestions of stopping compounding cost of living adjustments, increasing retirement ages, and asking for more employee contributions to the system. This may be a trick, but I'm hopping its not because the city of Chicago has billions in unfunded liabilities. I see some hope in this. Maybe Mr. Brown sees the writing on the wall, but can't find a good way to muster the political will in what sounds like the most dysfunctional state house in the Union. 

I may be wrong, about Rahm, and probably about Brown, but darn it who else is there if not these people? 

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